Is there any authentic aamil in Pakistan? Are there any experiences?
There are plenty, and they are decent people. But they miss out an important aspect of a comprehensive solution to magic related problems: which is that if the patient does not apply himself for the elevation of deen, then all sorts of problems overwhelm him.So along with the recitations and recipes recommended by these Aamils, apply your self to deen by going with Tableeghi jamaat, reviving sunnah, learning ilm, and all other ways that will allow you to serve deen.The one who applies himself for the service of deen, and is forever ready to serve Allah’s religion, he is protected from problems like this and others.
Anyone else just give up on trying to be a good person?
I do everything I can to treat people with respect, while most of them would just stab me in the back. I started a new fast paced job a couple weeks ago. My co worker is pretty nice, but he goes to the bathroom at the worst times. Like right when we were in a rush, he left to go to the bathroom and just left it all to me. Another thing is I would give homeless people money, but than indee the same people just sitting around, not trying to improve thier lives. I've realised that most people are just shitty. Myself included
Are Leo men Players??? any experiences with leo guys?
Listen i'll tell you some stuff in MY own words..and from my experiences... Leos.. They are ver flirtatious and very loving. They require maximun attention (i cant believe i typed that lmao) and also a lot of respect. When you first start off with a leo they tend to act a little weird..you know distant ..flirt with others...you know they are very independent. BUT...after awhile in the relationship (if its going alright and both are happy) they tend to get attached and maybe fall in love....NOW when they do fall in love and I mean some fall head over hills they CHANGE quite a lot. First they stop the wondering eye and flirting (well since they are satisfy with your love) Second they call.text.e-mail whatever quite a lot since they are very possessive and protective and have to know where you are 24/7. Third ..they are loving romantic and very attracted to the ones they love...but it this way once a leo falls in love..that badboy bad girl attitude goes away..they are for only that person...although many people say they are "players" they are quite loyal...but they have to be in love. I'll give you some good advice on dealing with him ignoring you........STOP THE ATTENTION!!!! and see what happens...be independent do your own thing...hang out with your gf's and have a ball and let him seee that your doing your thing and watch what happens...Oh and cut down on the ego stroking.... goodluck
Trouble finding the "right" guy! Any advice?
I'm on the verge of turning 19 and every experience of had with a guy has been disappointing since every guy ive encountered has been either rude...disgusting or just simply a perv. so i've bascially been single cause i cant seem to find the right guys Anywhere i go..i literally mean anywhere..so imm kind of hopeless ...any advice for finding out that special guy? will i ever truly find this person...do they actually exist in today's world? Just a nice..genuine good looking guy that actually is smart and thinks about other things besides having sex with random girls
Why do nice people have less friends? I don't want examples. I want practical experiences.
Nice people never wants to betray others, they don't want to cheat others, they never mind to point out the mistakes of others and this is why others can't match with him and finally that nice person stay on one side.There is a friend of mine who is stupid but nice also. Stupid because he go for helping others without a second thought and nice because he want to help.One day we all went for a trip to one place. After reaching there we all were walking towards the site where we supposed to go,but then I felt something wrong. He was walking towards another direction where an old lady was lying unconscious. Reason was that he wanted to help that old lady. He can't able to see her anymore like this. He lifted her up and carefully laid down providing some water and biscuits.Why I am telling this because nice people care more for others than themselves. They always try to do some extraordinary which may be a kind of stupid for others but pleasure for him. Due to his kindness acts people dispose him to the category of alone. Why? Because let him do it.Another thing is that nice people always take the risk.Here I share one more example of my friend. He is a kind of guy who take risks. All his friends supports him when he take some risk. But when the real time comes all moves away.You can see only few people stand beside every nice person because they understood them, remaining others could not.
This guy is too nice, I'm suspicious.?
You have every reason to be nervous, however 30 years go this would have been considered normal. it's sad that because of how much the world's changed we tend to see nice guys as strange now???!! I would say keep soakin up the gentlemanly-ness, but maybe wait til you know him a little better before you are alone with him. You don't want to get yourself into a situation where you might get hurt or worse. I'm assuming that you mean he looks at your chest. Yes, be a little afraid, but I know a few people...women included who have a problem with eye contactand seem to just default to the chest whether they're talking to men or women. They don't even notice they're doing it. I know from a friend, though, that abusers can be charmers. Just have your guard up...you seem to be handling it well...just keep it that way til you feel completely comfortable and confident that you know him enough. This is good advice with any guys, though...not just the nice ones. Never a good idea to dive into uncertainty. Good luck! lemme know how it goes!