Are men really attracted to their wives after marriage?
It's strange this question popped up.Just YESTERDAY I was in the computer accessory store with my wife (together 13+ years now) just browsing. She walked off on her own looking for something. I was just loitering around when I saw this really nice looking girl rifling through some items. I was checking her out big time but I was mindful that I had no idea where exactly my wife was - didn't want to get caught, if you must know.So I looked down one aisle, no wife.I looked down another aisle, still no wife.Took a quick peek at the girl again, lovely; panicked, I looked down a third aisle. Still no wife.Then the girl turned around and said to me, "Baby, should I get this?"Yeah, that girl I was scoping out like a hornball teenager was my wife. I left the shop scratching my head. Couldn't make heads or tails of what just happened.I chalk one up for my mind going soft.
At what age do women stop wanting sex?
Some, when they’re buried. Others never wanted it to begin with, and everything in between [1]. Just like with men, it seems that there’s also a “use it or lose it” factor in play, with women who were sexually active throughout life and sex positive in general staying sexualy active longer as they age.It also very, very much depends on their partners. Being with multiple partners at the same time, it’s fascinating for me to notice the differences in my personality and behavior between the two relationships.For example, one of my partners is terrible at sex - very repressed, uncomfortable, incapable of communicating about it, not enjoying giving me pleasure much (and barely enjoying himself, due to strict religious upbringing) and on top of it is taking numerous medications that are making the functional part of it more difficult.If you asked him, I’m not interested in sex any more. And, I’m not - with him. It’s a stressful, drawn out chore that I do from time to time because I love him, not because I want it or get anything out of it aside from giving him sexual relief and some physical closeness he usually avoids. (He’s awesome in other ways, sex is not a significant factor in our relationship.)My other partner is highly sexual, kinky, delightfully compatible, uninhibited and extremely invested in my pleasure. If you asked him, I’m the horniest woman he’s ever been with, and I can’t wait to get my hands on him even after the 14+ years we’ve been together. (His other girlfriend, who has passed the menopause before they first met, claims she’s never been as interested in sex as she’s now, with him - because the payoff just wasn’t there with the couple of previous partners she had.)Footnotes[1] Low sexual desire in midlife and older women: personality... : Menopause
How do I stop be attracted to women? I hate having a part of myself that desires intimacy, how do I kill that part of me?
We live in dark age where misandry is most common.Few month ago a misandrist woman burnt alive her children.Sometimes misandrists are accusing to helpless men in false rape case.Check those reality.I can remember the famous quote of aristotoleEducating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.Misandrists are just educate their mind not their heart.What you can expect from them.Sometimes for getting like and comments they give many mysogynist or gender equal comment.Thousand of misandrist woking as a fake men right activist.Sometimes they use their male friends to misguide those misogynist.There some misandrist who always says misandry is gender equalityLove yourself and your parents not them.
Does feminism advocate gender equality?
LOL! No! Never! It's about female supremacy. For Hannah: Some general ideas to support the basis include: men and women working in the same job should receive equal pay, -----they do if they're doing the same work. The lady who answers phones at the firestation doesn't get paid as much as the guys who are putting out the fires. Equal Pay Act 1963. If laws aren't enough, that's fine. In that case I feel the need to point out that 5/6 of the people in prison are men due to bias in every step of the 'legal system'. parents should set the same hopes and standards for their children regardless of their gender, ----Sure, little Suzy is going to grow up to be a professional football player. That's more realistic than thinking that little Johnny will grow up and do that. (actually, both are pretty unrealistic when you really think about it). stopping sexual and domestic violence against young women, ----Oh? So it's OK to continue sexual violence and domestic violence against young men? getting more women into leadership roles STEM careers, ----sorry but the word 'bossy' and one T-shirt prevent all that. Seriously, are YOU trying out for politics or a 'leadership role' ('mother' isn't a leadership role? Since when?). Are YOU studying for STEM job? getting more men interested in careers traditionally directed at women (I.e. elementary school teachers) ----sorry but the false accusations of pedophilia and statutory rape pretty much put the kibosh on that. Thanks feminism. , ending "catcalling", -----yeah, free speech is awful. God I hate it when people are allowed to talk. etc... ----You're the same kind of feminist you're complaining about.
