How is the life of a divorced man in India?
Divorced life goes from awesome to sad - you experience every shades of emotions. The only difference is this time you have to deal with it all alone.Its been 15 months since my divorce & things have changed a lot. The idea of life without the person I dont have anymore is dreadful.I initially denied the fact that am all alone now. Anger was obvious. How could she do this to me? What was my fault? and tons of similar question flooded my mind.So, this is my life after divorce:My Family & FriendsLive with parents now.Communicate less with dad.Do babysitting gracefully for my niece.Have good repo with siblings.Still dont speak for myself to anyone.Friends don't know about divorce.I try not to disturb parents & other family members for my stuff.My Sunday & HolidaysFor me some weekdays are good & some horrific.Sunday haunts now. Nothing to do.Now I get up early on sundays & holidays too.Make plans for holidays, but dont execute them.Go all alone for movies now.EatingNo eating out. NO fast food.No special demands at home too.Absolutely good with whatever mom cooks.Sweets & ice-creams no more on list.My WorkplaceNO leave from work now.No reason to go home early.NO negotiation for upraisals with boss.Finish assigned work before deadline.Invested free time to make money by doing part time work.My New HabitsStarted working out regulary.Controlled over eating habit.Snoring has stopped.Watch webseries instead of TV programs.No fight for remote & newspapper.No more procastination.Now speak less & listen more.GeneralTransformed from XXL to XL.Have learnt to say NO.Learned to buy my stuffs.Skip social gatherings often.Have ample of free time now.Like reading. so I read a lot.Have sleepless nights often.Do cry sometimes. Do feel pain.Stopped explaining others about my divorce.Not interested in materialistic things now.Feel like full of energy & life sometimes.I think everything is normal. But never it is.Now I dont bother about things that I dont have.Never order anyone for a glass of water or cup of tea both at home & office.Finally, have made peace with myself & the loss incurred. Nothing has stopped. All those thoughts & memories do surround me once in a day, but now the intensity has reduced. I have learned to cope up with all these. Bit by bit am moving on.
I want to play electric guitar, but my parents wont let me?
okay. A person called me a brat....huh..Well your parents gave you good manners(sarcasm). wel lyou know what. I quit karate because I HAVE A FOOT PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!I STOPPED SOFTBALL BECAUSE OF THE FOOT PROBLEM!!!!!!! I QUIT GIRLSCOUTS BECAUSE ALL THE GIRLS HATE ME BECAUSE IM DIFFERENT!!!!!I STOPPED PLAYING VIOLIN BECAUSE ITS TOO DIFFICULT AND I DONT MATCH WITH IT AND MY GRANDMA FORCED ME TO PLAY IT!! IMMA PUNK-ISH MUSIC INDUTRIAL/CYBERGOTH PERSON AND I WANT TO PLAY GUITAR BECAUSE I WANTED TO WHEN I WAS YOUNG. SO KEEP YOUR SELFISH UNKIND WORDS TO YOUR SELF OR YOUR MOM!
Who is more mature, men or women?
Reading this question puts me in great enigma to what ..rather how shall I answer this question. Still, I ll try..I think girls today are more mature and practical than boys, though them having the logic part might be debatable(pun intended) but you have to realise it takes special talent to be Alia Bhatt..Maturity comes with age-true..but it comes handy with responsibilities. A middle class girl I think is much more mature than a guy of her age. Reason being the upbringing.This doesn't make the boys less mature than girls..but boys you have to agree that a girl's upbringing is indeed different than the way you had been brought up.Women handle trauma and emotional breakdown more sensibly than boys.After a breakup girls handle themselves better than boys.Boys have ego..girls have feelingsGirls are more attached to their family than boys.Boys forget but never forgive..girls forgive but never forget.They are more economical than boys .They can endure periodic pains, nausea, cramps, back achs, dilation pains, that's why nature endowed them the privelege to give birth.P.S- The above info is mere experience with the girls I have known till now..some may prove complete opposite to the ones described above…maintain healthy distance from them to prevent any fatal damage.
Is listening to heavy metal/rock music sinful?
No. I listen to heavy metal/rock to & I'm catholic. Honestly, I don't get why people are always judging the music we listen to or the way we dress. Okay so I grew up being told that god created everything & created who WE are by writing our story or whatever, then why judge us & our music? God made us that way didn't her? He chose how I would, look, dress, act, etc So those people who say "God hates metal" no he doesn't he hates NO ONE it doesn't matter if we worship him or not.