Why don't i feel bad when someone dies?
I've lost my granddad who was like my best friend, Visited him every week and was always fun to hang with but then he got really sick and had to go to the hospital for weeks just to end up choking in own saliva. When i heard that he died and how he died I really didn't feel anything. And a few weeks after that my other granddad died from similar causes who was also very close to me and after a few months my mothers brothers wife died and she was an awesome woman but nothing at all made me feel anything! I mean i have to FAKE my sad face which makes me feel like an **hole and it gets even "worse" for me when i have to talk about how i missed them and how i feel about the situation which makes me want to jump off a bridge! I don't know what to say!! To be honest i don't know if i would even shed a tear if one of my parents died and if you wonder why i think so its because i don't miss them when i've gone away for weeks or months. The only thing that gets me upset is injustice but i only get mad about it! I really want to know if this makes me "bad" person, I know i'm not a bad person because i do care a lot for them but it still makes me feel like i'm not the way i'm supposed to be. I want to know if its normal, I know others feel almost the same way but they get sad about other things like pets. I dont get sad about anything and its freaking me out a bit. I've read other topics about this but it didn't quite answere me...
Is it bad if I feel sick when I don't exercise?
I've found a pattern of starting to feel run-down, headachey, weak and sick if I skip a few days exercise. I only feel this way in the middle of the day which is when I usually go to the gym on my lunch break (I eat meals at morning tea and afternoon tea instead). Sometimes eating would make me feel better, but the only thing that made this midday funk go away for good was getting back into my every-day gym routine. Is this normal? Is it bad?
I feel that im bad luck if i don't pray?
Relax. You're not going to burn in hell if you don't ask for forgiveness or pray. That's just a fear tactic religions use as a form of control. Praying is a form of meditation and is a great tool. I am willing to bet these abnormal thoughts you say you have, someone else has had them too at some point in time.
Is it bad that I don't share feelings?
No, it's not.Just like you, I rarely show people the emotional side of me. Well, if you are into MBTI personality classification, you may find yourself are not really capable of feeling. Feeling is just not what you do best. When you are not good at something, you tend to suppress it and choose to focus on something you are superior at.I never intentionally choose to be a mysterious person, but as I grow older, I realize the truth that often applies at most situations;Most people dont actually care. They are just curious.Moreover, I am generally a person who doesn't speak a lot. I value myself and every word that came out from my mouth. That is why I am usually upset when people don't pay attention to what I am saying or don't take it seriously. I usually don't take emotional people seriously and I don't wanna be a person people don't take seriously.I also observe a lot. One of my findings is people who like to share their emotional side are usually people who speaks rubbish and like to talk a lot.You know, people who speak rubbish are usually perceived as less intelligent. Words of the chatters are usually valued less than those of quiet ones.It's okay not to show a lot of people your emotional side.
How do you apologize if you don't feel sorry?
It depends on why you need to apologize, and why you don't feel sorry.If you don't feel sorry because you don't think something was your fault, but you are sorry that someone felt bad, then you can apologize for their feeling bad.If you don't feel sorry because you did something, but it wasn't on purpose, then you can feel sorry for doing it, without saying you were "bad" but just that you made a mistake.But if you don't feel sorry because you hurt the person on purpose, then I don't see why you would say you were sorry, unless after the fact you realized it hurt that person more than you anticipated, and you were sorry for that.Say why you need to apologize, and say why you don't feel sorry, and I'll be able to answer your question directly. But without those details, the question is too broad (as I'm sure you can tell from my answers).
Is it okay if I don't feel bad after getting rejected in placement drives?
Feeling is one aspect whereas fulfillment is an entirely different aspect altogether; so there is no need to feel bad because at the core essence of your being, there’s always your true nature’s wisdom/virtues that essentially cares for your well being and keeps on encouraging you to determinably observe your pure awareness’s disciplined orientatedness’s observant regimen with likewise characteristics in all that you are ever being.
