Im 13 and i want boobs. im absolutely flat . how do i grow boobs!?
is there anything i can do to make my boobs grow? and to get a little taller and gain weight? im only 73 pounds and i have no eating disorders but people have asked me if im anorexic and i eat soo much. well i dont eat healthy at all but im desperate i hate being teased about "the wall" which is reference to my chest. and i dont want to try breast enlarging pills cuz i dont want it to screw my growth up. AHHH im going into high school next year and i dont want to be flat then. and i wear padded bras already so i look ever so slightly bigger i wear AA cup and im screwed cuz now if i take it off people will know i have no boobs. and its hard to go swimming cuz im always scared the pads in my bathing suit will fold or something and show that im flat. HELP!!!!
I absolutely know I'm depressed, but I don't want to get "undepressed" again. I don't get a sense in life, but also don't know why I should end it. Can I do anything about it?
First off... Know that the field of psychiatry IS, finally, coming to admit to itself that it does NOT have all the answers, or even the needed answers. I can supply PLENTY of documentation on that.Now.. If I were working with you directly, the first things I would ask you would be about your ENVIRONMENT ["other people"] and PHYSICAL CONDITION..Did you know that certain factors - bad nutrition, lack of sleep, HOSTILITY from others, also 'veiled criticism' done "for the person's own good" ["nobody else would have the honesty to tell you this, but you are really embarrassing yourself with that obsessive desire to be a ----. Listen to me: I'm your TRUE friend" .. etc etc etc.. ]Oh, Really?You get the idea: THESE things, it has been shown again and again, can DEPRESS a person. Even cause illness, even serious illness.So, imagine what this constant 'stress' would do to something as delicate a your brain. Mess it up, is what it would do.But SSRI's and such are, as drugs, actually POISONS, and only make it worse while masking the condition.. No different than alcohol in that regard.It's the "masking" that makes people think they are happier. Oh, well.So, hey - DON'T fall into that trap![If you want to pursue this further, ask me and I'll tell you the most effective "therapy" which I use, on others and myself.]But, just as some quick advice: [you'll find this mirrored in many sources]DON'T READ THE PAPERS OR FOLLOW MEDIA, FOR AT LEAST TWO WEEKS. [yes, I know there are some dangerous conditions in the world - but I'll bet your actual PERSONAL danger is tiny -- You can do without the fear for awhile while you get yourself up the scale.]'BONE UP' A BIT ON WHAT GOOD NUTRITION IS - find out if you are messing up your feeling of well=being by filling your body with crap. This source is ONE answer; He was also DEPRESSED - But you can see how things like this will help you.Fat Sick and Nearly DeadAlso: TAKE VITAMINS, MORE THAN THE "MINIMUM DAILY REQUIREMENT", especially B COMPLEX, B1, B12.. etc. The brain NEEDS these to 'snap and pop'..EXERCISE - RUN -- etc... Here's a page on this -- it's not "perfect" but the general advice is good and backed up with studies..Exercise and DepressionNow, I got LOTS more on this. But the message here is - You have NO idea how much you can do for yourself. You DON'T have to go running off to a shrink right away, or maybe ever.Good luck!
Is it okay to kiss a girl I don't date, but we really like each other?
Oh my god, absolutely.While other people may have different answers, I at my heart of hearts firmly believe that as long as you and the other party both okay with it, you should get to kiss whoever you want. To me, it doesn’t matter if you’re not dating. You don’t have to date to kiss. So long as both of you are into it, it’s all good.Just if you’re still just friends, and want to remain that way, listen to each other’s feelings. Don’t keep kissing if you or the girl doesn’t want to. If you do want get into a relationship with someone, and you and the girl are still kissing sometimes, tell that person. Be open and honest. And who knows! Maybe you’ll want to date later, or maybe you won’t, but either way, do what you and her want to.Personally, I’d kiss any of my friends, haha xD Maybe I’m just a bit of a ho, who knows
Is it okay that I don't bathe my dog... ever?
I haven't bathed my dog in many many months. That may sound gross but she doesn't smell or get dirty. She's fairly small (a Chihuahua mix), stays indoors, and seems to clean herself like a cat. Not only that, but she also hates baths so I stopped giving her baths. Her coat is short and smooth so there aren't any noticable problems from not bathing her. Is it okay if I continue like this or does she absolutely need an occasional bath?
Is it ok to say, "I dont know" during an interview?
I don't think it's ever good to lie in an interview. I feel the more sincere you are,the better chance you will have at getting the job. It you say that you don't know that will prove that you're not afraid to ask question when you don't know how to do a task. Honesty is always the best policy. I would suggest writing down possible questions that the interviewer might ask you; such as : why do you want this job. Go to the interview prepared and you will get the job. Research the position and know what they are looking for, fit the bill and you will have a successful interview. Good luck.