Why a guy talks bad about a girl to her friends?
This guy talks bad about me to my close friends.He says he doesn't like me and when my friends asked why he said nothing.Next he also said that my character is lame.So,again my friend asked why and he said nothing.Then,i called and asked him personally why he said these things to my friends.He said that i shouldn't be asking him why he made these statements and that if i do so i am violating his privacy!So,i just don't understand this guy.He says things to my friend and when i am willing to listen to his explanations he is not telling them to me!So, i just wonder why he does this?(PS:we still don't talk to each other and he thinks i like him but he stopped talking bad about me....i think)
Why would a girl talk bad things about her boy friend to another guy?
There is this girl in my school who I am close to that has been asking me why I don't take her out. I have heard from her friends that she really likes me and I know that for sure. The thing is she has a boyfriend, but she told me several times that he doesn't deserve her and that the only reason that she's been with him is because she doesn't wanna be alone..Now what has been confusing me is that when I ask her if she wants to have a dinner or watch a movie with me, she gets excited that I ask, but she said "you know that i am dating someone". She also went on to say that she doesn't trust me. When I ignore her, she tries so hard to talk to me and becomes very flirtacious. My question really is do you think this girl likes me? If not, why would she say she does to her friends. Also, is it normal for a girl to talk about her boy friend in such a way if she doesn't like me? I especially like an answer for my second question...thanks
What does it mean if a girl talks to you about other guys?!?!?
Either she's not really all that interested, or she's trying to make you jealous because she wants to know how interested you are. If she's trying to make you jealous, that's pretty manipulative. Call her on it. Tell her you're interested in her, and ask her how she feels. If she's not interested, then you can move on; if she's interested, then she'll (hopefully) stop talking about other guys. (If she doesn't, that's a whole other question...) good luck!
Do guys avoid talking to a girl they are attracted to or like?
Yes, most guys do and that goes for even guys who are good at talking to girls. There is a difference with talking to girls and then asking a girl out. The difference is he can get rejected and his self esteem gets hit. His ego is now on the firing line and so the pressure is now bigger.But talking with girls for some won't be a problem but it doesn't mean he's confident with girls. It can be he feels better just flirting and asking out is just too much pressure for him to do.Oh and by the way, I was an introvert, shy, quiet, but had ability to talk to girls but now, I will intimidate even extroverts because I do approach and ask women out. A party animal if I go to parties and first to greet people. I flirt and sexualize so I'm very confident now to do what I didn't do years ago. It took me years to develop the experience, confidence and the skill.But yes, some guys might like a girl but they won't ask her out. I've been there myself years ago where even a girl woild stare at me. Literally stare but the problem is they would stare and not bloody smile.Nothing but stare. But now, if I get this, I will smile, approach and I'm kind of a cocky funny guy in a good way. I can make a woman laugh but not in a way I'm some dancing monkey but to lower the awkwardiness so we can move forward easier.If the guy is shy or whatever labels one puts in their head which I got rid of....then that one girl needs to be approachable:She needs to make it clear she's into himNo subtle hints because it will go over his head and he won't take any action until it's 100%. Even then he might not take then risk.Just approach, say hi and talk with himIn doing so, often, his confidence will increaseYou can then later, after a few tries of seeing him and tlaking, asking out for a walk, drink etc cetre. Make sure you exchange numbers because if he's shy he will probably mess that up to. Be ready for a slooooooooooooow process. That's when the girl will know he's interested. If he doesn't take action then it's best for her to move on without doing what most girls do. Over think, asking what if and looking for signals.It's why I like to just attract confident, adventureous and high sexual driven women. Women who haven't a lot of insecurities and we don't have to dance about back with many of things most got hang ups on.Nothing wrong with shy but I just get bored with slow pace. I'm a fast mover. I like to get down with it and I'm a very direct type of guy.
What if my girlfriend still talks to her ex?
