All my friends have had sex and I haven't.?
dont worry about what everyone else is doing or not doing and dont have sex because u think everyone else has sex is a big deal and u shouldnt just do it bcause ur friends are im a senior in high school and have an older boyfriend and most of my friends have had sex but me and im just fine with it because i know im not ready...the time will come but dont rush it and always be 100% sure if what ur doing is right for u and dont let anyone talk u into thing u dont want to do.. and always be safe
I Am 13 1/2 And I Haven't Started My Period Yet. All My Friends Have, Can You Tell Me Why?
No one can say exactly when you'll get your first menstrual period, but you will get it some time during puberty. Puberty is the time in your life when you begin to become an adult. This means a lot of growing and changing - both inside and out. Some girls start puberty at age 8, and others may start as late as age 14 or 15. Each girl goes at her own pace. So don't think you're weird if you start puberty a little earlier or a little later than your friends. For most girls, their first menstrual period, or menarche (say: meh-nar-kee), begins about 1 1/2 to 2 years after breast development starts. In some girls, the time from the beginning of puberty to getting the first menstrual period may take only 6 months; for other girls, it may take longer - up to 3 years. Every girl is different, and there is a wide range of normal development during puberty. A good sign you're getting close to the time when your first period will arrive is if you notice a thick, white mucous discharge coming from your vagina. Usually, this happens for a number of months before you get your first period.
Im 15 and all my friends have had sex. I haven't kissed a girl..?
I am 15 and me and this girl really like each other. My friends have had bj's and my best friend has had sex with his girlfriend more then 20 times. He tells me i should get a girlfriend, which i want but i am way too nervous. I haven't kissed a girl either, the girl that likes me has kissed boys before. I don't know what to do. I haven't kissed a girl and all my friends have been laid, i feel left out. What do i do?
I'm 14 and haven't hit puberty but all my friends have even my younger friends HELP!!!?
sup buddy!! guess what!? youre normal!! haha. there is honestly nothing to worry about. while i dont remember exactly when and how i went through puberty...im 19 now so that was a few years ago haha...it seems like youre doin ok. as far as height, dont sweat it man. i was always the tallest and trust me, its just as bad as being shortest. besides, your head is safe from low hanging objects lol. at 14 and 5'4, youre not too bad dude! a lot of guys hit their major growth spurt around 14 or 16 and keep growing till 18 or so. the body hair is a sigh of puberty, so youre definately growing up man! besides, some guys just arent hairy. ive got college buddies that dont shave and theyre 20. i have to shave every day. everyones different. youre ok haha. ok as far as everything...down there haha. youre cool man! itll grow haha and soon most likely. you probably just wont notice it. i mean you look at the guy every day so...an inch is about where you should be. maybe a but behind but dont sweat it, really. itll grow to where it needs to be soon. by 16 itll be longer im sure. and then it gets thicker. but hey, if its a problem and youre worried, talk to the doctor. he or she knows how its supposed to look and theyll help you. (dont be embarassed to ask. its cool). you should grow there soon haha. oh, and all this stuff about being like 7 inches or a foot long there...its crap. normal is about 6. if youre 5 or over, youre good haha. ok bonus question time! yes and no. you can if you eat right and exercise, but you can also put it on, though its a lot easier to lose it than gain it lol. you may store fat in your chest and get "man boobs" but its normal and they will go away if you eat well and work out some. if you want to lose the weight, eat healthy. drop sodas and youll shed pounds faster and it helps with acne when you start to get it. as far as working out, be careful since youre growing. too much weight and if you dont do it right you could do SERIOUS damage to muscle and its bad. (dad was a body builder and i grew up around weights. so im not making that up haha). youll also thin out when you hit a growth spurt :) hope this helped man! good luck in life and growing up! feel free to message me if you have any more questions or need to clear anything up. later bud!
All my friends have started their period, But i havent..?
Hi there :) Aw, it's okay. I felt exactly like you at your age! I honestly thought I was some sort of freak or medical abnormaly or something, but I was nearly fifteen and I got it. Turns out it kinda sucks lol but I understand your concern. Basically, the 'official' sign that you will start is just discharge (clear, whitish stuff in your underwear) but I was getting that for literally three years before I got my period, so that's not always a foolproof way to tell when it will come. You're definitely normal. It'll come, don't worry. Just carry a pad around with you just in case - I made the mistake of not doing so! Good luck :)
I’m 12 and haven’t started puberty yet. All my friends have and their breasts have grown started their periods, but I’m still flat on the chest and all I have is discharge. Is their something wrong?
