Is he playing games?
This guy I was talking to told me to meet him and I said 'okay', I got ready and I texted him 'are you coming'and he said 'yeah when I finish work at 3 we can meet'later on 3 came and he didn't say anything, then I called him to ask if he was still coming, he said 'no', I told him that he wasted my time and then he said 'come to my house if you want then' why did he say this? Is he playing games?
Is he playing games with me or should I keep trying?
He cancelled the date n went to an event with his brother n friends instead is a okay reason. Cuz It was not like he lied to u n went to see another girl. If I was the guy. I would have told u something like ! Hey ! Something came up, I have to go to....with my brother and some friends because .......OR I don't think I have to say the reason. I can just say like something came up, can we do it on Tuesday for example. I'm so sorry. Also I would ask u when r u free n let u decide what day n time, so I can make it up for u. If I was the guy I would choose to tell u the reason. I would say sorry n ask u out on another day. I think this would make u feel better instead if not saying the reason. However, u said u "FOUND OUT".So if he said something came up n asked u out on another day to make it up. Even tho u didn't know the reason from him,I think its kinda acceptable. But if he lied about something else n didn't asked u out on another day right away. Then u dont have to talk to him anymore. like if he just said something like" hey ! I think we have to cancel the date". u can just respond "Okay". N U dont have to say anything. The guy must say sorry n ask u out on another day right away.If it's like a few days or a week later n he asks u out again then I don't think hes worth dating. Or u can talk to him n make him understand what u expected from him to do in that situation at least. Like how he should have acted For example: hey ! U could have told me that "something came up, I have to go to.... With my bro n some friends". And we can arrange to meet on another day. I feel a little bit disappointed. It depends on the situation tho. I don't know how he cancelled the date n what he said to u, so...
My boyfriend is too busy playing games?
Hey guys. Me and my bf have been dating for 5 months now. We see each other almost everyday. Sometimes he would go to my place or I go to his. Whenever he comes over, he would always get on my computer and start playing his games like Conquer Online. Or even when I go to his place he would mostly sit there on his computer and play games and I end up doing nothing but sleep. He is too focus on his games that sometimes i feel like he forgets Im right there. It makes me sad. And I would get mad, but i dont say anything i just ignore him and he would also gets mad at me. He does give me attention but i feel like his games are more important. I dont know how to tell him without making it sound like i want all the attention. Am I wrong for feeling this way? And that he should have his own free time?
I met this guy and he is playing mind games on me, How do I play his games?
We had started to date, but I guess i came on a wee too strong when we were getting a little close, I told him I needed a cold shower. Within 2 days he backed off. I guess he thought it was all about sex, atleast that is what he told a mutual friend. Then we decided to be just friends. 2 weeks ago he asked if we could still dance. I told him I didn't know. But after catching him all night staring at me watching my every move, I went and told him I would. Then last night, My friend asked him why he hadn't asked me to dance and he said we were just friends. What the hell do the rules change that quickly? I don't remember them ever doing that before.
Is he playing games? One day he talks to me, the next one he ignores me and then he asks me if I went on a date with another guy that I was supposed to go with. I think he knows I like him but I can't tell him straight because I'm insecure and shy.
Oh I've been there many many times.Short answer: Yes he is playing games.Long answer: 50/50 chance that it is/isnt intentional. Some men (or people in general) are just emotionally immature especially when it comes to relationships. It doesn't matter who they are. It could be: he is just not the right time, it could be he has someone already, he could be trying to play hard to get, he could be incredibly insecure/anxious and does not want to project insecurities on you, he interested and is nervous, he could also not be interested.There are varied reasons as to why this is the case. It's very subjective. Humans and relationships are a very complex combination.What can you do? Just ask him. I know you've said you are shy, but you won't know until you ask.You can just say: “Hello ***, hope you're having a good day todayThe reason I am texting/calling you is because I want to be upfront and honest, I enjoy spending time with you. Just wanting to know where you see this going so I know where I stand.”… something along the lines of the above. *don't take it too literally, its just a guide*Be careful of how your text will come across. You don't want to sound pushy, just let him know your intentions of wanting to understand your position.If it's a phone call, take a deep breath and make sure you note down roughly what you want to say.I'm sure you'll be able to gauge what the vibe is from the responses he gives.Lastly, please know that you're doing nothing wrong, try not to overthink. He just may not be the right one for you at this time. Because you don't want to force communication, a date or relationship. You want it to be smooth and mutual. Start reading about self love /confidence and practice affirmations & develop yourself. Your time will come.You will be okay.
How can you tell if a guy is really into you or just playing games?
When someone is lost in lust, they are only in love with the lust.If he is playing games with you, he has only one objective to achieve and that is physical intimacy.He will ask for nudes, he will ask for sex and he will try to force you to get intimate with him and kiss him. If you refuse, he will threaten to end the friendship.Image source: GoogleIf he is actually into you, most of his conversations will focus on knowing about your passions and your life goals. If he is playing games with you, he will try his best to convince you to go to private places like hotel rooms with him and his conversations will not have the kind of energy that will make you want to talk to him more. Do you know why? Because if he really cares about you, he will talk about his emotions and feelings and even deeper things like the purpose of life.Someone lost in lust is not going to value you for who you are.Take a closer look at the text messages which you have with that guy and the kind of conversations that you have with him in person.If he only wants you in bed, is he worth chasing?
Is it true that if a guy texts you while he's playing video games he really cares about u?
If a guy likes you, he will text you first. If you don't respond, he will text you again. Definitely likes you if he texts during video games :) He likes you if he texts right back. He likes you if his texts or more than one liners. If you're worried he doing this for any other girls, ask around. But it sounds like he likes you :) If he knew you liked him and was freaked/creeped out or uncomfortable with it, he wouldn't text you. hope i helped please rate
Why does he play this staring game for so long?
He is playing cause1. He wants that you should start thinking about him cause he is thinking about you.2. You should came to know that he is interested in you.3. He wants to talk to you but he has no other option other than to stare you if he hasn't talked you before. He is reserved nature.4. He either wants you to break ice and invokes you by his stare.5. He is not sure whether you are interested the same way,he is interested.So,to be at safer side he is doing this...to confirm6. Or, it can be that he might love playing all these games and feeling Proud that how he made the other person think about him..just by his looks..you know Self satisfaction... if he is not reserved..and considers himself very smart..7. Or he is too innocent that he don't know that he is looking at you..all the time..like happens in case of teens when they have huge crush on someone..8. Or lastly, it could be that he is not at all looking at you..its just you are feeling the same.So.its only you who can figure out..how he looks at you..if his eyes smiles or sparkle by seeing you..he is surely interested..and if you too feel the same..just give him little hints and make him comfortable..In other case,if you don't like it at all..just avoid him and look as if he doesn't matter to you..infact don't look at all if he dosn't matter to you.But considering you have asked,might be something is cooking... :P