Is it ok for a man to beat up his wife?
Are you asking this to validate and justify what you might have done?Or if you are the wife asking this, then you need to get out and get help now. Call the police. Tell someone.But if this is the husband asking this, then my question above is directed at you.I got sisters.And if you're wife were my sister, lets just say she was, il be doing something similar to this :‘nuff said.
I am an Indian male and my wife beats me every now and then. What should I do?
I see many irresponsible answers here.....If this is a joke then lets laugh off, but if its for real I think it's worth a serious thought.It's not only women that are oppressed, in many (relatively less) cases men are severely oppressed, most of the times emotionally, and some times physically. It's not the question of gender at all, if a human being is oppressed by another, I think that man/woman must stand up, for him/herself.So the things that you can doBefore you attempt any of these, sit alone in a place and think 100% frankly, how much of this is because of your mistakes? Is the fault on your side which is inturn the cause of her behaviour? If so please try to correct it.Tell her calmly:- look for her mood, when you think its light enough, sit with her and talk, ask her the reason, if you think it's your mistake try to correct it, if not make your point. Tell her how beautiful and romantic would be your lives if everything goes well, so that you both can have wonderful married life. Try to convince her and tell her all the good possibilities. Try taking her to a relationship counselor.Warn/Threaten her:- If the above one does not go well, man up and in a high tone along with eye contact, tell her that if she continues "beating" this is not going to go well and you may end up giving a divorce and police complaint, and she would land behind the bars. Try scaring her, if this works go to step 1. If this does not work go to step 3.Punish her:- Never ever manhandle her!! I repeat never beat her up!! All you should do is go and lodge a complaint against her. It's not at all humiliating to do it only because you're a male. You must do it if step 1 and 2 does not work, go to the nearest station and file a complaint, and give a serious thought towards your martial life and decide if you really want to continue this relationship.Hope this helps, there are always communities that can help you search for one such local community. :-)And hope every thing goes well
I beat my wife, and am very worried help?
Okay when I got home today I had a microwave and it was black, we agreed on white and I had forgotten. Anyway when she saw it she was very upset and threw a shoe at me. I was angry and started hollaring at her, our 7 year old son came down staris and looked scared so I told him to go to his room because mommy and daddy were having grown up time, after he left she spit in my face and I pushed her against the fridge and punched her twice and slapped her once while swearing at her. She told our son to come on we are going to grandmas house, I am really worried she is going to tell the police, file for divorice and get custody without visitation for me, I can't get a hold of her and am really scared I have ruined any chance of a relationship with my child what should I do please help?
I cant stop beating my wife....?
all of her friends say i should stop because it gets her down and depressed. i grew up watching my father beat my mother. it was like an inside joke in our family. like when will she get beat next? she has told all of her family and they think i should stop beating her because shes been down lately. but im used to the man being dominant in my family. and i want to stop because i love my wife more than anything. but it is such a thrill to beat her. i have never so excited as i am when im beating her. or especially right before i beat her. i dont see anything wrong with it. but all of her family and friends think i should stop. should i stop beating her at games? and maybe let her win every now and then?
HELP!!!! My girlfriend can beat me up!?
I used to tease my girlfriend about being overwieght and told her she needed to workout. I also used to manhandle her when we got into these play fights where the loser (her) always wore a french maid outfit and waited on the winner. Well, she's started working out and now she's still thick but FIRM. Everytime we fight, she dominates me. And she insists I wear the french maid outfit. Now she's turned into some dominatrix woman and she's turned me into her slut. I've started to enjoy worshipping my girlfriend and even wearing the women's clothes, but I think she's brainwashed me into liking that stuff. I really love her, but I don't think this is how the relationship should be. What do I do?
Is it right to beat a 3-year-old kid? My wife says that I'm spoiling him by not letting her beat him. What are some other options?
I will answer here from personal experience. I grew up in India where it was perfectly normal and acceptable to beat your child. And I got beaten a lot. And it took me years to come out of it. As an adult I harboured a lot of resentment against my mother for beating me. I felt betrayed. I felt like I could never forgive her for the way she exerted her power and force over me. And worst of all, many years later when I had my daughter, despite many promises to myself and best intentions, I found myself beating my daughter too. Every time I raised my hand I would promise myself it would be the last time but a few days later invariably I'd find myself hitting her. Till finally one day, I experienced some divine intervention (I won't share details here because it may not go down well with everyone) and with that, I completely stopped hitting my child. I deeply regret and feel horrible about the way I treated her and since then I believe I do my best to be a good mother, nurture her to the best of my abilities. Thankfully she and I have an excellent relationship now and I have apologised many times to her for having hit her.So to answer your question:It is very, very wrong to beat your child even if the laws of the land and culture makes it acceptableIt scars the child mentally for lifeYou are setting in motion a vicious cycle of beating - chances are your child will beat her children years laterThere is NOTHING that can be achieved by beating, that non-beating methods cannot achieveJust don't do it and don't allow your wife to do it, even if she doesn't fully understand why she shouldn't do it! You may cause emotional damage that can never be fully reversed.Alternatives to beating to discipline a child:At age 3, I'd recommend the time-out method. You can read more about it online.Talking and counselling the child once he/she has calmed downCarrying the child and holding him/her closely till he/she has calmed down and is ready to listenIt is very important to remember that many 3 year old misbehave because they are tired or hungry and not because they are lacking discipline. So before you start disciplining the child please check if he/she is hungry or sleepy! You CANNOT expect to discipline a hungry or sleepy 3 year old.
I beat up my girlfriend and she left me but now I apologize and want her back, what should I do to bring her back?
Here is the list of the things you can do to bring her back :Call her infinite number of times and annoy the hell out of her.Stalk her,meet her every place she goes and scare the shit out of her.If your parents know about this, bring them into the scene and put emotional pressure on her.Scare all her friends away so that she has no one but you to talk.Post her private pictures online and blackmail her into forgiving you.Frame her as a burglar and call the cops on her.Threaten her with rape threats to get her on board.Not promising enough?Then just let her be. How can you beat up a person you claim to love? Beating up is a distant thing. How can you even raise your hands with an intention to slap them ? Just because you are physically stronger than her it doesn't give you any right to beat her up or beat anyone up. Ever heard of an animal beating up their mates? No? Not even animals do that and you are human. You are human for a reason and that's definitely not beating up your girlfriend. Among all the living organisms we,the humans, are the only one who can empathize with others.I read the question and the first thought that came to my mind was after what you did, you have the guts to ask bunch of people online, what you should do to bring the girl, you have beaten up back? For what? To beat her up again? You are saying you apologized to her, but you aren't sorry for what you did. You just want her back, because by deciding to walk away from this poisonous relationship she hurt your ego.It's not that? You are actually sorry for what you did? Then I must tell you the damage has been done and you feeling sorry isn't going to change what she went through. So if you want her forgiveness, leave her alone.
Should I beat somebody up for hitting my girlfriend?
If you get involved with a physical altercation then you will or could be charged in a domestic fight which could cause you to lose your gun rights as a felony. Not worth it, ask her if she will press charges and support her with a safe haven. Yeah, it's easy to want to do this guy up real good and make him cry like a ***** that he is, but you can ruin your future getting in the middle of a domestic and it could be fatal if he has a hidden weapon and pulls it. You and this woman could be in real danger and it's better to let authorities handle the heavy lifting. She can get a restraining order and file on him for the domestic. Then the crap will probably hit the fan, so be prepared with a plan on safe haven for both of you if that is the way you want to roll with it.