It's my first date with a girl. She's 30 mins late, so I leave as I expect better and my time is important to me. Should I have stayed or was I right to leave?
I clearly remember when I was in this exact situation once.Well, she had chosen a place that was near to her place and I had to drive an hour to get there.While I was halfway there, I realized I was running late. But, before I could send a message ( I was driving ), she sent me a message saying that she was done waiting and was about to leave !Well, I wasn't going to waste my 1 hour drive just to go eat and drink by myself, am I ?So, I immediately sent her this video -She saw the video, and I knew I had made her smile even before our evening had begun !She waited patiently for 20 more minutes to receive me !One of the best dates I have ever had !People have valid reasons. If she didn't let you know, take the initiative to ask her if anything was wrong. Use some humor and presence of mind to diffuse unpleasant situation. After all, this is your first meeting. I am sure there will be more to come. Trust me, these are some life skills that will come handy !Don't give up on people so easily ! They might surprise you !Good luck !
Is it to late? did my crush give up me?
I'm 15, my crush is 15, we met 6 months ago, and originally I was thinking just friends (i never said this) about a month I started to like her and about a month after that I got her number, we don't talk a lot on the phone, almost always through text. I had one class with her for 2nd semester, my friend introduced me to her, that's how we met blah blah, we sat next to each other all year (me, my friend and my crush). I never made any real move on her, closest I got was 3 times, 2 in person during school, I was talking and she said something that broke my confidence, once was during a weekend I text her to see if she wanted to hang out but she was busy. The things that crushed me were: fist time was when she said that she doesn't like dating people from her school. the second time was when she told me who the guy she liked was, but she had trouble telling me about him, she didn't know his last name or how to describe him and he also didn't go to the school, my friends say she said that to see how I would respond, that's the only reason I didn't give up, but I still doubt she likes me. Also at one point she gave me mixed signals like going back and froth on breaking and not breaking the touch barrier, how much of her attention she gave me, and leaning in "for music" and stuff. eventually that stopped though, now she just treats me like anyone else. I am afraid that if she did ever like me she doesn't or she gave up on me. Do you guys and gals think its to late (met her months ago) or do I still have a chance? or did she never like me?
Could I be pregnant from giving a handjob?! Late Period!!?
A a little over three weeks ago my boyfriend and I where kissing and messing around then he pulled out his penis and I gave him a hand job for like a minute or two then after I started rubbing myself but I had on thin panties and my type of panties had a hole in it. He did not ejaculate but I'm not sure if he pre-ejaculated. I'm three weeks late on my period and I have been having back pains and stomach pains. Is it possible I might be pregnant from do that !?! (I don't remember seeing any pre-*** on his penis but I'm not sure) And if there wasn't any could I get pregnant ?
If your daughter brought her boyfriend over for the first time, would you give him the “don’t hurt my daughter” talk?
No, I would not. Certainly not on the first visit, and without any knowledge that he doesn’t already treat her well.That’s the perfect time to watch how he behaves, how he speaks to your daughter, and how he handles himself. It’s like playing “I’m a detective” with the boyfriend.You can ask him how he met your daughter, does he have any siblings & does he like them, what are his parents like, does he enjoy school, does he play any sport, and listen for the answer to your questions. Watch how he responds to you, if he actually answers you, and is he a little nervous or is he very confident?Be pleasant and don’t embarrass your daughter by saying “don’t hurt my daughter” the first time you meet him. This meeting can be your “collecting evidence” meeting.You remember what it was like to be a teenage boy, right? So use what you know to watch his demeanor, his attitude, his confidence level, his friendliness (or lack of friendliness) . As you talk with him in a “friendly Dad” way, pay attention to how he handles himself. It will tell you alot without asking any questions.Besides, to confront a teen boy with a threatening statement like “Don’t you hurt my daughter”, will make him LESS WILLING to stick around for her. If he finds you to be reasonable and friendly, he will relax and you can then SEE how he will treat your daughter by how he speaks to her, or how he acts in front of you.Save the threatening behavior for when it may actually be necessary or useful. And the truth is most teens do not stay in long term relationships. It’s just a fact. This is their experimental time in their life, and none of them have any idea what is in store for them in the future. So relax just a little, and play detective. You will find out WAY MORE if you’re friendly with him than if you are a threatening presence.
