I hate my best friend. What do I do?
First, learn that hate is an extremely childish and counter-productive emotion. Learn to deal with anger or be a despised little bigot unloved, even by family. If you have a "friend" and then he/she does something you do not like, and you do not forgive them, what dies that say about you? If you do idea you hate them, why would anyone want to be your friend in the future? How could you wake up everyday liking yourself. We do not discard those we love because we have a bad day, nor do we do so when they fall in love with our fiance, or in a moment of insecurity criticized us to a coworker, or betrayed a confidence to their other best friend. If your standards are so high that you cannot forgive, certainly, move on, but get used to being friendless.
Why do I hate my best friend?
You cannot hate your best friend. f you hate her, she is not your friend.That’s the truth but reality is somewhat more layered. You can feel hatred for someone who has the ability to hurt you and nobody can hurt you more than someone who knows you well. They know where your weak spots are and they know how to push your buttons. Giving them knowledge gives them power. Understanding WHY you hurt will bring you far greater wisdom. With maturity, I have learned to welcome pain because I understand that growth without pain is not possible. When you feel hatred, choose to respond in love. It’s amazing how things change when you do this.
I hate making new friends. Is this normal?
I think having friends is way overrated. If all my friends left me, I wouldn't lose any sleep over it. I could surely survive on my own. With that said, I have no desire to meet, and make new friends. I feel that I always have to do the work so I say 'F' it. Is this normal?
My best friend hates my crush?
Okay, this girl and I like each other. The thing is, we didn't know each other and she liked me. We're in different grades (I'm in 10th, she's in 9th) and we really like each other. However, my best friend hates her guts. Well, in all honesty, I dislike my "best friend" because of how she treats me. She tells me I have issues whenever I get mad, and she always judges me (in a bad sense). She talks crap about the girl I like all the time to my face, and when all three of us are together, she acts like an angel. It makes me mad that she's so two-faced and how she treats me, which is why I don't like her anymore. What am I supposed to do? I'm sick of pretending to be her best friend because she thinks we still are. I'm not just going through a phase of disliking her because of the way she talks about my crush; it's also because of the way she treats me. I stopped telling her things, and I don't talk to her as much as I used to, which is my way of giving her subtle hints. I'm ready to break my "best friend"ship with her, but I'd still like say "Hi" in a friendly way in the halls. What should I do? I'll check on this question as much as possible, so if you guys have questions feel free to ask. Thank you. :) PS - This isn't a troll post or anything.
My cousin hates my best friend?
big possibility... your cousin might have a thing for that particular guy and she hates your best friend for getting the attention. what should you do? it depends, if the situation gets worst, then interfere and confront them but if the situation is kinda okay, leave them alone.
Sometimes I hate my best friend?
It sounds like you and your friend are drifting apart and it may be time to let go. She isn't who she used to be and maybe your not who you used to be either right? Its all about growing up.
Why do i hate my bestfriend sometimes?
Oh. It's because she seems to be changing for other people so she can be an all around great person. She probably wants to do the things that you do because you're best friends and she wants to be around you and probably likes those things too. She seems like she just wants to get on people's good side and you don't seem to like it because she's, in a way, changing who she is and there's a twinge of jealousy in there. I think you should just stick to being yourself and...I don't think she's trying to be better than you. She's just trying to make those friends like her, not necessarily more than you. I really don't think there's anything you could do. Just do your own thing and get some space from her because I think the real problem might be that she's just around you a lot and you need some space.
I hate my sister's friend?
Okay, well I really hate my sisters friend, and so does my mom and my youngest sister. The reason is because this girl is a total b**** that thinks of herself being way better than everyone else when she is really just a HORRIBLE example of a person. My sister is in the 6th grade (11) and this girl is in the 5th. My youngest sister (6) is constantly being picked on by this girl and its really starting to p*** me off. Here is why she is a bad example: 1. She tried to make my youngest sister ding dong ditch my neighbors, and when she refused, the girl (Her name is Jasmine) started calling her mean names, like the B-word. 2. She cusses my little sister out constantly and tells her that no one likes her and she's a brat. 3. She is always making up rumors, as in, "Hey, did you hear that that seventh grader had sex?" 4. She has not only the ugliest attitude, but the ugliest face! And I WOULD NOT be saying that if I were trying to lie! She has a super huge unibrow, and is always saying, "I can rock the unibrow." Honey, no one can. I honestly could care less who my sister hangs out with. If she wants to hang out with her, fine. But I will not accept her treating my younger sister like crap. But what really annoys me is that my sister bring her into the house like EVERY day, and she's still disrespectful to my sister. She really doesn't need to be in my house when she can't respect my family. She makes my little sister feel worthless and she is a bad example for my family. I do not want my sisters hanging out with her. Please do not say I'm a bad person because that is not my intention for writing this. I'm really a nice person that cares for her sister and I have no idea what I can do to help my little sister. She is a disrespectful person that I do not want in my house, at least not when my younger sister is home so she isn't disturbed. Please help me. I really dislike this girl, and I don't want her around my family!