Is it better to have no friends or bad friends?
In a situation like this I feel it is better to have no friends. In fact, even when you mixed with these people you still had no friends - because a bad friend is no friend at all.By staying free of people who are harmful to you, you create space in your life for others to come in. You get rid of the negative vibes that toxic ‘friendships’ surround you with.Yes, it’s difficult to remain alone when there is so much pressure to be in company. But in time things will change. You will meet other people who share your outlook on life, who value honesty and loyalty.Until then, follow your good instincts and avoid your ex-friends as much as possible.
Is it better to have no friends or fake friends!??
I find that true to the core friends can be found with a open eye and assertiveness. If it's truly in you to have a friend you can trust, then you must trust yourself enough not to become embarrassed or jaded if the friend does something you do not like, you simply must bring it to their attention, show them it's unacceptability, and positively reinforce it in their minds. With words of encouragement and praise when they do things that contribute to a good friendship. As much as it sounds like training a dog, you'll find that when put into worldly practice, it couldn't be more correct. Find a Friend. Immediately bring unacceptable behaviour to attention. Positively reinforce them with praise and / or encouragement when they do things that represent a solid meaningful friendship. Always be true to them with what you think exactly and be niether embarassed nor ashamed of this, how you feel spreads. So if you're embarassed about something you think or feel, they'll pick it up and it'll spread like wildfire through gossip. Some personality types are incompatible and constantly coniving. There is no way around those and I don't suggest dealing with them. Usually the best friends are those who think like you do, with not a very loud or solid sense of what is to be done and what isn't to be done in a world. Similarities and an Open mind are essential. Be comfortable with yourself and others will be comfortable with you. If you take gossip and embarassment personal, you'll easily push yourself out of loops. Karma is real. You get what you put in the ground. What you put in you get back. So be sure to put in positive, encouraging, nonthreatening, confident, understanding messages, and you can be sure you'll never have an insecurity exploited, and you'll always remain friends through it all.
Is it better to have no friends than to have bad friends?
Both are two extremes!Being yourself and being happy is more important than both I would say. If you feel the people you are spending time with do not add value to your life or make you happy; you shouldn't bother with it.If you feel being alone, reading a book, sleeping or just playing a video game inspires you, you should do just that.Ultimately, as human beings we are like lamps with the need for oil to burn. For me personally, positive and happy people inspire me to live my life to the fullest. I enjoy spending time with my circle of friends. When i spend time with them, i am inspired , refreshed and feel positive and happy.Therefore being happy with your decision is more important than a bunch of opinions on Quora. Hope that helps.
Are bad friends better than no friends?
Friends are food for happiness.So the question arises; Is bad food better than no food?Answer: Depends on how bad it is.If your BAD means something like few faults in your friend then I would like to remind you that Nobody is perfect. You have few faults and so do they. It is best to accept the good from them. Appreciate them for their good and make peace with their bad. (In case you can't enlighten them about it)However, if your BAD means that friend will cause you your personality, your happiness, your self-esteem and self-respect; then it is not worth it. It is better to be friend-less in that case.~hrk
Is having a few bad friends better than having no friends at all?
Honestly, I'm in the same situation now. I had a horrible group of friends at high school and they were forever back stabbing each other, and me in the back. But what I did is wait until the first opportunity to try and loose them as friends and make new ones, which is maybe what you should do if they bother you. I am off to college after summer, the college none of them are going to, so I want to have a fresh start. As I said before, my advice is wait till you can leave then, then start again, sounds harsh but its what I did.
Is it better to have no friends than the wrong friends?
I once found a very beautiful watermelon. Beautiful because it had a fresh green covering. And when I asked the fruit vendor if I could see the insides of it, he just put in a little cut and showed me. It was red as blood.Seems tasty doesn’t it?While coming back from the market, I was very hungry. I could almost imagine myself going home and enjoying that one hell of a watermelon!As I reached home and tasted it, there was a shattering sound; that of my castles in the air being broken. It was more tasteless than any other thing I’ve ever devoured.This incident left me with a lesson. To check my watermelons ,nah, any fruits, properly before I bought them. Now, had I not bought that watermelon, I wouldn’t have had some of the best fruits I’ve had, post that incident, till date.Coming back to your question, wrong friends leave you with lessons. Those that even your best of people couldn’t teach you. And what you are left with are some of the best friends with whom you can discuss about those wrong, tasteless watermelons and have a hearty laugh!Cheers!
Is it bad to not have friends?
well, i used to live in Michigan and i have 4 best friends. i would do anything for them(literally anything). but i moved to South Carolina about 2 months ago because my dad got a job here. I talk to my friends one time per day. im always in touch with them. but here in south carolina, i have no friends at all. like, i already tried talking to like 20 people but they all ignore me and they all think that im weird. i go to school and pretty much do nothing. i'm not a easily boring person but here, im bored all the time. so, is it bad for me to not have friends and what would you do if you we're in my case. BTW im 15
Is not having any friends better than having dumb and bad friends?
If I judge my friends to be “dumb and bad,” then I am not much of a friend to them. If that is my attitude in life, then it is not surprising that I have few friends.A wise man once said, judge not lest you be likewise judged. We treat others as we see ourselves, and others react to our treatment in predictable ways. That is, if I treat people badly, they will respond in kind or avoid me.Similarly, if I value myself and appreciate my qualities, then I will see others this same way and treat them so. I might find that my relationships are positive and friendly, and I do not have to choose between cruel “friends” and none.