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Is It Normal For Me To Fantasise This

Is it normal for my husband to fantasise about other women...?

First... you have to know that EVERY guy fantasizes about just about every decent looking woman... it might last a second or months...

We stop fantasizing about you when you start treating sex as something you do now and then rather than a major interest - like you did at first.

Really, that's all we want... the rapacious woman we met.

I wouldn't take it seriously. If he hasn't been with another woman, then he has what it takes to be faithful... which he has been. If he has not been that happy with sex and still hasn't cheated, you found a winner!

If you get emotional and spend time punishing him because you are hurt he will withdraw... not now... he will be attentive for a while... but later when things settle down he will retreat into himself and see you as something other than a lover... then the situation is MUCH worse. He trusted you and told you. Reward him for that and the fact that he hasn't actually cheated.

If you hold the bar that high... you will effectively damn all men.


We think with our penis... we don't especially like it either... but those of us who aspire to be decent, don't act on our thoughts.


PS... Resolutionary should have her license or degree removed... this DOES NOT constitute a 'lust addiction'!!!!

She subscribes to the 'A starving man will eat rotten food' theory of intimacy... just because he keeps himself for you doesn't mean he wants to... women think that a man will get so horny he will eventually cave and have sex with you - this is not a loving way to view this... You should be deeply concerned that he enjoys sex with you and isn't having sex with you JUST because he is starving for sex.

Is it normal to fantasise about sex with sunny leone?

I have recently been obsessed with sunny leone, I think she is amazing. I always watch her videos and masturbate to her naked pictures and I have wet dreams about her, is it normal for me to masturbate over her all the time?

If you don't know who sunny leone, google her

Is it normal to fantasize about dying?

Human beings are thought to be one of the only animals on Earth who can comprehend their own existence, death, or imagine what it’s like to not exist.In a similar context, the term ‘L’appel du Vide,’ or The Call of the Void, is used in attempting to explain the phenomenon of why people have the sudden urge to jump from tall buildings, or to step in front of a moving car. Both people with depression and without it experience this— the fleeting thought of, “It could all be over if I did this.” You may not want to actively end your life, but the pull of thinking about how easily it can be taken may be an affirmation of your will to live.Our bodies and minds are programmed to reflexively keep ourselves safe from harm or danger, and imagining how frail the line that we walk, that which is between life and death, is completely normal.Everyone fantasizes about major life events— their future spouse or partner, what sort of house they want to live in, where they’d love to live, a dream job and what it’d be like, winning an award for a book you haven’t written yet, or how the next ten years of your life will play out. It’s only human instinct that we think of where all of these different facets to our life will lead— the point in time where death occurs.It’s an unfathomable and abstract concept, but a very real reality. How will I die? Where will I be when I die? Who will be there when I die? Who would show up to the funeral? Will there even be a funeral? What kind of flowers would they set out for me? What would the weather be like?Imagining the exact nature of such a big event in our lives is like imagining any other major life event. Death is something that every human being that ever was, is, and would be alive must face. Allowing your thoughts to take you to that place, being aware of the nature of this world that we live in, shouldn’t be something negative, but it also shouldn’t consume your every waking moment.

Is it normal to fantasise about Antoine Griezmann?

Well I can tell you this much “"I don’t” and if I were to do so it certainly wouldn’t be normal for me. However, though I can’t say that I actually have, I certainly wouldn’t think it abnormal for me to fantasize about Serena Williams for example. Though if you fantasized about Serena Williams, I’m going to go out on a limb and say that it would be abnormal for you.Seriously, there’s no harm nor is it necessarily abnormal to “fantasize” about whomever you wish, including Antoine ( or even Serena if you like). I had never heard of nor known anything about Antoine by the way. I still have no idea what he looks like. Yet that isn’t actually necessary or even important.Where it ceases to be normal is when one developes a breaks with reality and becomes fixated on the object of your affection to the point of obsession. Where you cease to think it is a fantasy and come to believe that an actual relationship could, should, or does exists.Once that point is reached a person is suffering from mental illness and may well pose a threat to the celebrity or whomever it may be they have become fixated on. Because the next step is almost invariably stalking or even assaulting them because they do not acknowledge or reciprocate one’s “ love”.For a real life example of someone who had such a break and became fixated on a celebrity, Jody Foster, you might wish to read about the actions and the consequences of the actions of John Hinckley Jr., who was only recently released from Federal Prison.

Is it normal to fantasize about your brother?

This is quite a disturbing question. Firstly you seem to have decided on half the answer already
"Anyway, I know how I feel now. I guess I just want to know if it's normal. I know it's a healthy Freudian connection that everyone subconsciously feels, but I don't know how many people are open about it. Do your siblings know how you feel about them?"

...so you already think it's normal to be attracted to him and you're just wondering if people are open about it. The majority of modern psychologists are not Freudians regarding incest. In any case, it's primarily the _parent_ of the opposite sex Freud expected children to fall for.

But in any case, having a crush on a family member is not something that would necessarily make you a bad person, it's just rather unfortunate. You can't have a relationship with him, even if you didn't have children (who would be at a greatly increased risk of genetic abnormalities.) as it would screw up your family.

What worries me much more is "I basically made up a bunch of lies about how she tried to cut my throat with a knife. Thankfully he believed me and she's out of the picture now."
You should never, ever screw up someone's relationship like this, or really tell lies like that under any circumstances. The fact that it's at least partly jealousy on your part makes it worse. You don't seem to regret it at all, and are just really satisfied about it.

Most of the people on these boards live in America. Here in the UK there's clinic known as the Portman Clinic which deals specifically with people who are disturbed by their own fantasies. If there's anywhere like that you could contact, I recommend that you do.

Is It Normal To Fantasize About Murder?

I guess there could be several reasons for such thoughts... Firstly, are you on any medications? Some psychiatric medications have "homicidal ideation" listed as an adverse effect. Secondly, do you suffer from depression? This, as well as suicidal ideation, can be a symptom of severe depression, and so if you suffer from depression you may want to seek help from your doctor or a mental health professional. I'm not sure about the dreams, could be because the thoughts make you anxious you have bad dreams involving these ideas as well. Thirdly, you may suffer from obsessive compulsive disorder, in which one can suffer from intrusive and impulsive thoughts that are often very distressing; Wikipedia lists this as a symptom: "Fear of acting out on violent or aggressive impulses, or feeling overly responsible for the safety of others". Often the urges to act out on impulses in OCD can be very strong, and may be things which the individual would NEVER wish to do and feels guilty for even thinking about them. Hence the disorder can be very distressing and disrupt one's life. Also, if they occur when you feel bad it may be because the symptoms of perhaps an anxiety disorder/depression are intensified, triggering these thoughts.
In any case, I don't know how common such thoughts are, and whether they can be considered a "normal" phenomenon, but since they are distressing I suggest you seek help, as medication and/or psychotherapy may get rid of/help you deal with them. So I do suggest you see your doctor, I know how distressing these thoughts can be, and often the thought of telling someone about them is even more distressing, but as a doctor it won't be the first time they've heard it, it is confidential, and will be able to diagnose and refer you for treatment if it is a psychological disorder. Believe me, there is treatment and it is worth seeking, because you don't deserve the anxiety these thoughts can cause. Good luck!!

I like my cousin, I fantasize about her. Is it normal?

Its normal, but until you're a Hindu, its not fine.

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