Is it inappropriate for a man to watch an X-rated movie in front of his girlfriend’s adult son as she comes home from work?
My mom’s boyfriend, who stays at home, showed me a DVD he bought on the street, which was porn, according to the cover. He went to the living room and played it. My mom came home from work and saw him in the living room. In his defense, he wasn’t pleasuring himself, at least not that I know of. I was in another room, but I knew he was in there watching, and I saw my mom walk in there. Also, one day he did a “stroking” gesture in front of her while telling me that I need to get s girlfriend instead of doing “this.” That made me very uncomfortable, but my mom reacted like I was being touchy and sensitive. Basically, he has no class. Regarding my mom being the breadwinner, she typed up his résumé and arranged interviews, to which he of course had no job after the fact. One day, he told someone at a family gathering what he does for a living, as my mom obviously told him to say that occupation because she's embarrassed by him. Of course, I am the bad guy according to my family. My aunt even asked me, “Are you and your stepdaddy getting along?”, followed by “What do you call him?” She was obviously being a smart-a$$, as she knows I don’t like him, but she does. But I told her I call him [his first name]. Therefore, I’m the black sheep, thanks to my mom hiding things about him and telling the family how mean I am to him. Don’t get me wrong, I love my mother. But I hate how I’m automatically wrong in everyone’s eyes.
What would be an appropriate age to tell my illegitimate son that he isn't really a person?
The boy is a gift from God. Every child is precious. Too bad the boy has a piece of sh!t for a father. The best thing you can do for him is to stay out of his life. P.S. Do the world a favor... either keep you dick in your pants, or have your nuts cut.
Coraline. Do you think it is appropriate for my son?
I would go a see the teacher and advise her of you and your son;s concerns. What is good for some is not for others and I am sure that any objections will be taken seriously and an alternative book will be found which will enable your son to enjoy reading. I never like certain books at school and I told the teacher and we worked through my reasons and found booksI did like.
Is it appropriate for me to call my 15 year old son a young man since he looks like a man?
Call him what you want. He’s your son.How does he act? Does he behave like a child? There’s a test for you!—-PS;Round by here there used to be social conventions. I am Bob, my father was Philip.When i was growing up I was “Phil’s young old boy” or very occasionally “Phil’s young chap”After I had publically and noticeably developed a need to shave, I was “Phil’s old boy”. Right through by twenties, after I got wed, after I became a father. I was an old boy for years.Then he retired. After that they called me Bob. And he stopped being Phil, and became ”Bob’s old chap”I remain amused by young old boy but I can do without enstifling conventions
Do you think it is appropriate that a 47 year old man has sleepovers with his buddy once a week?
Do you think it is appropriate that a 47 year old man has sleepovers with his buddy once a week?It totally depends. Is he single and living alone? Or married with a spouse and three kids living at home? Are the sleepovers taking place at his place? At his buddys' place? Are they single and living alone? Are they married with kids and a spouse living at home?And it depends on what is your relationship with this person about whom you ask. Are you his mom? His spouse or girlfriend? His son or daughter who lives with him and who is affected by such sleepovers? A neighbour who is affected by disruption due to noise or questionable activities going on?And what is the nature of the sleepovers? Do they get together and watch a football game? Are they playing poker for money. Are they having an orgy? Are they simply watching movies? playing video games?47 year-old single male living alone having sleepovers with other friends, all of whom are single, and they are doing nothing bad or illegal— and you are not impacted in any way — no problem and possibly none of your business.47 year-old male with spouse or gf and kids living at home, having his buddies over each week while you are there, you being his son, daughter, or gf — possibly a problem.47 year-old male with spouse or gf and kids living at home, having his buddies over each week, while you are there and you are his son/daughter who needs to be studying, wake up early the next morning — a problem, if it has not been discussed and everyone's needs considered,47-year-old male with spouse or gf and kids living at home, having his buddies over each week, smoking weed, calling in strippers, playing poker, staying up until 3 a.m. and you are his son or daughter living at home, or wife or gf — likely a problem.
I am having inappropriate relationships with a father and his son. What do I do?
You're 28 and this is the first time you're ever questioning your morals? Wow. That says a lot about how you ended up in this situation, asking Quora for advice, knowing exactly what decent people will say.The only advice you're desperate for is for us to tell you to keep carrying on with either or both relationships. You already know you shouldn't be in either of those situations.It's funny how you're engaged in this now sexually charged relationship with dudes son, and you didn't even mention how his son might feel that you are the child his father is wronging his mother for.Take a good, hard look at yourself. You're perfectly aware that there are single men out there who, too, just want to fuck — no emotions — that would also make great company, yet you insist on engaging someone in a deceitful relationship. No matter what, you're going to pay the consequences in one matter or another. You might as well rip the bandage off because clearly you don't have the self-control to not make matters worse, in spite of supposedly “knowing better.”
Is it OK to have his son as the best man?
My boyfriend and I are talking about getting married and one thing that comes up is the wedding party. My bf doesn't have a whole lot of friends and none that are real close. His dad is an alchoholic and we don't want to take a chance on him. He is friendly with my brother but not close at all and his brother was killed in a car accident a while ago. I thought it would be nice to have his son as the best man. He is almost 10 and we won't be married for about 2 more years. My mom and his step-mom said that it's not appropriate for him to stand with his dad as best man. I don't really understand. Is it against etiquitte? Even if it is is it really that big of a deal?
Do you think it's inappropriate for my son's stepmother to breastfeed her toddler in front of him?
I have a son and daughter from a previous marriage that ended 7 years ago. He's now remarried and his new wife and him have a 16 month old son together who she is still breastfeed. Apparently she does it openly in front of my children. My son is 11 years old and my daughter is 9. I breastfed my youngest, their half-sibling for 6 months but always made it a point to cover up with a blanket or something. I guess she doesn't use a cover and doesn't seem to care if my children see her breasts while she feeds. I think it's inappropriate, but the man I'm married to now says I'm making a mountain out of a molehill. I brought this up to my ex-husband who basically just said that it was none of my business and that she's tried to use covers but her son just rips them off and doesn't like them. He says the kids won't be scarred by seeing a woman breastfeeding her child, that's it's normal and natural and that I don't have a say in it. I think it's gone on a little too long... and my son is 11 years old and I think it's something that he shouldn't be seeing out in the open. What do you think about this? Am I being too paranoid or would you be bothered about this too?