Am I naturally a kind and caring person?
Yes your a good person.Even if you don't believe in God you are serving him.Helping others and being kind and caring is how he wants us to live.No matter what you believe you have found a place in the spiritual world known as heaven.How a kid is raised has nothing to do with how they turn out.People can come from selfish families violent families druggy families and still turn out to be kind caring people.A kid that grew up in a kind caring home can still turn out to be rebellious and selfish or worse a rapist or killer.Naturally being kind is just a good soul.Usually kind caring people are to nice for this world.I've always been caring I remember as a child I loved to take in homeless animals.I cried for people whose lives had nothing to with mine that I didn't even know.I grew up poor yet I never saw myself as poor back then and wanted to help everyone with even less than me.I still want to help everyone.You are so lucky to be kind and caring because not everyone is.Live to love and help all people and animals.Never judge skin color and respect everyone.Help people understand war is wrong.I bet you already do live this way or are on the right path.You will be rewarded for being kind and caring.You have a lucky soulmate waiting for you who will love you for your kind nature.Children and adults will admire you.Some cruel people may be rude to you but still try to be kind.If they're still rude know their wrong but you did the right and tried to warm their spirits. Sorry I'm not atheist(use to be) but Christian.
Why has caring about others become a bad thing?
Because the simplest way to discredit someone is to throw a big label on them, find one area under that label that you can attack, and impute the attack to everything else. It's mindless and it's meaningless, and yet it has become the national pastime.
Why do I miss someone who doesn't care about me?
It's just because you have loved/cared him/her truly from your heart and not by your need or situation.It is said that we won't expect anything from whom you care but reality is that we expect them to reciprocate the same…atleast 10%..“We don't love the person who hurts us.But our loved one hurts us the most.”When we love someone unconditionally even a small change in them hurts us to core.This is unintentional.Sometimes they take us for granted just because we don't leave them.This is intentional.Rarely they hurt us just to ensure that we leave them.This is intentional.We get hurt because we expect.Getting hurt is directly proportional to expectation. So reduce your expectation. It is your strategy to love them unconditionally. So don't expect the same from them. This is one way to reduce getting hurt.( This applies for unintentional ). Make them realize or explain them how bad it feels and hurts. Give them sometime. See whether they try to comfort you. If not it is not unintentional. It is intentional.Stop begging if they do intentionally. Because it is not going to make any difference to them. You are going to lose your self respect, time and energy. Just leave them. Wait for a while to see whether they make any effort to calm down you or long for your presence. If they don't, you too don't. Just move on. It's your life. Don't give a damn about it.Live happily by embracing reality.Image source : Facebook
Do Cancers ever completely let someone?
I seem to attract Cancers!! And im an Aries! I dated one Cancer for 6 years off and on and another one was only for sex but with my hot head temper and bad ways I seem to upset Cancers alot till the point they ended it with me but its one thing I have noticed if they're mad at you and break up with you, they seem to always come back around after maybe a month or two...Is this true with all Cancers? It seems this sign hates losing people they connected with, no matter how bad the person was.
I don't care about anyone but myself?
I can't remember ever feeling empathy for anyone except for myself and one other person. I grew up in a normal home, albeit one that moved a lot. I didn't have a terrible childhood, and I don't know why I don't feel anything about anyone else. I never had friends, as I pretty much just learned that I would have to move eventually, so I found it useless to make them. I made one friend, but then I had to move, and I can't remember feeling anything about anyone else after that. I eventually just learned how to fake being normal according to society, and I just act like I'm supposed to whenever I need to. It's been around 6 years since that, and I don't feel anything for my old friend, and I don't have any friends now as I just kept my mentality about friends throughout my life.I have often been referred to as cold and uncaring, which just made me learn how to fake being normal better. I'm grateful about having a good home and all, but I don't feel anything about my parents or the rest of my family. There was recently a death in the family, and I didn't feel anything and it didn't affect me at all, and I just faked caring as I usually did, but everyone else was really affected, or they're just better actors than me, so I got interested if I'm just abnormal because of myself not caring or being affected by anything. Is this normal? Other Info - Extremely Introverted Very Cynical Care more about learning than I do about anyone else I have no friends (My Own Preference)