Is it okay to feel sorry for yourself?
Hy.I would say sometimes it is inevitable to feel sorry for oneself.You see nobody is perfect. Our perception of being invulnerable shatters in some really unexpected ways.One feels sorry for themselves. But the thing is; there’s a very thin line between feeling sorry & blaming yourself for everything.You feel sorry for yourself when things don’t to workout on their own. When you feel that neither Plan A nor Plan B is working. Maybe the friend you had trusted with your life came out to be a treacherous fellow.However, as I’ve said before, you should start blaming yourself. Things were meant to be that way. That’s life. And don’t just say that, “yeah that’s what life is”. Believe it. Believe that you are strong & powerful enough to cope with whatever life throws in your way. Believe that you are the sun of your own darkness. At the least, pretend that you’re able to fight with everything that inflicts pain in you.So it’s okay to feel sorry for yourself sometimes. But please don’t think that life has stopped there or there’s no way out. There’s always a way. You just have to figure it out.That’s easy as well.Live a happy life. Live a balanced life.
What does it mean if I don't ever feel guilty?
Wrong!But before I get there, first thing is first - as much as people use the terms interchangeably it isn't usual for sociopaths to be psychopaths as well. Their psychological make up is often different - if not opposite. So unless if your parents are super special I think that you just assume them to be crazy because they do things which you disagree with. As for saying that you don't feel guilty no matter what, sorry but I'm gonna disagree. Your entire questions smacks of guilt...peppered with a little excuse: "It's not my fault I don't feel bad about the things happening...it's my parent's fault"Parents play a huge role in our lives but they aren't the only influence we have. I'm really sorry that you don't see them as positive role models and that they do things which you think are pathological in some way. However the fact that you see their bad behavior is already a sign that you are different from them and have a big chance to grow into a person who is positive in society. However the fact that you judge them is a form of guilt in itself too - you feel guilty that you have to live in this house with these two people who make you feel like a person who is becoming more and more insensitive. The reason why you feel less and less guilty about whatever is going on is because you're protecting yourself from your environment. Caring has obviously led you into hurtful interactions at home and so you've toned down this emotional feature and it's working in one way but scaring you in another - hence why you're asking the question. How can you fix it? Well the best route would be to find a way to leave that environment. Find a relative to live with or something - any way to be out of this negative space. Trust me the more positive and "normal" people you have around you the more you'll start to feel like yourself again and stop feeling like you're this insensitive person with no remorse for the madness around them. Best of luck!
Why don't I feel sad when a family member dies?
People feel different emotion when some one dies. They are neither bad or good just emotion. If your relieved, anxious, heaetbroken, am very. It's ok. If your numb or fine, it's ok. The only time you should be wondering why is if you or someone else is feeling joy or happiness from a death. That person or you may suffer from a mental illness. We are more inclined to feel sad with a relative than a stranger by sometimes it can be reversed.I am a very empathetic person, I pride myself on being able to empathize and understand someone. To be in there shoes and see there perspective but when it comes to death I am very ok, fine really. I don't really have any emotion.. except aniexty cuase I fear others will call me a freak cause I'm not crying or visual upset. The first time someone dies and I knew them was my grandma. My uncle hugged me, my mom cried, my brother cried. I didn't. I found there years and emotion awkward. Next was a family friend again at there funeral all I did was stand there while everyone cried. Recently my best friends mom died . She wants me to comfort her and I will but sje expects me to cry and tried with her and I just can't. ( Granted my grandma was a racist drunk, the family friend I only met once, and my my friends mom was riddled with health issues)This doesn't mean I don't ever feel sad, i cry all the time, but for different reason. I have never seen or thought about my death and if I woke up and some one said I was going to die today or had cancer my response. Would problay be “Ok, whatever”Does it make sense no, is it normal yes. If someone gives you a hard time ignore them. They have no say in your emotion and how you grieve .I hope this helps.