Does my mom love my sister more than me?
show her what you wrote here.. That will probably BLOW her FREAKIN mind.. If it don't another option is therapy.. NOT for you for her!!!
Why does my mom love my sister more?
my sisters 11 and im not much older. (not saying my real age.) my mom always yells at me for attitude. like if im being sarcastic about something she yells at me and takes away my phone. but i tell her sorry and shes still mad at me. but my sister screams her head off to my mom and throws a huge fit and all my mom does is say stop it please! but my sister continues on with her attitude. my mom eventually goes up to her and says honey, please, could you stop? and hugs/kisses her! and when my sister steals something of mine (like my laptop! >:( ) i tell mom and my mom tells her to please give it back. but she doesnt give it back to me till i come over and rip it out of her hands. then she starts crying and my mom yells at me. (yes, i know i shouldnt take stuff from her but i aske her for 2 minutes straight and she still doesnt give it back.) but if i use my sisters jewelry and my sister tells on me my mom gets super mad at me and says GIVE THAT BACK TO YOUR SISTER RIGHT NOW DAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i do give it back. my mom lets my sister wear makeup. shes 11. SHES NOT EVEN IN MIDDLESCHOOL. i asked my mom if i could wear makeup in middleschool and shes like HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!! if my sister calls me stupid or retarted my moms totally fine with it. but if i call her retarted my mom goes HEY DONT TALK TO YOUR SISTER THAT WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!1 APOLOGIZE RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!! and my sister gives me a "hah, im the best/favorite" kind of look. and then she fake cries when i refuse to apologize. im so freaking sick of my sis getting treated better and everything.
I feel like my mom loves my sister more than me. How do I deal with that?
I sometimes feel the same way about my mother and sister, so I know what you are feeling very well.There are two things that happen in this case.It is possible that you are just guessing things and that your mother loves you both equally. In this case, try to talk to her that you feel this way. Talking helps. This way you'll understand what's the truth. If you usually don't share feelings with your mum and you feel uncomfortable talking about this, (I do), try to be stronger and try asking her. Or try talking to your sister.It is really that your mother loves your sister more. In this case, first comes acceptance. You have to accept the fact that she loves her more, and you have to understand that it's neither your, your mother's or your sister's fault. They can't choose who they like more. Also, understand that she loves you anyway. And that's what matters.I have a question for you.If there is a boat with your mum inside it and both you and your sister were drowning. Your mum can save only one person. Who will she save?You'd say, obviously, my sister. But that's the wrong answer. Here is what she will do. She will first put one of you on the boat and then ask you to help other one on the boat and she'll jump into the water, so that she can save you both. This is her love for her children.Usually, like 90% of times, parents love their children more than their lives. And maybe sometimes they love one child more than the other. They still love both unconditionally.I don't know if I am using the right words and example, but I hope you understand.Cheers! :)
Does my mom love my older sister more?
My mom gives all the love and attention to my older sister because she is smart and pretty. My mom pays no attention to me it's like everything revolves around my sister. Although I get very good grades she just dosent care. But my sister gets average grades and my mom thinks of her as a future doctor who's gonna cure cancer or something. And I'm not really that pretty my sister has green eyes and long curly hair. All my moms money goes to her she gets her everything she wants. But it's just the materialistic things and attention I want. My mom has so much pride and potential for my sister and she treats me like a maid who gets her water and clothes for her. I don't know maybe I'm just hallucinating but I feel like her feelings toward us isn't balanced. There is so much more to say but I think you kinda get the point now. Ps I'm 13 my sister is 16 if that helps
My mom loves my little sister more than me?
There is no excuse for a mom to treat their children as differently as you are saying. She may think you are the stronger sister and do not need as much attention. Maybe your sister needs more show of affection from your mom and your mom knows this. Some people are survivors and others are not, meaning your mom knows you will do well regardless but doesn't think your sister would. Be thankful that you are not being treated like your sister is. She will have a tough life if she thinks everyone will cater to her like her mom is doing. I'm sure your mom buys you all the things you need and that is enough. The extra things your mom is buying for your sister is very bad for both of them. Your mom will wake up one day to find she has a daughter that hates her and that will be your sister. I have seen it happen before the child you do the most for is the one that has no respect for their mom and will do less for their moms. So just hang in there and don't be envious of your sister because she is the one getting the raw deal.
Everyone loves my sister more?
