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Is It Normal Not To Be Able To Get Over Someone

Is it normal to still be able to taste someone's saliva after kissing them?

It depends how long you taste it. Personally when I kiss my husband passionately I can taste him for about a minute or two after we are done. I would think much longer than that may be cause for concern but I am no doctor.

I cried over someone, is this normal?

No, nothing is wrong with you at all. You just care about him and to know you wasn’t there with him and someone else was hurts you. But you’ll be fine trust me no one is ever that serious except for whom ever the creator you believe in. I hope you feel better...

Would you say not being able to get over someone is a sign of low self esteem?

No, I would not say not being able to get over someone is a sign of low self esteem. In my particular case, I say it is because I cared a great deal.

Today makes one year and eight months exactly since my ex and I called it quits. I have not had any communication with her since then. We both agreed it would be best to let go. I did not and do not consider it a nasty break-up.

I still think about her and wish that it could have worked out. I think she is a wonderful woman. I never had such strong feelings for a woman in my entire life. I am still in love with her.

I always wonder how she is doing. I wonder about her teenage daughter and her sister - you know, how they are doing.

It is hard. Oh well.

I don't sit at home depressed or anything. I do lots of stuff with friends.

I am only expressing my experience with this topic. Being open with my feelings does not harm me in any way. No shame here!! :)

Best wishes to you!

Quotes about not being able to get over someone?

"It just feels so much worse when you expect more from someone."

"I just wish with every look I give you, I'm simply telling you I do care."

"Remember when we used to stop in the halls to talk to each other? Well, those are the times I miss."

"And telling everyone that we're just friends is the hardest thing I've ever had to do."

"What hurts the most is when you see it in his eyes that he's gotten over you so easily."

"You were my secret your my obvious tear.."

"The wost way to miss someone is someone you see everyday."

"You might think of me as just some girl, but I want you to know that I am that one girl who took one look and fell harder for you then I've ever fallen for anyone in my life."

"I see something that would make you laugh, or I hear a song that you'd listen to, or I think of something that would upset you, and it makes me want to laugh, and smile, and cry, all at once...I can't stop thinking of you."

"Everyone keep's telling me to just get over you and to move on, they obviously don't understand just how hard I've already tried."

"I shall hold you in my heart, till I can hold you in my arms."

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Any songs about not being able to get over someone?

Ohhh i know this really beautiful one, first time i heard it it made me cry. Its old but still reaally good :)
Its called 'I'll be over you' by Toto. Here are the lyrics :

Some people live their dreams
Some people close their eyes
Some people's destiny
Passes by

There are no guarantees
There are no alibis
That's how our love must be
Don't ask why

It takes some time
God knows how long
I know that I can forget you

As soon as my heart stops breakin'
As soon as forever is through
I'll be over you

Remembering times gone by
Promises we once made
What are the reasons why
Nothing stays the same

There were the nights holding you close
Someday I'll try to forget them
Someday I'll be over you

And check out 'i can wait forever' by Simple Plan

If I'm not able to get over a one sided love, does it mean I'm weak?

I'm into neuroscience, so I'll answer this for you in terms of brain chemistry.Being in love does the same thing to your brain that addictive drugs do, this person actually becomes your version of cocaine, per se. As you may know, drugs actually alter the structure of your brain, and stopping the use of drugs can be very painful and difficult. It's the exact same thing as doing drugs, in the way that if you're no longer with the person, you can go into withdrawal that can hurt you psychosomatically, because you're no longer getting your "drug." The good news is, eventually, your brain chemistry will go back to normal, but the bad news is it takes time for your brain to recover from being in love. Scientists put it around 18-24 months. But just because your brain isn't back to the way it was before doesn't mean you can't feel "over" a person before then.So long story short, no, you're not weak for not being able to get over someone. You can always blame your brain. As cliche as it is, time really does heal wounds. You're just in the middle of the healing process now.

Is it normal not to cry when losing someone you used to know?

