Why do I feel like something is missing in my life?
In order to find what we have been seeking for. We should have 'courage' of taking that first step. Be motivated in heartfull by at least trying to drift away (even if for a moment) from old and stubborn ways that kept you locked then dragging the self confused from that cage of monotonous habit in life. I guess that there should only have balance to boost in making up with one's weaknesses. Then to maintain further the better ones possessed. I know that probably somehow..that it is always 'CHANGE' or adapting into something unfamiliar or simply new, seem quite hard to take and admit it to the self at times when it should be enacted. When we find already something that comfortably apeace us on a certain stage that we used to stick with. It never changes a thing probably but it can also trap. Sometimes though the mystery excites and fixed unchanging interests still lacking something. But we become anxious to seek the unknown and yet that even things that we used to like and always do still seemingly not enough to do to fulfill our desires in life. But the excitement in its more possibilities that can have the chances to be openned up by our sense of creativeness has been being ignored at times. We may eventually find ourselves either incomplete if not unfulfilled or just simply being bored. A little taste of honey in the taste buds should only spontaneously savor another tastes and then again with another to gain the knowledge of whatever might fit in right with one's ideals seem also to wear off the confidence sometimes. But then that even being overly discreet also misses some of the other visible colors that might be presenting itself either. Just to keep up with one's true nature as well and simply to joy the life bestowed upon oneself and with the surroundings. Then whatever that can be stored for that comes up to reveal with one's motivations. Maybe more creativity may enhance.. Have great moments!
How do I stop missing someone that I know is not missing me?
If you’re spending time thinking about, longing for or missing someone that is not missing you, the question is not, “how do I stop missing someone,” but rather how to let go of people, circumstances or events that are not serving you.Letting go of people or the past is not easy for most people, however it is necessary if you are to live a happy and meaningful life. Think of it this way: When you hold onto things, you are unable to invite things into your life that will make you feel good. On the other hand, perhaps you like the feeling of missing someone that does not miss you. And, by the way, how do you know for sure if the person misses you or not; have they said so?Instead of making assumptions about how someone feels about you, focus on how you feel about you.It’s normal to feel bad when we lose someone we love because let’s face it losses hurt. However, if you want to feel good about you again, the best thing you can do is to surround yourself with people and things that make you feel good. I’m not saying use business as a way to distract yourself. However, when you focus on doing things that make you feel good, be it self-care, fun with a friend or productivity, you invite more things into your life that make you feel whole. When you miss someone, you imply that you lack something and that your feeling better is dependent on someone else to make you feel good. Instead, start feeling good now! You are responsible for you and no one else. Your feelings are yours alone, therefore if you are missing someone that does not miss you, that is a choice, and if you do not like the feeling, let go of feeling bad.
I am stuck in my childhood ?? I feel something went wrong in my childhood & I feel I have to pay for it now ?!?
Since you are nineteen, you probably need to be thinking about going to college or to the military. Maybe your mother makes you feel guilty. My mother tried to do that. She is being selfish. A 19 year old should not have to get permission from his mother to go camping. Do you have a job? Then you might need to move out. Your mother has to get her own life. That is what a good parent does. Don't ask her permission to go to the military, just sign up and go. Even if you have to sign up and then leave without her knowing you are going. You are not responsible for making your mother happy. Some mothers try to make you feel that you owe her something for raising you, for making sacrifices for you. But that is what mothers are supposed to do, so you don't have to "Pay her back" by giving her your life. Many mothers try to guilt trip their children. My mother did not want me to learn how to drive even when I was 19. She did not want me to have a boyfriend even when I was in college. She did not want me to go on trips with my friends on the week-end. Even when I was in college. She tried to stop me from getting married by telling me that it would make her sick if I did not come home after I finished college. I did not buy into that stuff. So I just stopped asking her permission to do things. That is when I grew up. Again, your mother may make you feel like you owe her, but you don't. Sit down and try to figure out what she is trying to make you pay for. Did your father leave the family? Did her parents treat her badly. Is she too scared to live her own life. It can be VERY frightening to challenge your mother. I was scared not to obey my parents, so I got out of their house as soon as I reached 18. I never lived with them again. Find a way to move out and get a job. If you won't break away she will keep you there until she dies.
Why do I feel so incomplete and alone?
I dont think I'm missing anything. I'm a 14 year old guy that is popular, funny, not too bad looking, and I'm not too shabby at sports either. I know I'm not like other people because I don't fall for girls too easily, I think alot more about things than others, and I ask alot of questions about why I am living my life right now...The thing is...I feel incomplete. I don't know what is wrong. Maybe I have all I could ever want, but can't see it. Maybe I am too young to fully understand life...Still, I don't know why I feel so empty...
True of False: you can't miss something you never had?
Before you fall in love, you feel like you can manage great on your own.. When you are in love, you get accustomed to always having that person by your side.. Your life is so different all of a sudden.. there's someone out there who loves you.. that person becomes your world.. After you break up, you feel like something is missing.. BQ: Would you rather never have loved someone (and never experience a heart-break) OR love someone with all your heart and then go separate ways because of circumstances?