I want my g.f to stop using drugs, Is she a slut?I love her.?
whoa. i cant believe i read all that you just need to talk things through with her and make her choose the drugs or you!
Why does my girlfriend's sexual past disgust me?
It seems like sex is a big deal for you. You are feeling betrayed because she wasn't forthright, but it seems like the number is a bigger issue for you than the dishonesty.You had the opportunity (presumably) to have sex with other people, but you refrained because it was so important. You are feeling like it is somehow cheaper for her - less important, less special. You are experiencing some cognitive dissonance because the sex you're having with her is so special to you and you're assuming that because she has been more casual about it in the past, it is less special for her.I don't think that is the case. I've slept with more than 30 people. I don't know my exact number. Early on I tried to keep track. I can't even remember the faces of everyone I've slept with.I love my girlfriend. I love the sex we have. It is very special and some of the most enjoyable and intimate sex I've had in my life. And I've had enough sex to know the difference.She is sleeping with you now. You are special to her. You are the one she is being intimate with, and only you. And she is the one you are being intimate with, and only her. That's a big deal. Both of you have thousands of potential other mates. You're with each other. Don't underestimate that. Recognize the value of the now, and the commitment you've made to each other, and don't dwell on what she or you have chosen in the past. Now is special, and your life is short. So keep it special.
How do i get rid of a reputation of a slut? HELP?
YOU HAD SEX IN 8th GRADE with a SIXTH grader? I'm your age, and I think that's disgusting and unadmirable. Take it from a goody-two-shoes...don't date for like six months, don't wear as much makeup, and instead of wearing those low cut tops and shorty shorts, wear sundresses and cardigans. Babysit more, get your grades up, and date a clean cut cute nerd. Then in a year or so, go back to your current stae of being. BTW, get some help on the anorexia. You can become anemic like that. Keep adding things to your diet each week, like rice cakes and veggies and eventualy, you'll get back to normal. If you're having sex while being that skinny, you can break your tailbone/ sacral illiac joint. I'm currently a gluten free vegetarian and I find that I'm humane while helping the world's animals.
Is it ok for my girlfriend to go to parties and dress slutty?
ok i am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend i love for over a year. i am 22 she is 19. i love her dearly is it ok for her to wear slut clothes to parties when she goes out with her girlfriends? she talk to a guy and he says your bf shouldnt be like that my gf knows i worry when she dresses slutty cus i know girls who dress slutty will get attention and usuallyl guys at parties will treat girls like sluts if they dress like one... she also talk to this one girl who says that your bf shouldnt change you just cus he gets mad doesnt mean u should stop wearing slut clothes? idk.. i lvoe her alot i told her if she wants to wear it be my guest.. opinions?
My mom won't stop bullying me..?
I don't know what to do anymore.When my family was whole (me,my sister,dad,mom) everything was pretty much ok,but since my older sister moved and my dad went working in another country,my mom had became a bully.she has became a very religious woman,praying day and night,while eating, while walking etc. but it doesn't seem to affect her way of treating me.First , she accused me of having an eating disorder, then (i admit i tried it but i quit) she accused me of spending my money on cigars.She even thought i was on drugs!I'm not even a flirty ,outgoing,good looking girl, i don't really have self esteem as she managed to shatter it even more by calling me either fat,either ugly ,either skinny,either slutty etc. After we talk on web with my dad she just goes nuts out of nowhere ,for example ,i bought my grandma (dad's mom) a flower for her birthday and she accused me of thinking that she wouldn't have had bought her a present ,even though i tried to explain to her it wasn't true .I feel like i'm going crazy, i can't say any of these to my dad because i don't want to get him sad, i once tried to record evidences,and took a picture of a fresh bruise on my face (yeah she also tends to throw anything at me-water bottles,the trash can,presents from me to her) but after a while when i looked at it i started crying and i decided i will just get over it so i deleted it.I'm on the edge of it..i don't know how i could stand it anymore.I actually suffered from depression because of this bullying and my low barely non existing self-esteem ,i cut myself, i became bulimic and anorexic,and i got sick.I'm over eating disorders now...kind of..but i feel depressed again,worthless ,unloved ,lonely ,harassed,ugly and i have dark thoughts .Im afraid i might get back to EDs and self harm and i can;t snap out of it..What should i do?(Im sorry if i'm a waste of time,and also excuse my english,its not my first language)
Was what I did to this girl mean?
Was what I did to this girl mean? I broke up with my girlfriend for 5 months because she cheated on me while drunk. During this time I got involved with this really shy, sweet, classy girl. She has a history of depression and an eating disorder. It was the first time she has opened up to someone in a long time and she would always tell me ''Please don't hurt me.'' and I told her I wouldn't do anything to hurt her. We started to like each other. She thought I was a strong person for breaking up with my girlfriend and that I deserved so much better. I do drugs and she would always tell me I was better than that. I used to always bad mouth my at the time ex gf in her presence calling her a slut and saying I could never settle down with someone like that. I make it clear to her that I was over that girl and wanted a future with her. Once I started university and she got busy with her part time job we didn't see each other as much and I told her it was because I was busy with school. My ex gf came back into the picture and the feelings started coming again. So I got back together with her (yes, the one that cheated on me) She claims that she got counselling for her drinking and says she wont cheat again. I told the classy girl this, and she was crushed. Her nickname on msn is ''trying hard not to think about how badly somebody hurt me, why shold i have to cry myself to sleep?" Do you think what I did was mean, considering I put into her head that we were going to be together..and since she was so sick in the past and I was the first person she opened up to in a long time? Also, do you think by going back to the gf that cheated is a good choice? Or would you think the other girl deserved a chance..I do love the girl I'm with though even though she cheated on me. Oh and also.. i got my girlfriend to email this classy girl telling her how much we love each other and how she wouldnt hurt me. Is that kind of mean? i MEAN, i knew she was in a lot of pain.. do you think she would take it as my gf rubbing it in her face
How come people are always giving Teen Moms a bad rep?
I agree with you. The thing that gets me is that most people do start having sex when they are teenagers, and its like only if they get pregnant, then they are called sluts. Its like one person can sleep with 4 different people, but if she sleeps with one guy and gets pregnant, then she is scum. It's not right at all. People are just horrid. I only have issues with teen parents if they choose to purposely get pregnant, with nothing. Like, they still live at home, no schooling, and so on. The ones who do it for attention. That does piss me off. ღ◦ττс 'ώ' вαвÿ #1◦ღ