Is my boyfriend a narcissist, abusive, or just crazy?
Yes. I had a friend who was Histrionic/Narcissistic and this is like hearing about her. She too had a job where people praised her and she put on this huge act. She threw temper tantrums over everything. She had an attachment to her father. She constantly bragged. And more. I only put up with her for about a month. Suggest you kick him to the curb quickly and forget him.