Normal to be annoyed and jealous at other people with my newborn?
It may not be post-partum depression - could just be the "baby blues" - this happens shortly after having the baby and lasts only a couple weeks. Check it out on Google - I did, and it helped me see that I actually did have symptoms of PPD. As far as feeling guilty when you need a break - honey, you take as many breaks as you can, because a newborn is hard work - not so much because they are difficult to deal with (like a toddler or 5 year old - oh wait, that's me), but because you are so tired. Your baby is not going to love anyone more than he loves you. You are his mommy, and I don't care how much his grandma plays with him, he will love you best. I think all moms have that fear with their newborn - because we are so tired and fatigued that we are not usually too much fun at the beginning. So, cut yourself some slack and allow your family to help out. Your mother has probably been aching for a grandchild. So, let her help you and instead of watching her and getting jealous, go take a nap. Rest as much as you can. It wouldn't hurt to discuss these feelings with your OB at your checkup. And you're right, when those hormones drop after having your son, your emotions are completely out of control for a while.
I get jealous when my best friend hangs out with other people.?
Why do I always get jealous when my Best friend hangs out or talks to other people. Like right now she's at her other friends house because her parents are out of town and she was going to spend the weekend with me but I had to go visit my mom for the weekend. I don't hate her other friend but I really don't like her because she treats people like crap. She's a complete B. I don't know why I get jealous but I do... A lot. My friend means the world to me and I don't want our friendship to fade away because of other people. She knows that I get jealous and I try to not get jealous but I do and then I get really upset. I've never been this way to any of my other friends before, well I've never really cared this much about a friend ever. When she goes to this other friends house she completely changes. Before she met me she was bad. But when she met me I didn't do the things that she did so she eventually stop doing things like drinking,etc. Also when my friend is around her other friend for awhile she begans to act like a complete B****. And I hate it so much so does other people. I just texted her asking if she is coming in the morning to go to School with me and she said no because she is still there and is going to spend the night there again. No one likes her "friend". And my friend talks so much crap about her and says she hates her but then again they talk and her friend does the same thing to her. Tomorrow at school she is probably going to act like this completely whole different Person and it is going to really make me mad/sad. Any advice?
"When girls get jealous, it's normal. When boys get jealous, lucky the girl he loves, you know why?"?
Not at all. It is normal for people to be a little jealous when other people are paying attention to someone we are attracted to. It is not however, a measure of the other person's worth, it is just (as the other poster stated) that we are insecure. Jealousy is about control not about desire. I love my wife and I trust her. I also know my own worth. If another man talks to her or flirts with her, I feel the little tinge of jealousy, but I know that she is trustworthy and I also know that she knows that any infidelity will be the end of our relationship. Jealousy is not about loyalty, it is about competition. It isn't about the prize it is about the dominance. It is best to steer clear of people who are jealous and who need to know where you are all the time as it will lead to trouble down the road.
Alright to feel jealous of suicide people?
It is normal for a person to feel jealous usually because of the attention the person who passed on is getting. They feel they are being ignored because everyone around them has been putting their time and energy into this person. However, if you are jealous because you are not the one that has passed away, that is not normal. Suicide is never the answer and people that commit it have a lot more serious problems deep down then what people are able to see. If this is how you are feeling, you sound like you are in a really bad state of mind so please, if that is how you are feeling when you hear about someones death, please talk to someone, anyone preferably a psychologist or psychiatrist. That is very irrational thinking. Life is beautiful and a blessing. Nothing will be bad forever, I promise. It will get better. Please, do something to help yourself feel better.