A couple who loved each other truly had to get married to someone else due to family pressure. How do they feel about it now?
The couple loved each other still got married to someone else…this happens in many cases..some of the couples end their life because they cannot see their partner living with someone else..they only want to live with each other.Some of the couples move on after geting married…they cannot completely forget their love..but when they get married..they have their own family..so they try to be happy as they are..It is very very difficult to leave your loved one and get married to someone else…only the ones who have experienced it can tell exactly how it feels…when tou are in love with someone..you imagine your every moment with them…you feel as if you want them every second…you cannot inagine living with someone else other than your partner….But because of the family pressure..some couple have to do this…i think this is the familys mistake…when you separate two loved ones…God never bless them..it is the worst sin i suppose..Being seperated from your partner is the worst feeling ever…i cannot even imagine a single secind without my girlfriend…she is my breath…wherever i will go..she will be with me…and i am gonna marry her..thats for sure…It is the responsibility of the family members to understand where their daughter or son is happy..if they are happy with a particular person…they should let them marry to him/her.People should try to understand the beauty of love…because it is the best experience abyone can have..:it is the best feeling anyone can ever feel. It is the best of all.Hope it helps!:)
Jehovah's Witnesses: Isn't a marriage license/certificate a "worldly" document?
Your right it's a piece of paper but remember as a Christian we are required to follow both Gods laws & the law of the land . Whilst you state Marriage is not the "law of the land". It is not a requirement by law. We as Christians only live together as Man & Wife if we marry , Gods requirements take first place.
Why do police raid hotels in India and arrest couples even when the couples are there by their own wishes (not forced by anyone) and are 18+?
Police do not raid hotels in India and arrest couples as a routine. It depends on what type of hotel you step in. If the hotel is running without legal licenses, you can presume that such hotel owner is anti social element and could have hidden nexus with the area police officer. Such hotel can be identified from external look of their structure in that their apperance would show that they are built illegally. You should avoid such hotels as their business might be for such activities including prostitution, gambling, betting and so on. Good and law abiding people will never think of going there.Other type of hotels are those who perform business by taking all the permissions. To establish the business of lodging and boarding, they have to take atleast 20 permissions from different authorities. Police is one of them. The bad elements in police will think twice before stepping in such hotels. The owners of such hotels are reputed business men. They invest their time, money, name, prestige and relations. They neither indulge in illegal activities not allow illegal actions of police. They have association and are always connected with top IPS officers. The lower ranked trouble making police men will never think of making any implicating stories. They protect their patrons. They will never allow their goodwill to be compromised .The good hotels possess following legal permissions. They pay heavy taxes and fees to authorities for maintaining the business.Identity proof.Address proof.Ownership papers of land.Registration from labor commissioner.Building permissions and occupation certificate from civic authorities.Commercial zoning.Police clearance of promoters.Eating house or health license.Property taxes records.Legal water connection.Parking permit.NOC for serving liquor.Non agricultural title if it is outside urban areas.NOC from food and drug department.NOC from fire Brigade.GST registration.Registration with Registrar of companies.Directors identification Number.Registration with income tax department.Licence from excise department for serving liquor.Provident fund registration.The list of other NOC's to get these licensed again is long.Why would these interpreneurs would hound their patrons and ruin their business if patrons too are law abiding?The shady and lousy hotels have nothing to lose but to gain. Instead of blaming police, the blame lies in choice of wrong venue selection.
My husbands Playstation is ruining our marraige... what do I do?
Okay. First off, my husband and I have been together for ten years and we have two beautiful babies, four and two years old. My husband has played games throughout our relationship, but only ever a couple times a week. But the last couple years, it's gotten worse. And recently, it's gotten unbearable. He was in the Marine Corps, and so when he came home and played for six hours or so... well, I didn't like it, but it was understandable. He recently was discharged from the military, but for the last NINE months, he has been unemployed. And not only unemployed, but he's flat refusing to get a job. Due to our financial situation, we've had to move back in with my parents. Now, he plays the game all day and all night. Anywhere from six to ten to twelve hours a day. All four of us are having to share a single bedroom, and he plays the game until three-four am. He plays it with his mother, who lives in another state. He says that its the only way he can spend time with her... Okay, I kinda get that. That's not all though. I write novels, and am under deadlines to get my work in. He Refuses to watch the children while I work. And when he says he Will watch them, he wants to do it while playing the game... well, that's Not watching them. But the worst part of all of it is the way he treats me, like I'm beneath him, like I'm garbage. I love this man, with everything in me, but I truly don't know what to do. I've tried everything. I've asked him to go to gamer's anonymous meetings--- he refuses, saying that he's not addicted. I've asked him to go to counseling, couples counseling, or a doctor to get medication for depression. His answer is always--- NO! I've pleaded, begged, cried, and screamed. Nothing works. He says his attitude is not because of the game, but because of Me. I don't want to leave him, I just want to know what to do. How to make this stop. My children are my first priority, I don't want them to grow up without the father who loves them so much. Any helpful advice would be very much appreciated. Thank you.