It hurts a lot because it makes me have less friends and my parents just like her more... Here are some examples of that I mean: *my birthday just passed on the 17th, and my sisters on the first, my mom went out of her way to go to the mall, and buy her a present (although I gave my mom $ for it, she ended up giving my sister money) while, the day before my birthday, we went to the mall, I left my mom alone for a while mean while I look @ other things, and she got me nothing (not even $) now dont get me wrong, I am thankful I got anything @ all on my birthday, but that just hurts a little ya know? And then, yesterday we went to the mall, and what does she do? Goes and buys this guy a $40 gift card (my dad gave me $20 for my birthday, but they don't really share their money, they buy things for themselves, what they spend it on is seperate) * my sister got A's and B's, and my parents say "Great job sweetie! Your doing very well in school! Go pick out anything you want us to buy for you!" they buy her a bike mean while same year, "oh Erika umm you got all A's you get nothing" seriously, I do not mind getting nothing, but this is a bit too far... *We were getting ready for a wedding on the 21st and I was changing, and didn't know what to wear, I told my mom "well it's 15 degrees outside, so i don't wanna wear a dress" my mom said "ok hmm how about a dress?" she leaves, go helps my sister and I'm like mom, seriously idk what to wear. Then she's like I already told you what to wear! I have to change my self too! After she yells @ me, she goes off and tells my sister "sweetie do you want eye shadow?" she gives her far too long to think and say "ummm idc, if you have time..." my moms like "ok, lets see which 1 looks best" tries one. Doesn't look good takes it off tries another one, thinks for a long time, decides not to put eye shadow in her (she's babying her more and she's 17!) I hav lots mor, but running out of room, I'll add it on, maybe u could giv me a email?
What should I do when my mom said that she loves my sister-in-law than me?
I had a mother that never really cared for me very much—on some level I know she loved me but she didn’t like me…It’s funny because I have friends who care and love me and they don’t have to—it’s me they care about…My mother loves my niece like a daughter—that’s all she talked about —my brother and I took care of her and all she wanted was her Grand-daughter (my niece). I did hurt for a while until I realized that our parents are really an accident of birth (ours) I didn’t ask to be born to her and I guess I’m not what she wanted or needed either. I wondered in the back of her mind who “I” reminded her of. What ever——you must have blessings in your life—we all do —it seems though—we all concentrate on the awful things in our daily lives and some we have no control of.. It’s like in a day we let that one bad incident ruin our whole day…..So this woman gave birth to you—-and the two of you don’t click—-just because she carried you for 9 months doesn’t mean you’re going to be best friends—One of my brothers is my best friend and cares about me in ways my Mother could’nt—too bad her loss—friends can give those things too—if you haven’t found one of those—you will
Why does my mom hate me but love my sister?
Anna, I feel for you!!Your’s is such a tough situation to be in!Is your mom cruel to you? Does she hit you and make your cry? Does she really hate you, or does she simply favor your sister?Maybe she shows you love in a certain way, like arrange art lessons for you? Does she provide a warm and safe home, with a clean home and food. Are you safe?My mom favored my sister. But I realize she also loved me, as she provided many good things for me. But things did not turn out well for my sister —My sister did really, really bad things. She messed up her life and the lives of our family members. My mom tried to show her love after that, but mom hurt sooo much on the inside, my sister caused her so much grief and heartache. Our whole family was blown apart — all of us scattered all over the country and barely speak to each other —So, if you are safe at home, and can stay out of harm’s way with your mom, do your very best in school so that you can get a good job and provide a living for yourself. Keep your focus on helping yourself get educated and ready to create the life you want when you are grown (be realistic, and keep it simple, not grandiose, okay?).Good luck!!
My parents love my sister more than me?
So I am the oldest and my sister is the youngest. My mom always loves to cuddle with her, but when I just try to give her a simple hug, she respond half-heartedly. My dad loves to play with my sister. Today my sister asked for scissors. She said, "I need scissors!!!!!!!" When I asked why (politely), she said, "SCISSORS!!!!!!" So I gave it to her. Later she and dad went to play air guns. When I tried to join them, she purposely tried to make me look bad by saying, "Why were you so mean when I asked for scissors?" My dad said "Go away" in a really mean voice and I went away because he had a gun. Me and my sister sometimes sleep together and she was jumping on the bed. I told her to stop and she said, "No. You're not the boss of me." I said, "What if you get in trouble" and she ignored me. Then dad came in and saw her jumping and got mad at us. Then he blamed ME, because apparently "the older sister has to take care of the younger sister and if the younger sister does something bad, it's the older's fault." Well, I did try to stop her and she was very rude about it. This is the same with fights. When I was young, whenever I ask for something, like a toy or going to a playdate, they either responded very meanly or so sarcastically that I got scared. She gets whatever she wants and she's always so spoiled. She's always having friends over and she's so popular, and I'm a real loner. My parents hate me, so they will not listen to me, what do I do?
Is it normal for someone to love their siblings more than their parents?
It depends how you quantify love. I would imagine that the love you might feel is just as strong however the other emotional connections you have are different. Lots of people love their parents but have feelings of resentment and rebellion against them etc etc.Siblings however, with exceptions, have different connections. They can have shared feelings towards their parents for starters. They are more likely to have a friendship due to similar ages etc and similar interests.I could talk about this for hours but in short, to summarise, people love their parents and siblings the same "amount" subconsciously however they simply like their siblings more for other reasons.Hope that makes sense, that's my take on it anyway.