When I was a kid, 12 was normal or even early. These days kids are going through puberty earlier and earlier, some say that is due to too many hormones in our foods. 12 is pretty normal and even up to 14 or later. See your doc if you are concerned but I think you are just fine, the other kids are just early.
All my friends have hit puberty, but I haven’t. I’m 12 years old. Should I be expecting some changes soon? All my friends are a few months younger than me.
I wish I could say “please don't expect any changes, things will change, but even science cannot predict the timing for each person” ..however, as you have posted this question, you are obviously hanging out for one or more particular changes to your body.Since you are waiting and watching those around you closely, what are the changes you wish were happening? And what is the rush?I am female, with no history of health or hormonal issues. I didn't even start puberty until I was nearly 16 yrs old. I was also a year ahead at school. This made me the most childlike yr 10 student ever. (This is 2 years before school graduation in australia). Fortunately I had never been mentally in a rush to experience puberty and because I was an avid science student, I was really aware of all the changes that came with puberty and so glad they did not start affecting me until late. I may have felt differently if I loved sports.My sister, same parents, started puberty at 11. So unfortunately you can't even use family as a predictor for your experience.As I was short, I was glad my period didn't start til after I was 16 because it meant that I still had at least 2 years of growing potential. This is something most girls don't know, once your period starts, there is generally about 24 mths of growth/height change to go.Obviously if you're a boy, that is quite irrelevant to you.Perhaps you could post another question asking people of your gender, when puberty started for them. And if they had been looking forward to it, was it as they expected.I hope you don't feel too preoccupied about this situation. Wishing you clear skin, no pain and limited distraction/personality change due to hormonal shift
My friends have seen half of the world and I haven't been outside my hometown. I feel very bad. What should I do?
Stop comparing your life with another person.I went to New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco and Mountain View through work in 2013 - right out of college. I posted pictures on Facebook of my travel to share with friends and family. One evening I met a friend who was studying at the time and she complained to me that her life was boring, she had never left her home town and seeing my photographs made her sad about her own life. This is when I realised how wrong we all are in - comparing ourselves to others and idealising their lives. What my Facebook pictures didn't reveal was - I was working 18 hours a dayI was skipping at least one meal a day because of the overload of workI was mugged in SF and was at gun point (yes, I could have died!) My mother was in the ICU for a week while I was on another continent You can never know the struggle because people don't share that. Stop idealising your friends lives and indulging in comparison - it's like poison, it spreads fast and before you know it you're stuck in a vicious cycle of self loathe. We all have our own life journeys and so the experiences and timing of experiences of two individuals can never be the same.
Is it bad that I'm 17 and single? All my friends have had girlfriends and I haven't even had a first kiss or held hands with a girl.
No there’s nothing wrong with you though I understand being the only one single in your friend group. If only you were all single and hanging out huh?Didn’t kiss anyone until I was 21. Didn’t do anything more than that until I was 23. Didn’t have a real relationship til I was 24.I sure do know when I had my first heartbreak and this current relationship that being an adult is so much more FUN than 17.Pros:You’re both adults and should have more money and your own place. Might not be the fanciest place, but you don’t have to sneak around mom and dad.You have money. (any little bit) to go to the theater in the mornings for discounts, go out eating, cooking for each other, and just talking and being loud playing video games because if you’re a responsible adult (the bills are paid including retirement) so your fun time is all with them.Sure, you have to clean up and do laundry when -private times- is over, but so what? The laughter and just even watching a movie together is so nice with your “own” place and since you’ll be older you’ll likely have some saved up money so you’re not living like a poor student anymore. —Ok I earn much less than my partner, but I’m not eating ramen, or plain microwave pasta anymore with tomato sauce for taste. Gah. Now I have protein! Like beef and chicken anytime ANYTIME I want!You’re also learnt a lot from your friends bad/failed/ mistake (take back their crazy ex fake pregnancy scare and then repeat with you trying to say hey bro she’s hot but not worth it-also you think she’s ugly but say nothing)^yea money means more dates and nice places to go / see bring back your date because it took me many coffee/lunch/dinner dates (where I pay 100% or 50%) over 3 years to find a quality partner.I cannot promise when you’ll meet your girlfriend, but I can advise you to listen and read about how to observe properly and take notes from your friends relationships. Who had good girlfriends they threw away? Who loved with all their heart and was dumped and what were the red flags if any, that they ignored? Those sort of things helps weed out bad people men and women because how you treat someone you “love” or I guess at least “care a lot about” says a lot about the person too.