Big clit - insecure about it?
I naturally have a really big clit. Its pretty agrivating and im really insecure about it. Im a teenager now, but when I have sex when im older im afraid guys will think its weird. Any advice? Thanks in advance :)
My clit is large and makes me feel insecure?
Sometimes it's an okay size, still bigger than normal but bearable, but today (first day of my period) and other times it is very big and when I'm standing up I can see it. I'm 14, a virgin and I hate it, I think it became bigger than normal in my teens (a couple of years back) it makes me feel so insecure! I definitely would not let any boy near my vagina because of it, not that I would at this age anyway. I don't want to go to the doctors or talk to anyone because it is so embarrassing, it's so ugly. Ever since I was young I've done this thing where through my pants I put my hand on it and my parents used to think it was a phase and I had no idea why I did it, but now that's kind of how I masterbate and it gives me great pleasure, maybe this is something to do with it? I'm not sure! Please only answer seriously because I get very upset over it when I think about it a lot. My peers and I consider myself quite attractive and I get a lot of male attention and I'd hate to not be able to have children or anything! I'm probably over reacting but please answer!
I'm so insecure of my clit!?
I'm 14 and a virgin but I'm so insecure of my vagina. I consider myself quite attractive as do my peers ans I'd hate this to be a massive turn off in the future. When I'm standing up normally i can't see it but when I lean forward a bit I can. When I'm on the loo and I look down sometimes I can see it too :( Does anyone else have this problem? And is it a massive turn off?
Insecure about my "ugly" vagina..?!?
Ugh, so i have some days where im like, why do i have such an ugly vag? im never going to let a guy see there!, but then some days im like, who gives a **** about what my vagina looks like, we're all unique! So here, i'm going to describe what it looks like and maybe you guys can help me out.? kk, everything is large and big. so long lips, big clit, and even a long clit area. So when i lay down it kinda squishes on my bed and i'm really insecure! like ****! I am considering getting surgery for it, but (if i do) i need to get the money for it and the time and theres also risks, so idk. Most of the comments about my same vagina looking ladies out there are "dont worry, guys dont care what it looks like" but another one of my worries is that the guy wont know that i have an "ugly" looking vag and when he sees it he'll be turned off or surprised, so sometimes im like what if I just have a sign on my back saying "yo! i have one of those vaginas! just so you know!" and that way they'll be no surprises and i can feel better.... (but obviously im not going to do that) For an example, its websites like this one that really make me insecure and mad. Like, is there really a website to help guys dodge girls with my type of vaginas? Are guys thattt turned off by it? tbh though, I mean, i know i would be :$ http://www.returnofkings.com/8455/how-to-identify-a-roast-beef-vagina any thoughts? ex. guys, would you want to know ahead of time that i girl has "curtains"?
Insecure about my vagina ?
Okay so , out of curiousity I looked at my vagina and I HATE the way it looks. When I open my legs my labias stick out and they look loose to me and wrinkly my clit is not huge but it sticks out as well when I open my legs. I hate the color I have down there , it s not super dark but has some color. Is that normal? What could I do to make my vagina look more nice and healthy? I was also thinking about getting bikini wax s to help. I m insecure when I have sex. Please don t judge me.
Im very insecure about my vagina?
Based on what you're saying it sounds like you're talking about both the clitoris and the inner labia. The clitoris is contained within what is called a clitoral hood, and as that hood branches off to each side it connects to the inner labia, which are inside of the outer labia (or lips as we usually refer to them.) Many women have inner labia that stick out past their outer labia. You can't compare yourself to women in porn because those women aren't a wide representation of what you actually come across in the real world. Some women in porn are hired because they have what might be considered ideal vulvas (the entire area around the vagina) and some of them even have cosmetic surgery to enhance the look down there. Masturbation will not affect your natural structure and there is nothing to be insecure about because if your partner loves you, they will love your vagina too. If you want to get a better idea of what all different types of vulvas look like go to the website the-clitoris.com and click on the galleries there. (That site contains graphic images but it is for educational and sexual health purposes - not pornographic in nature.)
Vagina insecurity? so self conscious..?
Im a 16 year old female, Hispanic and i have a huge insecurity having to do with my vagina.... im afraid to have sex because of how disgusting it looks. My clit is like too big... its probably like 1 cm but when im turned on it sticks out sooo badly! Like triple its size and it sticks out. Not to mention my vagina lips; they also stick out but what bothers me most is that theyre so dark compared to my skin tone. My nipples are like a light brown and its just even darker. Its really embarrassing the worst part is when it sticks out when i get turned on. Im a virgin, never had sex, but i have played with myself... not sticking my fingers or anything up but rubbing... to be honest ive been doing it for so long maybe even since age 10 or 11 but i never really noticed how it looked until i hit puberty... (i hit puberty when i i was like 10 or 11 also) i thought to myself did it always look like this? Its one of my hugest insecurities and it makes me feel like i dont deserve a bf. Although i do have a bf, for almost two years. Weve never done it... although i may have this problem im.not an ugly girl, im also not conceited and going to say im soo freaking beautiful. But please people... should i look into surgery or what? Im so embarrassed ... This is such an awkward question... but honestly theres not a single person in this world i feel that i can gather the guts to ask... because it bothers me. So please i know theres alot of rude things people can say out there but im being completely serious and i want some honest answers. Thank you! Id appreciate it so much.
I’m an 18-year-old girl. I’m really insecure about my body, specifically my private parts. The reason for this is that I have a larger clit than “normal”. This has affected my self-esteem and confidence. I feel like I’m disgusting. What do I do?
Oh, honey, this matters so little. Are you sure of your gender identity? If you are, then don’t worry. You are not disgusting. In fact, tongue in cheek, you have an advantage over the rest of us. Orgasm with come easier for you.But if you are having gender identity problems, you must seek help from a professional but I don’t think that’s what you’re saying here. We are all different, we are all human and every one of us is different. You’re 18 years old, not a long time to be on this earth, no offense meant. I’m 66. And truth to tell, I wish I had a bigger clitoris. It would help, like I said, in achieving orgasm.But I think what you are worried about the most is that you are different from everyone else. I realize when one is 18 years old it is important to fit in with one’s peers. I remember that. But what you have is an advantage. It might not be what everyone else is like but listen……if we were all alike, what a boring world this would be. Conformity isn’t always good, in fact, as we get older we realize that individualism is much more important than just to fit in with everyone else. You will realize, when you find the one you care for enough to make love to you that what you have is an asset, not a liability. Trust me on this.So give yourself a break, darlin’. You, unless like I said before, have gender identity problems which is a whole different subject, be grateful for what you have. It will serve you well once you are past the “conformity” period of your life. I wish you well, listen to what I say, never feel bad about yourself unless you’ve done something to deserve it and at 18, I doubt if you have. Love yourself. We are all different, some of us are stronger than others, some of us make it and some of us don’t, but your problem is not a problem. This is also something you can trust me on. Besides, how many people see this? Only those whom you allow to see it. Own it, sweetie, it’s yours, it’s different and it’s all you! The you that makes you special, an individual unto yourself, and all of this will be a slightly embarrassing memory. Actually, I envy you. I hope I helped.