How to ask this girl if shes okay?
a couple times per week at community college i cross paths with this girl who shared an english class with me last fall semester. i dont think we ever spoke but i caught her staring at me many times during that boring class and thought she might like me. she is really cute but seems pretty depressed and always sad. i never see her smile and she is always alone. i never really saw her talking to anyone in that english class, she seemed shy. i really want to just stop her and ask her if she's okay but cant muster up the confidence to do so. i wouldn't feel comfortable doing this and its in an area where acts of kindness from strangers would be percieved as strange. we actually made eye contact a couple times and once she gave me one of those forced, mouth only smiles if you know what im talking about. she seems like shes filled with too much angst and id like to help her cause she seems like she could use a friend. i guess what i came here for is how i can feel confident and relaxed and comfortable going about asking her if shes doing alright. now that i write this, i realize im probably making it into too big of a thing which is holding me back haha. any help is appreciated, thanks
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Is it okay to ask a girl to prom by phone?
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Is it okay to ask out a girl while she's dating another guy?
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