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Is It Okay To Date An 18 Year Old If You Are 20

Can an 18-year-old date a 21-year-old?

Yes it's possible and happening around. Well you see, he/she who's 21 will be a little mature than the 18 year old, the selection of tastes and preferences as well as priorities will be a little different, I am not emphasizing the word “Little” but you need to think about everything, if you know that 21 year old completely then there's no issue, but would that 21 year old knows you? Disputes can occur relating to different thoughts and mindset. But I don't think a 18 year old is vulnerable. Maturity doesn't always comes with the age.So hey 18 year old and 21 year oldie, you guys can make a great pair, odd numbers, as you know. So have fun, life's too short to worry about age, when we could fit together with thoughts.

Should a 30-year-old date an 18-year-old?

No … not even if No it doesn’t matter if you are soul mates. It doesn’t matter if you are both artists and understand each other beautifully.It doesn’t even matter if it is destiny because you both got the same tattoo when you were 15 and it says “I want to date somebody who is 12 years apart from me in age.” Not even then.At 30, a person should be finished with basic education or training, well into advanced education or their career, have mature relationships with friends, have a stable home and transportation, and be looking for somebody in a similar mindset. This person is independent, knows who they are, and knows what their goals and direction in life are. If you aren’t there yet, you have no business dating anyone at all. Get your life in gear!At 18, a person is still an emotional teenager for about 7 more years. They can go to college, but crazy drama and emotional relationships can derail things easily. They have no career, and most likely no stable home or transportation. This person is looking for novel, exciting experiences and they do not consider the consequences. This is a child still, really. The last stage of brain development is not complete until about age 25. This person is not independent, has no idea what it is like to live alone and be responsible, and has no idea what they will be doing next week, much less a few years down the road.Now if you are talking about just going out for drinks (which you cannot do for three more years in the US) and some fun, I can’t fault you. If I’m honest, I’m probably jealous. An 18 year old is so full of energy and emotion and they are amazing. Wow, I have great memories of college girlfriends. I’m sure we all do. But as for ‘dating’ or a relationship, it just isn’t a good idea in any way. You are just in two different places.As long as you guys are clear on what things are about, might be fun. If you are expecting someone who is making rational decisions, you are fooling yourself. Can you still remember that far back? When you were 18? Remember how just lost and mindless you were? Well it was worse, because we always sugar coat our personal memories.Just no …

Is it OK for a 26 year old to date an 18 year old?

Age difference doesn't matter as long as you really like each other, there is nothing wrong with that so don't let it get in the way.
Of course your new girlfriends parents will be a bit cautious at the beginning since you are eight years older than her, so they might be a bit over protective.
You need to show how mature you are and how much you care about her, eventually her parents will get used to the idea, but you need to let them get to know you first.

Would you date a 20-year-old if you are a 30-year-old?

I dated a boy when he was 19 and I was 29. After almost 6 years, he asked me to marry him. We’ve been married for 22 years!!! and the sex…. uff still wonderful!. No regrets whatsoever. It can work.

Is it wrong for a 18 year old to date a 16 year old?

Well, there's my dating life for you. My sweetie's 18, I'm 16. We've agreed on not having sex until marriage, so that's one thing shot down (hopefully. I'm sure at some point we'll be tempted, but I hope not.). And we get along very well. But it's a matter of the heart and of the individuals involved.

Mind you, certain people date older people for different reasons than love. Apparently (I've had a friend tell me this) it's a social boost if you've got a boyfriend in college. I don't know why, nor do I care. And some wastes-of-flesh date younger because they're more experienced sexually and know it's easier to get it from a more naive, and younger person.

There are probably other reasons, but I don't know them and therefore cannot list them. As I said before, though...I think it's definitely a thing dependent on the couple.

Is it wrong for a 14-year-old and 18-year-old to date, if they really love each other?

Yes. No matter how you slice it and dice it. If the male is 18 and the female is 14 she is at a huge disadvantage not having the life experience of the 18 year old. If you are “cute” enough for him to want to date you, he is going to pressure you to be physical with him. That puts him at risk of a statutory rape charge. If you love him, back off.If the female is the 18 year old and she is interested in a 14 year old male, she needs to get her head examined. There is not a whole lot more immature than a 14 year old boy.

Is it okay to date a 22 year old guy when I'm only 18?

No, it's not okay.I don't mind if you fantasize about having sex with an older person (I've done it too) or imagining someone of the opposite gender having sex with an older person (I do this far more often than the above) but if he's 22, then he has a job and more experience in the world than you. If you were a 16-year-old and a 20-year-old (like myself) this wouldn't be a problem, as 20-year-olds are adolescents too, but he's a post-adolescent. He's capable of exploiting you (a 20-year-old can theoretically take advantage of a 16-year-old, but has far less capacity of doing so due to being in the same age group and not being as experienced in the world as a 22-year-old) and there's a reason besides special treatment why we don't let bosses date their employees.He could intimidate you, not through aggression but just by his superior status, even if he's being friendly to you. This would be the case even if he's a bum with no job or education. If he's a good person, he won't date you. He may not take you seriously, but whether or not he doesn't, he won't be disgusted. You're just a kid, with the emotions that many teenagers have. At his age he may be serious with relationships, but since you're a kid, if he's dating you he may have other relationships on the sly - or rather, with YOU on the sly. He may be interested in marriage at that age, but perhaps not with a 18-year-old since he doesn't care about you for your own sake, and even if he does want marriage with you, it's just to get you more under his control. Also, he not be interested in marriage whether or not he's dating you, because people are marrying later now, due to marriage no longer being a prerogative, because it's okay to be date without getting married, because its okay to be in a sexual relationship without marriage, and because of student debt - he can't raise a family or even his wife if he can't pay for it, even if they're both working.

Can a 16 year old legally date a 20 year old in Canada?

Definitely - the age of consent is 16 so you can legally do what you want. There is a caveat that if it’s a same sex relationship the age of consent is 18 and if the older party is in a position of power (teacher, police officer, etc) then the age of consent is higher as well.Of course your parents might have a different idea but that’s for you to take up with them.In the interests of complete transparency, when I was 20 my girlfriend was 17 - her parents were definitely onside - I’d actually known her father for a couple of years before I asked her out.

Is it weird for an 18-year-old woman to date a 21-year-old man?

It's not only not weird, it's really, really common. The real thing to consider (since you're both legally adults) is what life experience you have in common.At 18, you've either recently graduated or are a high school senior. The 21 year old guy is still young enough to remember what that's like, and is (hopefully) in college, so relating to school is easy. If you're both at the same college, even better.He's old enough to drink and you're not, but he's young enough to probably still have plenty of under-age friends, so you should be okay there, too.As long as your life paths are similar, you should be just fine. If you do happen to stay together, the seeming difference in your ages will get smaller and smaller over time.

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