I feel bad, will allah forgive me?
So I was dating this guy, he was the first guy I ever talked to. I fail in love with him, he told me he was going to marry me, he told me i was the one for him. We were gonna get married soon as his family come to america. He attampted to have sex b4 marriage, I turned him down, but one day I couldn't, he talked me into it, and ended losing my virginity to him. He kept reassuring he was going to marry me, that I had nothing to worry about, yet I felt this gut feeling that I did this unthinkable act, and there is noway I can turn things back. From that day on, I kept having this unease feeling. I couldn't sleep, eat or even live normal life. Few months later, I noticed changes in this guy's act. Like less phone calls, less time spend...etc. Whenever I ask him, he would accuse me of being crazy, mentally unstable, and that I have issues. I kept feeling sad, depressed, and felt worthless. One day were out to dinner, he had gone to the restroom, he left his cell laying there, I went through, and I saw numbers of ex gf, numbers of girls, text megs....etc. I was shocked, I didn't want to believe what i saw. From that day on, I cut any communications I had with him, stopped calling, seeing him, everything. And he never bothered call or even to check when i stopped seeing him. From there on I knew he was just trying to get into my pants. I went into this deep dark depression. I couldn't tell my family what had happened. I felt bad all the time. I was ashamed. I began to return to God and ask for his forgiveness. It's been 10 months since everything had happened. Alhamdulilah I feel better now, but sometimes I still feel bad. I think about if im ever gonna find someone who will accept what happened, if God will ever forgive me, and will I ever forget this experience and not feel bad all the time. To all my fellow muslims, am I the only person this happened to?
I commit Many Grave Sins Again and Again. Will Allah forgive me? What do you think of this Hadith? Ramadan?
Alright. I Did a sin !!! But later, I promised Allah that I will never Do that again. But sadly I did it again, I still did not loose hope and promised Allah that I will never do it again. And then I broke the promise and accidentally sinned again I again Made promise and Broke it But I never Lost (and and will never loose) Hope in his Mercy. ... Prophet (S) said: Allah said A servant committed a sin and he said: O Allah, forgive me my sins, and Allah (the Exalted and Glorious) said: My servant committed a sin and then he came to realize that he has a Lord Who forgives the sins and takes to account (the sinner) for the sin. He (The man) then again committed a sin and said: My Lord, forgive me my sin, and Allah (the Exalted and High) said: My servant committed a sin and then came to realize that he has a Lord Who would forgive his sin or would take (him) to account for the sin. He (The man) again committed a sin and said: My Lord, forgive me for my sin, and Allah (the Exalted and High) said: My servant has committed a sin and then came to realize that he has a Lord Who forgives the sins or takes (him) to account for sin. (and then Allah said THRICE) "O SERVANT, DO WHAT YOU LIKE. I HAVE GRANTED YOU FORGIVENESS." "O SERVANT, DO WHAT YOU LIKE. I HAVE GRANTED YOU FORGIVENESS." "O SERVANT, DO WHAT YOU LIKE. I HAVE GRANTED YOU FORGIVENESS." Ref: - Hadith Number 33 In Hadith-e-Qudsee of the Forty famous hadith-e-Qudsee - Sahih Muslim Bk 37, Number 6642: - Sahih Bukhari Vol 9 Number 598 My Question is- - What do you think about this Hadith? - Is this Hadith Good? - Is Allah really So merciful? - Will he forgive Me for my sins Which I do again and Again? If I sincerely repent every-time? And also One more Question - What is the One Statement you want to say in description of Allah's mercy? __________________________ Please Mark this Question Interesting, So It becomes Famous and more can see this hadith (and also Answer my Question)
I cursed and mocked Allah, will Allah forgive me?
I cursed and mocked Allah, will Allah forgive me?Why not?Allah, the Almighty, in various verses of the Holy Quran has explicitly promised us all that He will forgive those who commit sins. His all-Inclusive and all-Embracing mercy requires that such sins and even bigger than that are to be forgiven easily and instantly. Let me describe it through an example, when we [human] are a bit kind hearted and in good mood, we can forgive sins that are far greater in size and scale than insulting and slanderous expressions. How is it possible that Allah whose compassion is not a match to His creatures’ should not forgive the minor wrongdoings. You might have come across events in your daily life that when, one violates the rights of faithful and pious Muslims, if he asks them earnestly to forgive him, most of them, most of the time, would forgive him and his misbehavior; because Allah has ordered them to experience the sweet taste of forgiveness. How Allah, the Most Compassionate, would not forgive what His week creatures forgive and forget?Moreover, Allah, the Most Exalted, says I love those who return to Me. Indeed, every returning of a repentant servant to Allah, begins with Allah's return to him. From the Quranic point of view, every repentance of a man/woman is wrapped up with two returns of Allah. When a man/woman feels regret of his/her sins, actually God, the Almighty, has showered blessings upon him/her which made him/her mindful of correcting his/her faults. Then that repentant individual turns his face towards his creator and asks for Allah's forgiveness. Finally, Allah, the Most Merciful, would return to him by accepting his repentance. In such a way, the servants will be cleansed of the dirt of sins and mischievous actions. It is why Allah, the Benevolent, has said that every blessing begins with Him. Your mindfulness and regret of the sin can be a clear embodiment of Allah's limitless grace and blessings. Don't let the feeling of guilt undermine your will of spiritual growth.ThanksMay Allah, Bless Us All.
I raped my gf... will she ever forgive me? I NEED HELP!?
It happened last week I was driving to her house and when I got there I got a call from her she told me that she's sleeping at her friend's house to help her pack up because her friend was leaving for New York and I shouldn't bother going to her house. Then I noticed the lights were on in her bedroom so I went to her door and found out it was unlock. I went straight to her room and found a man sleeping on her bed half naked. I was so shock I ran outside the house. I tried to convince myself that it was a buglar and I should call the cops but I thought why would a buglar sleep on my girlfriend's house. So I went home and called my friends and we all had a drink, then I told them about what happened and they were all saying that my girlfriend is just playing me and I should get a payback. They said that she needs to know that she shouldn't be messing with me. We were together for over a year and we never had sex because she wanted to stay a virgin until she gets married. The thought of her being fcked by some guy while I suffered from lack of sex for over a year made me furious. So I went to her house the next day. She was about to kiss me when I pulled her hair and drag her inside her room and I raped her. I found out that she was still a virgin and ask her who is the guy I saw. She told me it was her cousin who asked her to stay in her house while she is gone because he and he's girlfriend had a fight. She even made me call her friend's house where she spent the night so I would believe her. I apologized to her many times after that but she still won't forgive me. Her friends keeps texting me asking if we broke up because my girlfriend has been drinking excessively for the past few days and whenever she gets drunk she would cry and say she hates me. I went to her house yesterday and she told me if I don't leave her house she could call the cops and tell them what I did. I don't know what to do, I love her and I don't want to lose her. How can I make her forgive me? Is there any chance of us getting back together?
Im A 15 year Muslim and I had Sex?! Will Allah Forgive me?
Ok so I had Sex (I know big mistake) before marriage :(. It happened when my girlfriend invited me to her house and her parents weren't home. I entered her room and she was changing and I saw her naked :o She noticed me and started acting all sexy and moving her body. She put me on her bed and took my pants off and started jerking my dick off, and I touched her etc. And things progressed. Im not lying it felt good but now I feel guilty. Will allah forgive me?? I pray 5 times a day