How do I get a boyfriend my freshman year of high school? I NEED YOUR ADVICE!!?
Ok, two things stuck out in your message. A) I think that you lack confidence (not saying this to be hurtful, it comes with the teenage territory). I think you do because of all the negative things you said about yourself. We all have issues with our body, our personality, the way we act in public, that's normal. But you're focusing on that. Concentrate on your assest, which you do have! We all have at least 1 things that sets us apart. B) A boyfriend will not make your life better in highschool. Boyfriends often break hearts, and you don't need that right now. You need to focus on establishing friendships, they'll take you much further. And sometimes, friendship turns into love. So the bottom line is, a boyfriend will NOT make you a better person, only you can achieve that. Just love you and take care of you, and a guy will become attracted to you because of your confidence. Good luck sweetie!
Is it normal to not have a boyfriend freshman year of high school?
All my friends had boyfriends and i had guys that liked me but none of them appealed to e. I never had that best guy friend or anything like that. My school is small so next year I'm a sophomore and should i strive for like a best guy friend or whatever. I also feel like I'm not living my high school life to the fullest. How do you do that? and my cousin is in college and she was telling me how she first started dating freshman year in high school same with all of her friend and my friends. Am i just a loser?
Freshman year of highschool is almost over and still no boyfriend? Normal?
Freshman year is almost over and I still don't have a boyfriend or noticed any guys interested in me.... There's this girl that isn't GREAT looking but not bad looking( not to be mean) but even she has a boyfriend... I don't think I'm THAT bad looking, and I'm not super thin like a lot of girls at my school but I'm not FAT either:/ I'm kind of shy, but I talk to guys pretty frequently. So what is it? My looks my attitude, personality, or confidence? Or am I just not good enough for the guys at my school... I'm not desperate but (ugh) I think I'm getting like a third of the way there:(not good) I'm pretty laid back, not clingy, not too girly or Tom boyish like in the middle, and I'm not a slut or anything... The other day one guy out of my whole freshman year asked me out but he was extremely unnatractive and only wanted a sexual relationship:( I've never had my first kiss and don't put out or anything like that. Any ideas why guys don't seem to have interest in me for me? I'm getting worried and sad because most people around me have had like 1 or 2 boyfriends already:( I just want to meet a nice guy but I'm unsure that's gonna happen for me:( sorry if I'm rambling but I need some answers as soon as possible so I'm not half depressed anymore.
Should I get a boyfriend during my freshman year or 8th grade year?
Getting into a relationship is not a joke, especially at such a young age.Its making yourself vulnerable, to share your heart and soul to someone. Even if you dont know that they wont crush it or accept it.You have to be smart and save yourself from heartbreak and unnecessary drama at such a young age.Males your age are also growing up and that's ok but trying to find love in someone else wont help you in the future.Just focus on school and on yourself because you are also growing up and still need to learn about life.You still have plenty of time to date guys, that's one of the advantages of being young!!!Maybe in the future when you are more mature and feel like you're ready to be in a relationship…you'll plunge into that pool.Sincerely yours,Katherine
Is getting a boyfriend in high school a good idea or not?
In long four years as a teenager, with lots of hormones and thoughts, it may seem a necessity but really isn’t. I think it’s worth to try but I wish I never tried. Let me do pros-cons list, it’s much better for a proper answer.ProsThose feelings related to love. Butterflies in your stomach, dizziness, shaking hands, extreme cold/hot body parts, can’t think of anything else properly, etc. They really don’t seem pros but you cannot act objectively while living it, so you enjoy the moment.The person you’re together with experiences almost same things and being loved one makes you feel fantastic. Your perspective changes to a optimistic one.Eventually you do the daily works together. Life gets easier, you get to know each other. You share habits, try new ones.If you’re very lucky, you find a soul mate and perfect friend for your life, keeping relationship at best.ConsIt can be a trouble for your education. I’ve had two boyfriends in highschool. One in freshman year, one in senior year. In freshman, I was already stupid and too confident about my life. With this relationship, my exam marks dropped and I’ve spent so much time thinking about him. I couldn’t concentrate on any work I did. In senior, well, we’re gonna get there soon.The person can make you live plot twists. Senior year guy tricked me for months about how much we’ve loved each other. I’ve asked him countless times if he’s not sure. We went on our first date. I was extremely shy to talk much, I thought he was too. When I got back home and asked questions, he said he wanted to break up. He literally spent the most important time of our lives, lied a lot. I’m never going to forgive him.Because of childish dreams and grand expectations, if you broke up with her/him, only God knows how you’re gonna continue your life. Some people get crushed by the disappointment, some become stalker, some try to get revenge. Some change a lot. My senior year boyfriend was also my best friend flr five years, think about it.Well I couldn’t find one more negative side but I think both lists are effective enough to give an idea about highschool relationships.I have a few friends who haven’t experienced a highschool relationship, they’re great people really and became desperate for love lately. Both of them had crushes on the girls who didn’t deserve love at all. On the other hand, I’ve lived it twice and regret it. The choice is yours.
How to get a girlfriend freshman year in highschool?
How do I get a girlfriend my freshman year? And how do I get a date to homecoming???? I'm a 6'5" tall, strong(I don't look ripped or anything but I am probable one of the strongest guys at my school. There are a lot if pretty girls at my school but Idk how to approach or talk to them. I'm bigger built to. I'm not like bear gut fat but I kinda have man boobs and maybe I'm a little fat but like I said not that much. How do I get a gf and a date to homecoming and how do I approach and talk to girls without it seeming weird
How do i get a boyfriend as a freshman in highschool?
First of all, you shouldn't want a boyfriend for those reasons. You should want a boyfriend because you meet someone that you like and care about and want to be close to. If you date someone just because you want to fit in, it isn't fair on yourself or the person you're with. If you meet a guy that you are interested in, the first thing to remember is that it is a slow process. You will not become anyone's girlfriend overnight. Start by initiating contact with this person. Say hi to him when you see him in the halls, ask them about homework assignments if you have any classes together, or ask him about what he did this weekend. Simple questions to start off with. Once you get to know him, perhaps invite him to hang out in a casual group situation, like a movie or the park with you and your friends. Tell him to bring his friends too. This way it won't be awkward and you won't be rushing things. As you start to get to know him you will probably exchange numbers, Text him or chat to him but don't do this every day, or you may be too obvious or annoying. Whenever you're together try and notice how he responds to you. Does he give you his full attention when you talk? Does he often say hi to you first? Is his body language positive? Those are all possible indicators that you have a chance with him. If you feel comfortable around him, go ahead and and ask him to hang out one on one. Try inviting him to your house for lunch or out to a movie, or even better, a school dance. Remember to be confident around him, even if you don't feel confident, act like you are comfortable with who you are. Whatever you do, don't just jump straight to asking him out. You need to be comfortable around each other first, and you should try hanging out alone before you decide to become "official". Also, don't do silly things like getting your friends to ask him if he likes you, or obsessively stalking him. And be prepared that things don't always work out. Remember, it's a process that takes time and effort, and sometimes pain, but one day it will be so worth it. Good luck! :)
How to get a boyfriend in high school?
Hey girl, I've been in your shoes. I'm 15 and all through middle school I never had a boyfriend. I entered freshman year last year knowing I was ready to date. But I still didn't get a boyfriend. The reason is, I fell in love with a senior who just wanted sex. In high school, that's all most guys want. So before you worry about getting a boyfriend, make sure if you fall for someone, it's someone who wants a serious relationship. Other than that.. all you gotta do is talk. Become friends with guys and take it from there.