Is It Normal To Have Jet Black Eyes When Im Mad And Light Brown Eyes For All My Other Feelings

Have you seen the black eyes of a narcissist?

Oh yes. If I hadn't seen the actual transformation myself, I would never have believed it.My ex-husband has very icy blue eyes. It was the first thing I noticed about him and he also had the blonde hair, looks and charm to match. I was young and naive, and fell for him hook, line and sinker. He was my first love.This is a picture of the late, great Paul Walker who was a wonderful actor and amazing person by all accounts. It's the closest image I can find on Google to show you what hypnotised me about my ex.That's where the similarities end.I endured many, many years of hell until I finally found the courage to leave him. I had no real idea what a narcissist was but found out the hard way. In those final weeks, his rage was off the scale. He would scream at me so loudly I’d freeze in fear and struggle to breathe.THAT'S WHEN I FIRST SAW HIS ICY BLUE EYES TURN BLACK.His mouth was moving but I couldn't hear a thing. I felt like throwing up but was paralysed. I'll NEVER forget those eyes and how they cut right through me. A few days later, my little boy came up to me and whispered, “I hate daddy's eyes”. My heart still breaks to think my sweet baby must've also witnessed that evil stare.To any doubters, all I can say is maybe there's some physiological change that happens to pupils during rage? Like they dilate so much that the eyes look black? In any case, it's not a myth.

Do white people who have dark hair or dark eyes feel a "lesser white" than others who have lighter hair or eyes?

I don’t feel “lesser” in any important way, but it can be something of a pain in the ass.Autobiographical examples: My ancestry is mostly Irish/Scottish, and in the Old Country no one thinks twice about it. But here in the U.S., it sometimes takes some explanation. I’ve even had to refer a couple of folks to resources like this one to tamper their disbelief: Saxons, Vikings, and Celts: The Genetic Roots of Britain and Ireland.As a teen, one of my fellow Tolkien-nerd friends used to tease me about being one of the “Swarthy Men.” This is a frequent Tolkien term for the debased Easterlings who, you guessed it, follow that Master of Evil, Sauron.In college, a female friend had the habit of introducing me to her buddies: “Doesn’t Robert look like a Nancy Drew villain with those eyes!” A friggin’ Nancy Drew villain. Sigh.Even in Hollywood productions today, and in popular literature, you can almost bet the bad guys will be dark-eyed. My blue-eyed, blond husband likes to rib me with “oh, look, you can just TELL that’s the rotten one” when the antagonist makes his entrance. I call him the “blue-eyed devil,” in response.An Italian delicatessen owner (here in the U.S., of course) once reamed me out for “denying my proud, Italian heritage.” A group of my students cornered me after class many years ago to tell me I needed to “discover” my Kashmiri heritage. I would be quite honored to be Italian or Kashmiri, but … no.Last, and this is my favorite, are the people who tell me I look like Lucifer (by that or a similar name). They are quick to add “oh, but I think the devil would be very good-looking! That’s not an insult!” Um … yeah.Here he is, Lucifer the Nancy Drew Villain (on the hunt for souls in Ireland) …Update: A kind and sagacious Quorite has provided the attached “U.S. Map of Scary Things.” So I guess this nails the “Lucifer” bit.

What do a psychopath's eyes typically look like?

I think what you're referring to is the predatory gaze a lot of psychopaths have. Most people tend to look down and away when talking after a short time. It's a natural behavior that happens all the time in other natural settings. Think wolf packs. When one is the dominant, or considered "the alpha" the others tend to not keep locked on eye contact. This is taught out of people as impolite, or people are more naturally submissive.Psychopaths haven't the inclination to avoid this eye contact, so they will lock onto someone's gaze and not break it. It's is unnerving to the other person because it flies in the face of "normal" to them. It makes the alarm bells go off. This person across from me doesn't behave along the path I expect and therefore I am subconsciously uncomfortable. A self aware psychopath may still find themselves struggling with keeping the predatory gaze in check. It isn't done intentionally to freak the other person out. That isn't to say it isn't used that way frequently, but a lot of times it is because it's just how we look at people. It is a fundamental difference in our wiring.It depends on the psychopath. I would think if they have honed their mask well enough you would never know. Perhaps with an uneducated sloppy psychopath you might see something that would cue you in, or perhaps if they're too aggressive you would see something.A sloppy psychopath might not have addressed the predatory stare, that could be something that you are picking up on. If they still do this, I can see that could set someone's radar off that something is wrong with the person who is psychopathic.