Yes. Crying and not crying are both normal. There are two variables to consider in working out whether someone is likely to cry at a death. The first is how disposed the bereaved person is to cry in general. (I can cry at adverts, so for me it's a likely outcome; others, often men, react quite differently to strong emotions.) The second is what meaning the dead person had for the bereaved. Losing a former soulmate, even though years have passed, might be very upsetting. Losing someone we once dated and had fun with, might be a shock, but not tug at our emotions.Two people losing the 'same' relation might have completely different responses. Two people losing a sibling, say. One person wasn't close to that sibling, didn't keep in touch, had nothing in common. The other person lost a sibling with whom they had shared traumatic times, forging a unique bond. They are completely different grieving experiences.I've seen people lose family members and not appear to be too upset (in public, at least), and then lose their dog and absolutely go to pieces. It's the meaning that person (or animal) held for you that determines the depths of our grief. So really I think anything goes as long as it's honest. I saw someone fake tears when my sister died. That is not a good response. At all.Tip for friends of the bereaved: The worst thing anyone said to me - unwittingly - was "I'm amazed how well you're doing. I don't think I'd be out and about. I'd be in absolute pieces if anything happened to my sister". My sister held tremendous meaning for me and I was devastated for years, till I got counselling. Really not a good idea to "judge" other people's grieving, certainly not to their face!

Is it normal to want to kill someone?

In a limited sense, yes, it’s normal.Planning on killing someone is abnormal. If you find yourself plotting, scheming, figuring out how to actually get away with murder, and even coming close to executing that plan, then you’ve passed the threshold of normal human thought, and may want to consider getting psychiatric help.However, fantasies, even very vivid, detailed fantasies about killing people are perfectly ordinary. Most often this appears in humorous contexts, but it’s also not uncommon for people to feel this when confronted with grievous injury to themselves, those they love, or the world at large.Rage is an ordinary, healthy human reaction to injustice, abuse of power, degradation of the innocent, and various atrocities men are capable of committing. It is not strange at all to want to kill a person who has been proven guilty of performing the worst evils men are capable of committing.Most wouldn’t blush to kill Hitler. Jeffrey Dahmer gets little sympathy for the end he met. Even garden variety child molesters often provoke this response in perfectly happy, healthy, and well-balanced human individuals.Goodness cannot abide evil. That’s not just a theological fact, but also a facet of any human mind that hasn’t bowed before the ills of the world.That doesn’t mean you kill these people, but it does mean it’s natural to want them dead, and to imagine doing it yourself.Mind you, if more minor injuries to goodness provoke this response, and if this level of rage is an ordinary, every day occurrence for you, counseling can help. That’s not usual, but it also doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. Just don’t let it impact your actions, and find someone to help you cope with how you feel.

I can feel x rays! It's not nice!!! Is this normal?

that is problematical to tell on occasion with those circumstances, using fact for sure you could no longer manage each thing you have been advised, yet i could come again in touch with the vet and get a much extra appropriate theory what is going on, using fact this all sounds slightly obscure. for example, once you took him in for vomiting blood, did the vet do a white blood count form? If no longer, what made him think of it replaced into an infection? Did he ever verify why the dogs did this? that is not a symptom of pneumonia. And once you're saying he "suggested" pneumonia, what does this advise? Did he diagnose it, or only call it a danger? the main significant symptom of pneumonia in dogs is severe coughing - has your dogs been coughing? What i'm getting at is the domestic dog needs a definitive diagnosis and medical care plan. It would not sound like he has this. Pneumonia in dogs is ordinarily particularly treatable, commonly at homestead, yet you like a stable vet. in case you nonetheless don't have a definitive diagnosis, i could be tempted to take the domestic dog, jointly together with his archives, and get a 2d opinion. It won't value that lots, yet he's barely 2 and that i could incredibly need yet another set of eyes finding at him.

How do I deal with a friend who does not text back? Do I ignore them too?

There are many possible reasons why people don't respond to text messages in a reasonable time frame. Many are valid and understandable, however when you notice a pattern of repeatedly ignored texts and find that you are always the one to initiative contact, it's time to stop texting that person. NOW. No explanation is owed to them because THEY chose to cut off communication with YOU. Why would you want to continue a “friendship” with someone who is clearly showing you that they are not interested in you?The only rational, reasonable response is to simply stop texting (or calling, emailing, posting on their FaceBook page, etc.). Stop following them on social media if it causes you pain. Let them go. If it's an established pattern, it will not likely change. People make time for what they want to make time for. Even if it's just a 30 second text to let you know they haven't forgotten about you and will respond when they have more time.If you have friends who have a pattern of not responding to texts, stop texting them. Under no circumstances should you reply. If your friend is a sporadic and/or typically a slow responder (2 days max), their life is clearly too busy to include you, so save your self-esteem and let them go quietly. If they are not showing interest in you, it's because they are not interested in you.I've been there and know it's not easy. Feelings of rejection, self-worth, loss, etc are all natural human responses to feelings of rejection. I have felt them all. But don't give in to those feelings. It's not worth it. You are worth more. Trust me.