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Is it normal that I don't bruise?

Well you received a lot of funny answers! One thing that no one mentioned, perhaps because they don’t know, is that high levels of certain vitamins allow the body to sustain some intense blows without bruising. Like high levels of vitamin C for example.I take high doses of vitamin c and have for years. I can fall and really hurt myself (it hurts! It swells some, I have to ice it) It doesn’t bruise. I DO bruise, but it takes a lot for a bruise to show up. The things that cause bruises in most other people, do not cause bruises in me.High levels of vitamin c also help maintain collagen structure in the structural tissues and skin. This is also good since collagen makes up 90% of the body’s structure, including bones. Vitamin c keeps the structural integrity of the capillary walls strong. They don’t rupture easily, therefore no bruising.And regarding the answer given saying not bruising means you have thick blood, I happen to have thin blood and bleed easily. I have to increase my vitamin K intake, it helps with thickening blood and coagulation (clotting).The next time you have a blood test at the doctor’s ask if there are tests that might indicate why you don’t bruise easily. You may just be blessed with strong capillary walls that don’t rupture easily. You are likely perfectly fine, you just don’t bruise easily!(Of course the one thing I like not to mention on a public forum is that you could be, like me, a mutant!)

Is this normal if I don't want to make friends?

Yes its absolutely normal. You asked this question because you are not sure about yourself. May be the reason people have misjudged that you are an arrogant and stubborn person. Which is making you feel uncomfortable, its their job let them do.It should not bother you in anyway. We are not here to please the world, even if we try hard people are not happy. So just live your life the way you want. You don't have to follow the crowd always.Friends are not always necessary to complete our life and give social validation of happiness. We have family as well to spend our time with and share our things with. They will be more than happy but we mostly prefer friends. as it has become trend I would say and the credit goes to social media. People are just roaming around and posting fake photos of so called friends. Which is making us to ignore our families.And as I feel you dont have friends so sure you spend your free time with family and that's the most beautiful thing in the world trust me. its my personal experience, once I used to be a social bird who roams around with random people so called best buddy. But today they are not even part of my life anymore but my family still is. and I feel so glad that I have stopped wasting my time unnecessarily with people and  I rather focus on to become a better person. Stay happy and good luck.

Is it normal if I don't have any close friends?

It is absolutely normal. It is not mandatory for anyone to have friends. In fact, some people choose to not have any because they have either been back stabbed or betrayed by the people they called "friends".There are many people in the world who are doing fine without friends.Usually childhood friends or friends you have known since you were young are those that may come through for you and can be trusted. Every human being is different. Some people want to be a friend so they can take advantage of you, some want to be your friend so they can learn your weaknesses etc etc.This may seem negative but it is reality in a nutshell. I am just like you, i moved to the town i'm currently in, and know no one here. I go to the movies alone, i do everything alone. And i don't eat at restaurants lol. I always order and pick it up.You are just like me...You are normal.

Is it normal or usual that I don't like people much?

No, if you don't like being around other people it's less common than not. It doesn't mean your mentally ill or some kind of creep, although the disturbed loner is a stereotype you'll have to deal with at times.Not everyone has to have a lot of friends.People who don't need to be popular wonder what all the fuss is about. Nevertheless, it is something people strive for which makes them happy and also validates them as people. If you have a lot of friends you must be a great person, right?Not necessarily. In fact, I think too many friends is a sign of shallow relationships. Real friendship takes work. Each friend is like a garden you have to tend, which takes time, energy, and commitment.I have always trusted the adage that a friend to everyone is a friend to no one. I always suspect they are superficially charmimg people and surround themselves with people like themselves.In my opinion it tends to be the nicest, most deserving people who end up alone.Nevertheless, for various non-pathological reasons people often chose to be alone, and are not the pitiful maladjusted people everyone thinks they are.Empathic people. These types are very sensitive to other people's moods. They tend to get drained by people's incessant demands and every rude an hostile act is a slap in the face. They are caring and compassionate to a fault, and tend to get exploited by selfish people. They care so much but at the same time are so easily hurt. This type of person needs lots of time away from other people to recharge their batteries.Empaths, however, are not indifferent to people so we can rule this out about you.People with very high IQ'S prefer to be alone. They can't relate to most people and would rather spend time alone with their thoughts.Are you an eccentric and aloof genius?I don't know what to make of your comment that you don't like to care about anyone, but I would bet this is not a normal thing to say.Maybe you are not a neurotypical?Perhaps you lie somewhere on the autistic spectrum, and, therefore, you value systems rather than relationships.People with Autism are much more egocentric and do not derive as much pleasure caring for others, or pleasing others as neurologically typical people might.So is it abnormal or unusual not to like people much?Unusual, yes:“We’re a social species; we’ve evolved to form deep connections with others and experience pleasure from doing so”[1]Footnotes[1] Children with autism shouldn't be forced to socialise