Is he interested in me, or just being nice?
Okay, so there's this guy. He's older than me by two years, and he's really nice and polite, and really funny. He hasn't had the best reputation, but when it comes down to it, I've known him for long enough that it was mostly circumstances. There are difficult things that lay in the way, so I'd like to know if he's interested before I **** things up completely and make everything awkward. We've hung out a few times, mostly because I'm really good friends with other people in his family. He's always nice to me, but will straight up tell me his opinion if necessary. He always makes me smile. He can literally turn even the worst day, better in a matter of minutes. He talks to me regularly, a couple times a week. It's mostly normal conversation, nothing too serious, but i feel like he trusts me. He is also very patient with me. It's something I've noticed, but I dunno if it's just the way he is. If I say something wrong, he'll calmly correct me, instead of yelling at me or calling me stupid like most guys I know. He's not popular with the girls. the few that like him aren't his type, and are clingy. (I am more attractive than them, but not by an extreme amount). He's only ever seriously liked one girl, and she sort of led him on and uses him, so he's kind of shy when it comes to girls (not EXTREMELY shy, he'll say if he thinks a certain girl is hot). He also treats me like I deserve better. He's grown up around girls (his parents still married, and two younger sisters) so he respects women, so I can't really tell if it's his personality, again. on more than one occasion he's asked "why do you do what he says?" or "why do you let people do that to you?". We have a lot in common, often he says what I'm just about to add into a conversation. There's stuff to lose in this relationship, and the last thing I want is to make things awkward. What's your opinion?
How do I know if he’s interested or just being nice? Whenever we hang out he always pays, but I’m the one who initiates our conversations, also when and where we hang out. He’s kind of hard to read.
What do you know about him? Have you found out the things he likes or has a great zeal for that he would expand upon without prompting?How long have you been hanging out? He could be shy or wants you at the helm.Let him know you feel your relationship is one-sided and that you want both of you to contribute to have something to build upon.
Is he interested or just being nice.?
So I’m on yahoo answers because I’m obviously desperate for advice but this is the situation. I’ve met a man at a music festival I went to, I was with a man on a date but it didn’t work out between us. The guy I met was extremely nice, we had a lot in common, he bought me a drink, he complimented me ( said he’ll do anything for a pretty face when I said I owed him a drink back), and he was very social with me and the man I was with and asking us how long we’ve been together, and asking us do we want to hang later. I didn’t want to be rude to the man I was with but I really liked this guy. I had no idea if he was being nice or he was interested in me but didn’t want to be rude to the the Man I was with either. I’ve got his Instagram but that’s it. He lives across the country but he travels here a lot. I said on a post on his Instagram that anytime he comes back he we can hang out and he said we can! and it was great meeting “you two”.
She said yes to dinner because she's interested or just being nice?
I like this girl at work. I had my friend ask her if she was single, and she was. But my friend also went too far, and told her that I'd be a perfect candidate because I liked her, and that my friend would get me to ask her out later. She said she'll give it a try. Me and the girl I like don't talk, and if we do, it's about work. She's never showed any interest. She only acknowledges my other 2 co-workers, who happen to be girls. She never looks at me when we pass each other in the hallways, and when she does she only gives me a weak smile. And I'm sure she was starting to avoid me after my friend told her i like her. Anyway, I decided to ask her out. And she didn't even stop to hear me out while I was asking her. I pretty much had to speed walk while asking her. She eventually said "sure" in a confused way, and told me that she'd give me her number on a post it. She never once looked at me, didn't smile or anything while i was asking her out, was practically running away from me, and she just gave me her number on a post-it like it was nothing. Can a girl analyze this for me. It's mind boggling, how this girl who I hardly talk to, has never shown interest, and didn't even smile or look at me while I asked her out agreed to go to dinner with me.
Is he interested..just flirting or just being nice?
At work mostly friendly with everyone! At work everyone has each other number..it work related. THis guy that is very attractive texted me and said that he like my new look, hair nails, clothes shoes ect. I responded thanks just tryn something new..he said it really working for me and I look great! He see me everyday never say a word to me but hi and bye and know this. What do you think?
How will I know my crush is interested in me or is just being nice?
Especially when you are young, there are additional possibilities to “likes you,” and “is just being nice.”They might also want to take advantage of your self-blinded attachment to them.That makes the usual best tests, really hard to use. The usual best test, is to see whether or not they ACT on their seeming interest in you. If they just SAY nice things, and then move on without you,it usually means they are just being polite.If they involve you in activities, is MIGHT mean they like you back, but it also might mean that they hope to use you in some way. They might want you to spend money on them, or have meaningless sex with them before they then move on.So It’s important to establish your own boundaries and stick to them. Such as never “loan” money you can’t afford to give away; and never have sex with someone unless you want to have sex whether they really care or not.That way, whatever happens, at least you’ll have nothing to seriously regret.
How can you tell if someone is interested in you or just being nice?
Ask. Tell them if you are interested and cut through the BS - say, “Hi. I think you are so nice. I wondered if you were interested in me as a date or just a friend.” I see no reason to not be direct. If that makes the other person uncomfortable, let them know you didn’t say it to cause them discomfort - you found them nice and interesting and just wanted to know if they were just interested in friendship.
Is she interested or just being friendly?
Well she’s giving you some very valid indicators of interest. The fact that she laughs at your dumb jokes, smiles at you and is seemingly nervous around you should tell you all you need to know. She’s could be just as in her head as you are.The easiest way to overcome this is going to be breaking the ice. Stop waiting for a chance to make your move and make it, the longer you wait the less interested she’ll become and eventually she will stop responding to you so positively. You are at the perfect moment to make a move.Next time you see her, approach her and say something along the lines of “I’ve thought you’re really cute for some time, I’d love to grab your number. Let’s hangout sometime”. You don’t have to use any cheesy pickup lines or be incredibly smooth. She is already into you, half the work is done my friend so act! I can gaurantee if you approach her authentically she will say yes to your advances. Good luck dude. Don’t wait a minute longer.
Is the capricorn guy interested or just being friendly?
Capricorns are often spacey and earthy and have hard times getting to the point in relationships due to their own confusion in relationships. So until he figures out which way he feels inclined you will never truly know if he's being a friend or flirting. You could ask him outright which would help him think about it. They also want to become an honest friend before committing to a relationship because it makes it more meaningful to them. Capricorn Male: Emotionally confused by matters of love, slow to love and commitment