Sexual Identity - Sexual Orientation?
I am a 21 years old psysical male.....the problem is that there is more to this than that.ok,everything started around the age of 14-15 when i first tried some womenly clothes on me while i was horny thinking of women,after i realised i liked wearing women clothes especially on private moments i tried to stop it,and i did succed into doing it at some degree,as a male i feel very masculine and i like women a lot compared to men,the problem is that i also have a femiminime side in me which i tried to ignore unsuccesfully all those years.The contradiction is that when i am a male i like being with women,but when i am alone and dress up i would really like to have some f***k me like a woman,i even fantasised that i was being a shemale and being taken by many guys,all this ofcourse are in my fantasies but i feel like i want to make them a reality,however i cannot because there are many contadictions.For example i do not like guys as a male and i enjoy girls alot,also i want to join the army's special forces next year and i do not think i could do it as a shemale,i really do not know what to do,seeing a gender therapist is impossible at the moment and as far as i remember i was never abused at a young age,so what is wrong?what am i going to do?It is like myself vs myself!
At what age do men stop wanting sex?
Ok so.Im 24. My husband is 31. Howcome my husband wont have sex with me? I mean, I know I'm beautiful. I dont want another man. I want my husband to want me. In every way possible. Let me tell ya.Im somewhat of a nerd. I play video games, computer games, am a huge sports fan, we both LOVE the white sox, I love Star Wars, I love military jets ( we go to air shows all the time), I was raised with fishing, hunting, camping ect. I feel Im a pretty kick *** chick. I just dont know what his problem is. Could it be the age difference? Is it stress? Im very open. I tell him everything. I've asked his if it was depression. And he said it wasnt. And to be honest, we talked last night and I asked him AGAIN and I still really didnt get a answer. He said cause I talk about it too much. WHAT THE HELL IS TOO MUCH. I thought it was the woman who went to bed with the head ache. Not the man. I know he's not cheating on me and I know he's not gay. :( I just want a little *** every now and then.
How to stop being attracted to my cousin?
Before you start saying things like "you redneck. you like incest. you hick." let me explain. Okay, I have been attracted to my cousin for a few years, and she is one of the most beautiful girls I've seen. She has the nicest butt ever and is starting to get breasts. *Every once in a while, I spank her butt.** Two nights ago, I spent the night at her house, and I kept spanking her butt. Then, when we were talking I put my hand on her breast. I kept doing that and smacking her butt. She was grinning while telling me to stop. I think she liked it but knew it was wrong. After awhile, she told me she was going to tell her brother, so I stopped. I'm attracted to her, and I really know I have to stop. Should I ask her if I can do it one more time and for it to be my last time? How can I stop being attracted to her?
Why do I attract people who have serious mental issues, and how can I stop or put up boundaries to prevent myself from becoming invested in their problems?
My father had a terrible record for choosing women, and this included my mother, but not his widow, who he married at age 70, 3 years before his death.When we were both much younger, he used to complain to me, saying, “I don't know what it is son, but I always seem to attract these crazy women.”After I had been through 2 years of therapy (because of his violence and my mother's neglect) and more doing self-reflection and self-examination, my answer to him was this:“You are the only constant in that equation Dad. The variables (women) change, but you remain constant. I agree with you having been in some fucked up relationships, but you don't attract them, you seek them out or choose them when they seek you out.The only thing changeable in that equation that will yield a different result is YOU. Zero or 1 multiplied by any variable will always yield zero or nothing more or less than what you started with. Why not focus on the one thing you have control over (you) and try being a constant greater than the value of 1.”