Is it bad to never tell anyone how you feel?
I have a tendency to bottle up my emotions and not tell anyone how I feel because I am bad at articulating my emotions. I pretty much just build a wall and put all of my emotions behind it so that no one else around me will see my sadness but every once in awhile the wall will crack and a wave of emotion will just crash over me. I will then just spend the rest of the day in my room crying and considering many things such as cutting. I will feel worthless. Would if be better if I told someone how I feel? I feel like if I told someone they would look at me like I am damaged or fragile. Plus my sister doesn't particularly like people that cut even though that thought crosses my mind.
What is that one thing about you that you will never tell anyone?
It was back in January 2016. I went to a brothel house in Nagpur.Actually I was studying in another city.I had to go via Nagpur and I had to wait in Nagpur Railway Station for nearly 3–4 hours to switch other train to city i am studying in.Actually I was also new to nagpur then. I read on internet that there is still prostitution going on in Ganga Jamuna area of Nagpur. So, Out of excitement and craziness, I decided to go. But I was really afraid of the police. I kept my luggage in cloak room and took an auto to that area and that auto driver took me to a busy street where there are number of girls calling men going on that road. Felt very shy to go to them. Then a girl called me and took me in. She emptied my purse and finally done with the work. I returned to railway station and took my next train. There was lot of excitement before doing sex, but immediately after sex, my feeling was “I shouldn’t have done this. I am very Bad.” Feeling of guilt started and that incident didn’t leave my mind for many days. It became a nightmare and disturbed me a lot.Trust me sex is only 2 min of pleasure. But it gives more pain and guilt than pleasure. Refrain yourself from sex until marriage .This is the thing I never never shared with anyone in my life.
Santa Claus? Anyone else feel this way?
Its just suppose to be for fun, everyone is entitled to there ovvn opinions and beliefs though. I dont consider it as bad because theres a difference betvveen lieing and pretend. Thats like telling your kid they cant have an imagination and pretend to do something because its not real. If you child has an imaginary friend are you going to tell them they are lieing and thats vvrong?? There's no harm in pretending that theres a santa claus, its not vvrong and I dont really consider it a lie, its just suppose to be for a good time and fun for your kids, but if you feel that its harmful for your child and is for same reason shovving a bad example then dont do it, everyone is different though.
I'm in a bad place right now (mentally) and I'm afraid to tell anyone what do I do?
I don't really want to talk to people, I have it that I just can't articulate what I'm thinking, and that no one can understand. What I want is to do something, I know it seems irrational to want but all I want is to know what I'm supposed to do and how to do it, I'm not really depressed just messed up, I dunno, I just want to fix it myself, I hate being a burden upon others, I really hate upsetting my friends, that's what makes me depressed, seeing my friends upset, that's why I don't want to tell them. Any for anyone who is telling me to do religious stuff, Australia isn't really a religious country and I'm not a religious person, I've studied philosophy for part of my life and have my own views. although I appreciate it, really I do. I'm sick of being like this, I've always been messed up, I really try to be happy and to make others happy. Being alone is the worst thing, It just leaves me alone with my thoughts. Just tired of this, I'm over it.
Is it true if you dont tell anyone your dream will it come true?
It doesn't matter who you tell, but only you can make a dream come true. Of course there are lots of exceptions. But in general, no, there is no relation, and dreams don't come true because you dreamed them, they come true if you make them come true. I once dreamt a situation, and the next week there were similar circumstances but unfortunately the same things didn't happen. Dreams are your desires, they are also a look back on your thoughts on that day, and can be effected by almost anything you do, or want.