My ex boyfriend died last weekend and my current boyfriend is jealous I'm grieving... what should I do?
To be honest, I'm not quite sure what to say. But I know one thing for sure; your current boyfriend is in the wrong. where I can understand where his feelings of jealousy are coming from, he should put that aside and be supportive of you. I think you should have a serious talk about this with him that your feelings of grief are natural, that he is being rather ridiculous, and that you need your comfort. By the way, I'm truly sorry for your loss.
My ex doesn't want me talking to other girls yet has a new boyfriend?
The term EX means just that. Use to be. Not anymore, Cancelled, Closed, And to what owner rights does she have to dictate how you're life should go? Especially since she has a boyfriend. come on man up to her and tell her to mind her own affairs, if she even still wants to be able to talk to you. That she's working on more than ex girlfriend, but also ex friend. Not even if you were still together she doesn't have any right to tell you who to talk to. Stay away from those kinds, they are jealous, controlling and it just wont work. Its time wasted. Do not make the mistake of getting back together with her, as she has shown how easily she can replace you. she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Too bad, there just aren't enough available men in this world for her to have two. Get on out there and enjoy your life. good luck
New boyfriend treats me so well but I want my ex back...help?
Ok, so I have a new boyfriend who treats me excellent. He even gave me breakfast in bed this morning! He holds me and tells me he loves me and misses me...all of these things my ex would never do for me. However, I miss my ex. I feel like I should really be falling in love with my boyfriend because he's so good to me and treats me so well (so I really want to give this guy a chance) but it's weird because I miss my ex-boyfriend (who is kind of a bad boy and is rough around the edges). Like when I am with my boyfriend I think of my ex. My ex does want me back too and promises to treat me better (ex. tell me he loves me more). I dont know what to do. I think I am still going to try with my new boyfriend--I really want to give him a chance and hope that with time I will develop more feelings for him. What do you think? Anyone else been in this situation? Like if you date a nice guy, you miss the "bad boy" kind of guy you were with before?
Should I talk to my ex-boyfriend if I'm in a relationship?
No good can come of it. What are your intentions? Cultivate a platonic friendship with a smidgeon or residual feelings or love sprinkled in? Do you need a friend who has his unique insight to you ar an intimate level? To what end?And how would you feel if your BF chose to the same with HIS EX. Is friendship and being a lover to you NOT enough? And if you did start up a friendship, would you introduce him to your BF so that you share him as mutual friend to both of you as a couple? Or is he going to be your exclusive GUY friend with a romance history and that that friendship is to sacred to allow your BF to be involved in any way.?Most couples who make new friends, make them as a COUPLE. But to to deliberaty RESUSCITATE an old romantic flame for the purpose of diverting your exclusive attention to refracting t as a platonic friendship doesn’t help forge a stronger, more intimate relationship with your BF, who is, in the running to be your FUTURE lifelong partner. Why invest in the past? And if you had the bandwidth to let more people into life, should that be a person who facilitated your current path with your BF and other goals?Unless you both became friends after the breakup and before you met your BF, then it wouldnt be a problem. But I do feel strongly that relationships are hard enough to maintain. That’s just my opinion. But honest with yourself as to what you are really hoping to get out of restating communications with your ex? Most people do that because the line feeling like the still own a piece of their EX. But that’s a selfish and foolish gap to plug because it puts your current and potential future husband relarionship at risk.
What if my girlfriend still talks to her ex?
She hasn't completely broken up with him. It is what I like to call "break-up hangover". I was in a similar situation, but the role is reversed, I was in you gf's position. It is that fickleness that pops up while breaking up, "Why can't we be friends? After all I spent so much time with my ex, there should be no harm, right?" WRONG! Initially it was fine with my current gf, my ex and me. But in the end no one is happy - it is the formation of a triangle. During this period, my current gf would constanly be checking up on me to see if I spoke to my ex. My ex would compare herself to my current gf to see where our relationship went wrong. I would have to prove my every action to these girls, even though my intentions were honest. In the end it was mentally exhausting for all of us, the pain increases for all of us, and it affects other areas of life as you are occupied with the thought of losing both of them. The reason I am with my current gf is because it didn't work out with my ex. Yes, I had a great time together with my ex, but I am sabotaging having a good time with my current gf. So to prove that I am honest to my current gf I did this:1. I cut off all ties with my ex, I did it in front of my current gf. I told my ex we needed to move on and wished her luck in finding a partner she wanted. There is nothing one can do - it usually turns out to be an abrupt end, and this is what everyone hates - the abrupt end.2. Delete all chat records - facebook, hangouts, whatsapp etc. And delete all contact numbers of ex. Again, I did it in front of my gf. Yes, it is sad and hard to delete shared photos and places visited - the memories which you believed would have lasted forever. 3. I let my gf access to all my social media + personal email access etc. To show I am not hiding anything from her. This was done to regain the shaky trust. She is free to access my personal stuff even now, but she respects my private space. Now, we both are happy.What your gf is doing is totally unacceptable and will ruin your relationship, give her an ultimatum.
Ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend. How do I get over him?
sometimes you just gotta move on and deal with hard things like that if it was ment to be its ment to be if its not it just means theres someone out there better than them you will live more happier with trust me we all go through the same things if he loves you then hel relize it and come back to you if he doesnt hes truly not worth your time.
My ex wants to hangout with me, but I have a boyfriend. HELP?
My current boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. Were really close, and in love. He's the nicest guy ever and I love him so much. I only dated my ex for like a month, and we broke up because he was 'talking' to another girl. At first I was sad about it and my ex wanted nothing to do with me, but once I met my boyfriend I was fine. All of the sudden my ex has been texting me saying that he misses me and stuff. He wants to hangout with me, and I've told him I can't because I have a boyfriend but he keeps asking me. My boyfriend's out of town until Sunday, and I've been considering hanging out with my ex. I don't like my ex at all, and if I hangout with him I will not do anything with him. And I'll make sure it won't be just us. But I'll feel bad because I'm hiding something from my boyfriend, and I know that if my boyfriend wanted to hangout with a girl I would freak out. I don't necessarily think my boyfriend would get mad, because like I said he's really nice, but I don't want it to be okay for him to hangout with other girls. I don't want to hangout with my ex, but he's leaving to go into the army after graduation and if something happens to him I'll feel bad forever. But I don't want anything to ruin the relationship with my boyfriend, because I'm in love with him. What should I do???? :( Thanks for the help.
My ex boyfriend messaged me and I responded, should I tell my current boyfriend?
Here are all the reasons why I would tell my boyfriend, were I in your shoes:Because the exchange was at least mildly interesting and I'm bored and feel like talking.Because the subject matter of the exchange involves my boyfriend in some way that inspires me to ask for his input.Here are all the reasons I definitely wouldn't consider legitimate for telling my boyfriend:Boyfriend gets anxious/panicky when I talk to exes (or men generally) and so I feel forced to tell him so that fifty-six alarm bells don't go off in his head.Boyfriend doesn't trust me and requires that I share my private messages.So basically, if I were you, I'd tell him if I felt like it but never to accommodate distrust, insecurity, or controlling tendencies.As a general rule though, I am exclusively interested in dating people who don't have those issues, so I'm skeptical I'm going to be finding myself facing list number two very often in my lifetime.
How to stop loving my ex boyfriend?
You need to get all the things that your ex gave you or things that remind you of him, (pictures of him or with him) and throw it all away. Don't go into his Facebook, delete his number off your phone.. First you need to deal with your broken heart before you try to give it to someone else. You are not doing your current bf any favors by keeping this all inside and trying to "pretend" that everything is ok cause it's not. You probably said YES to his proposal to try to move on, but that's not a good enough reason. Your fiancee deserves someone who is going to love him as much as he loves you, or maybe even as much as you loved your Ex. Sometimes women don't really love their exes still, they just can't seem to get over the fact that they broke up with them and moved on. Usually you just want something that you can't have anymore... it was once yours and in a womans mind sometimes you want to know that you can still have it. Good Luck!
Should I tell my ex boyfriend how I'm feeling?
Don’t.Why? Look, let’s be rational. You have broken up. It is irrelevant what he says now. Words are words. Here, let me illustrate: “Hi OP, I love you.” There. That took me 3 second to write and would have taken me 1 to say it.He does not want to be with you and as per your own question, neither do you. Assuming you were honest in your break up.What you are feelings are is sadness along with withdrawal (or loss, if you prefer to see it that way) and in your head, your brain is thinking of ways of minimizing those feelings so a part of your head is telling you to contact him. I get it, two years is not pocket change.But it is a fool’s errand. You will feel better for a little bit but in the end, it changes nothing, does it? You will be back to square one soon enough, except that now you have elongated your feelings of sadness for however longer your feelings keep this up. Which will be longer than if you had not contact him. You will feel silly for having given in, specially if the conversation does not go whichever way you had imagined it would go.Keep it no contact. Bare through it and trust me the feelings will pass.