What is the procedure to get married without parents' consent?
In India there is no need for parents consent to get married once the girl completes 18 years of age and boy 21.There are three ways to get it done depending upon the time the couple and witnesses have and parents consent to get married is not required in any way.If you want to get it done in one day then it can be done from NCR through Arya Samaj Marriage and then registration of the same provided boy and girl should be Hindus,Buddhist ,Sikhs or Jain. And don't worry if you are Muslim or Christian even then it is done after will fully conversion to Hinduism. The whole process takes about 3 hours and the marriage certificate is issued on the same day.Second the same can be done from Delhi but it takes about 2–3 days and you have to visit twice . Once for arya samaj and after 1–2 days for registration. The cost is almost double from Delhi. If anyone needs Marriage certificate for visa purpose then my advice is to go for Delhi Government certificate as being the capital it is accepted world over.Third is under special marriage act. It takes about 40 days .Its a marriage without ceremony. On first appearance after preparation of file application is made for marriage and then notice of 30 days is issued. And if no objection is filed in 30 days, marriage certificate is issued.Delhi Court Marriage Near Ramesh Nagar Metro Station Delhi 110015 # 70 65 60 60 60 provide this service at very reasonable rates. Delhi Court Marriage has vast experience in this field for last 18 years.
What is the revenge code in terms of romeo and juliet?
? Referring to? A couple old codes noted as a uncompensated murder victims son or close relative was obligated to try to kill the murderer- old Roman law at times said the avenger would not be prosecuted by state. A hired killer who did his job in service to avenger who was physically unable to do it was also not punished. Noble families had right of private revenge at times- state would not interfere. Similar current Islamic law in Saudi Arabia notes a murder victims relative has the right to accept blood money or kill offender, state defers to family. ** additional details that should have been posted originally- Mercutio , etc as noble house members had right of private revenge, city ruler wants quarrel stopped but doesn't have legal authority to punish the previous revenge killing- he can order stop to any more public feuding though and punish for failure to follow order.
How do I stop my parents from forcing me to get married?
Hi,There are couple of good advices that I had read for your question. I would like to repeat those words in some other context.Warning: Please consider the following only in the extreme cases as you had already described that you are being pressurized to a great extent of depression.This is the time when you have to be bold I suggest you to make your parents aware of the following facts in the boldest way you could, without getting confiscated physically ( worst case, without getting house arrest )What will they do after your marriage if they force you to tie up with a stranger against your will? They only will visit you for some special occasions, make them realize that they are doing wrong by forcing you. How? You can tell them, that stranger may find out that he is not the correct person for you immediately or later. Then the aftermath would be the horrible thing to imagine. It will get so complicated that your parents will definitely loose their pride. Frighten them with what will happen if you let all of them down and show what their correct values are in the present generation. Of course they may be correct according to their generation then why are they forcing you to be a scape goat of their pride for some nonsense society where there are less of values than fake pride?Convey the same message to all of your relatives and friends, again you have to do it in the boldest way. Mostly relatives and friends will spread the news more faster than our present technology. So you also have to be attentive and convey the real story by yourself because either way they will know that, better if it's in your words.If they are forcing you then there is a way you can show your evilness too...by emotionally blackmailing them like what will happen if you will tell your love story to that stranger whom you are forcedly tied up to? What if you tell them that you will get mentally imbalanced if they force you to get married to any other guy other than your love?Tell them honestly and be nice if they understand, don't take advantage if they sought to understand you. If not then, Tell them what all can happen if you will be forced, like while watching T.V., show them series like crime patrol series, educate them with the present generation.Hope these all extreme ideas shall not be required to you to implement and you would be able to convince your parents, the nicest way.All the best.Happy living!Regards.