Is Love Worth The Wait?
Yes it s worth the wait if you wait. What I mean by that is: developing an unbreakable bond with him is the first step. Learning about each other, becoming the best of friends. Telling each other secrets, keeping it interesting, oops got carried away.. Basically wait until he begins to have feelings for you and until then keep building this bond with him and be apart of his life. This way when you wait it and build up your relationship and finally have feelings for each other: it will be so worth it. Be honest with each other but sweet as well. Share great times together and I m sure it will turn out well. And if by chance it doesn t then move on. But be nice about it: if its meant to be then its meant to be. If not, then take it with a grain of salt and peruse another relationship. But I feel like you re a very dedicated person so just focus on him first with what I said above. Ask others too and use bits and snippets from their explanations to help support this main idea. Good luck <3
Is it worth waiting for a missionary male friend if he has an intention to date/visit me after his mission, or is he just using me to release his boredom?
Wether or not you wait is entirely up to you, but if you believe he may be using you to release his boredom I’m not sure what kind of relationship it is you have, but I wouldn’t stay in one like that myself (then again I’m a guy so I have a different perspective). If you suspect him of using you in that way it says more about what you think of him and of you than it does him.I haven’t heard of any misssionaries who have been bored on their missions, even the ones who left the church later really enjoyed their time, so if he’s keeping in touch with you even while he is on his mission it shows how much it is he cares for you in order to take some of his time to communicate. My cousin sends our extended family an email a week, and though I don’t really read them myself I know that several other people in my family really appreciate the time he spends sending them.When you are on your mission you don’t have much spare time, so prioritising who to message is a very difficult thing to do. If he has prioritised you over others and all you do is suspect him of using you I think you should reconsider your feelings towards him, as he is clearly showing you affection by keeping in touch.Then again this is assuming he is keeping in touch based on the frasing of the question. If you really want to know you should just ask him. Honesty is one of the beset things to have in a relationship and if he is offended by the question instead of showing concern towards those thoughts he is an idiot.
Is it worth to wait a friend who can't make you priority?
What I observed that most of the time our behaviour is reactive . And many times our reactions create stress. Because we simply react. We really don't behave what we want to. Let's take your example. When you ask question about behaviour of your friend on this platform it's but obvious that you value your friend. But problem is our ego. We strongly feel that our feelings should be reciprocated and when it doesn't happen we get disturbed. Which is very natural but it's painful. So what is solution? You have to free yourself from reactive behaviour. Just think if you are fan of Sachin Tendulkar . You will extremely happy when he scores a century and unhappy when he doesn't perform. In this process you don't expect anything from him. I advise you to try this approach. I know it's not easy. But if you can, you will be free from your problem.
Does it mean anything if a guy friend says "you're worth it"?
BINGO !! He indeed is trying to say something, wait it isn't something, what he is trying to say is he likes you, he might be in love with you, but doesn't wanna ruin friendship, fear of loosing you, fear of loosing friendship, fear of everything !! he is just trying to see your reaction to such things.If you like him, don't waste time, go tell him, and live happily ever after.. if you want him to be just friends, then don't waste time go tell him that you don't have such feelings. Don't drag it too long that he falls for you deeply and will effect his life !! Please listen to me and update me on what you did !! both of your lives are important, don't ruin them by waiting for things to go on like this. Trust me, both'll have hard times if you drag this !! All the best !!
I'm in love with my best friend. Should I wait for him or move on?
Both choices can suck, or be in your favour. Most beneficial choice would be to confess first before moving on. This ensures you’re not missing out on a mutual interest, incase he likes you too. Moving on if he doesn’t, so you’re not stuck in an unrequited love.Waiting, however, is probably the worst choice you could make. Because it doesn’t guarantee he will say me too after you do confess, and your time is wasted even if he does. Skip it, it’s not necessary. In other words, stop hoping for him to make the move.Be prepared for your heart to be broken though. Being friendzoned for so long can mean he never wanted more. But if you want to change your situation into a better one in the future, you gotta confess.Gooood luck
Should i wait for my boyfriend whos in jail now?
well my boyfriend has been in jail for about 4 months now and doesnt know till dec when hes comeing out i love him alot ive been with him 2 years and 2 motnhs and i dont know if its worth waiting i want to start a family with him im willing to wait as long as it takes but im afriad of meeting somebody esle ive tryed my best to not talk to guys who try to get with me and its not hard. i go see him every week with his mom me and her are alil close im there for her because shes depressed about what happen. so i feel like i have to be there since me and her are the only people there for him pleace HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
When you truly love someone, is it worth the wait?
in general, when you love someone, it is worth a life time of waiting. I didn't have a lifetime to wait thankfully, but there was a lot of heart ache, and from the first day I've dated her, all the pain and heart breaks seem like nothing in comparison. But in this situation, i think he treats you like a maid, not a girlfriend. From what you've said here, he rarely appreciates anything you do. You sound like a nice person, and with that, I think you deserve to be treated better. You either need to put your foot down and tell him you don't appreciate how he's been treating you and try to reach an agreement, or leave. All this after you get a job of course. Good luck.
Should I continue this 'friendship' while he gets over his ex?
This really depends on your comfort level. Do a little thinking to yourself: If you enjoy his company enough to be friends with, even if you or he starts dating someone else, then stay friends. I’d talk to him and request that affection levels be kept at a friendship level and also explain that it does mean that you might go out with someone else. This isn’t to play with his feelings, but to get expectations out in the open.Now, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t wait a bit for him if you’d like - some folks are worth waiting for. Just be reasonable about it - you can’t tell if he’s worth it until later on. Taking it easy for a month doesn’t seem like an issue, but 2–3 months does. Plus you’ll never know who you’ll meet in the meantime - just remember to have an open mind during this time. If he doesn’t initiate change in those months, move on.
Is he worth stressing over?
I really like this guy and hes also my friend. When we first met, he was really sweet and nice and fun to be around. But now its like he doesnt wanna be on the same planet as me. Whenever he sees me in the halls, all i get is a wave hi and then he just walks off. Also, he hangs around this group of older slutty girls that treat him like hes their god. i know i shouldnt like him if hes neglecting not only me but his other friends too, but i cant stop thinking about him. How do i get over him?