She hasn't completely broken up with him. It is what I like to call "break-up hangover". I was in a similar situation, but the role is reversed, I was in you gf's position. It is that fickleness that pops up while breaking up, "Why can't we be friends? After all I spent so much time with my ex, there should be no harm, right?" WRONG! Initially it was fine with my current gf, my ex and me. But in the end no one is happy - it is the formation of a triangle. During this period, my current gf would constanly be checking up on me to see if I spoke to my ex. My ex would compare herself to my current gf to see where our relationship went wrong. I would have to prove my every action to these girls, even though my intentions were honest. In the end it was mentally exhausting for all of us, the pain increases for all of us, and it affects other areas of life as you are occupied with the thought of losing both of them. The reason I am with my current gf is because it didn't work out with my ex. Yes, I had a great time together with my ex, but I am sabotaging having a good time with my current gf. So to prove that I am honest to my current gf I did this:1. I cut off all ties with my ex, I did it in front of my current gf. I told my ex we needed to move on and wished her luck in finding a partner she wanted. There is nothing one can do - it usually turns out to be an abrupt end, and this is what everyone hates - the abrupt end.2. Delete all chat records - facebook, hangouts, whatsapp etc. And delete all contact numbers of ex. Again, I did it in front of my gf. Yes, it is sad and hard to delete shared photos and places visited - the memories which you believed would have lasted forever. 3. I let my gf access to all my social media + personal email access etc. To show I am not hiding anything from her. This was done to regain the shaky trust. She is free to access my personal stuff even now, but she respects my private space. Now, we both are happy.What your gf is doing is totally unacceptable and will ruin your relationship, give her an ultimatum.
Girls, do you still text/talk other guys if you have a boyfriend?
my bf ahs checked my phone like 3 times already and he has always found texts/convos with guys. They're my guy friends. the stupidest thing is that i just figured out how to put a password on my phone but because i hadn't seen him in so long i forgot to put it and i was lying down when i turned around he had my phone -__- & then was telling me thinks lik "you have to stop talking to other guys" but i wont be rude and i just said "go away i dont wanna talk to you" but hes like "you think they wanna be your friends? they are flirting with you and you flirting back" im obviously NOT flirting im just being nice saying hi thats all. if i see they give me hints like dating then there's when i stop talking.. i wont stop talking to a guy becaue i hav a bf..
Guys what do you do when u like a girl?
Idk i was wandering i needed some help cause i really dont know abiut this one guy and yeah. So what do you do for like attention or when yall are just talking and whatever?
What do guys “never” tell girls?
We also get upset sometimes (not too often) and most of time we are just like “koi ni chohd” but sometimes we really want you to say at least a sorry.We are emotional too but our tolerance level is much higher.Don’t try to check our whatsApp photos, It will always contain so many non-veg pictures.Unlike you, we can’t share so many things about you with our friends. Because we know that they will use those things to make fun of us.Too much make up can be a turn off thing (it applies for me). Your soft lips especially with light shades lipstick can be too much seducing.We respect your individuality and freedom. But If you give someone more attention especially in front of us. Then really it makes us angry a bit.Please don’t ruin our match. We love sports.Don’t say veg biryani a biryani. I hate to say it biryani without meat. You must say it just pulao or rice.We have so many problems to look after, So we expect you to not make it more difficult with senseless arguments and fights.Never assume anything, Please ask us, We will tell you honestly.Yes we stalk your profile regularly on social networking sites.We even save some pictures of you for forever. Even we makes double back up in case of any data lost.You can’t even imagine our loyalty.We even ignore some hot girls around us in front of you. Too avoid jealousy.If we say we care about you. Then we means it. Otherwise we hate to agree on everything.We loves to be sorted in our life and sometimes (not too much) expect the same from you.Yes we do watch porn.We don’t promise everything but we always care about your happiness.I would like to share one thing on the behalf of my friend. His girlfriend broke with him after 10 months by just saying “I don’t feel that way now”. So be sure before committing to us.Don’t hurt us to the extent at which we don’t even want to see your face. Yes of course, we can be so rude.Last One: It can be easy for you to move on. But for me It would be the most difficult thing because I can’t even share my pain with anyone. But If you really want to move on then please let me know. I promise you that I will never see your face again.
Why? Do girls like it when guys talk about really perverted stuff?
that's not cool especially being so young.I doubt that many young ladies like that. myself,i like to joke a lot and am a lot older,i would have to know them real good. still i would feel strange,i knew one for 20 years like a sister.only once did i behave like a jackass.i was drunk and never did it again,He' ll get plenty, None will be worth the time of day.There is a word for them,I can't say. Bye