Is it ok to give my boyfriend his Christmas present late?
There is no problem with giving him the gift late. Why don't you make him a batch of cookies or bake him something to bring over on Christmas eve? You could decorate them christmas style & his family can share the cookies too (: Or you can add some frosting words across the top of the cookies to spell something out, something special between you two, or something like "Santa is bringing your present late so I stole his cookies for you" Have fun with it!
Should your date get angry if you are 15 minutes late?
I think it really depends on the situation.If you are just starting to date and you don’t really know each other very well, then they might think they are being stood up or that you don’t really have any concept of time. Speaking as a woman, if I thought I was being stood up after spending the time to get ready, I’d be put out. And I would expect that you would be on time. I’d give you roughly a five minute window without giving you grief about not telling me, but after that I’d expect a text or a phone call saying you are on your way. If you do that, then I wouldn’t be mad-stuff comes up and sometimes that’s the way it goes. But if it is a habit for you to be late all the time, it would be annoying.If you are an established couple, you weren’t needing to be anywhere at a particular time, and you aren’t normally in the habit of being late, then getting mad is a little over the top, but again, a text or a call letting them know what’s up is a courteous thing to do—if only to assure them you aren’t hurt or that there isn’t anything wrong.If you had to be somewhere at a particular time, then being late is a problem-and depending on how important the engagement was, being mad at you would be justified if you didn’t call or text to let them know you were on your way.
How old were you when you had your first kiss and what were the circumstances?
SHORT ANSWERI was 15 years old when I had my first kiss, on the stairs beside our school science lab, under a very romantic circumstance.LONG ANSWERMy girlfriend and I at that time were in class 9th. We were in a relationship for about a year at that time. We were in the same class and on that particular day I made a switch and sat next to her, it was the last period of the day. We spent that period holding each others hand under the desk. It's the only period of my life that passed like recess.Then after the class ended, I asked her to follow me up stairs. She accepted my offer appreciatively. And then I led her to a closed empty stairway beside our science lab.She: “Abhishek, someone will catch us and we'll be in trouble.”Me: “Can I kiss you?”Her eyes were glittering and she was taking long breaths.She: “Someone will come?”She leaned against the wall and I lifted her face and then she buried herself in me with a tight hug. I kissed on her hairs, it had the typical smell of the Dove shampoo.Me: I asked her for the one last time, “Can I kiss you?”She lifted her face and without wasting time, we started kissing each other. The empty stairways got filled with the sound of our soft moans, her lips were baby soft and tasted like her lip salve. It was really hard to part but we're getting late. I kissed her forehead putting a happy end to our first kiss. It was magical and I was filled with different kinds of feelings, all coming at once.It wasn't like a Hollywood kiss but still we did pretty good as amateurs . When I reached home I lied in my bed staring the fan for a long time. Yes, it was that good.We're in seventh year of our relationship and I still ask her “CAN I KISS YOU?” each and every time before kissing her, I've developed this as a habit.Thank youAKGEdit#1– Since a lot of you requested to post a picture of us together, I'm going to do this and yes we're still in love with each other. And thank you for all your blessings, it means a lot to us.And yes I'm super skinny and she super cute.
What's the average age for a first kiss?
I was 11 years old when I had my first kiss. Our class teacher put us into groups for a project and I was put in a group with my crush, her best friend, and my best friend. A week later we were all at my house, working on it. My friend had to leave for basketball practice, and her's left for dance. So we sat on my bed talking awkwardly for awhile, and then her hand slipped into mine, and before I knew what was happening, we were kissing. When I was 24, I married that same girl. The chances of this happening are so low, I just think how lucky I am. My only advice to you, though, is be confident, be yourself, relax, and if anyone tries to tease you, smile back.