Best friend NEVER calls im chats or texts me first?
yeah i feel that way with one of my friends. i mean the other day after she heard i was crying she didnt even care to start a convo and ask me why or like if i felt better or soemthing idk. so i dont start conversations with her anymore lol. we talk in person, occasionally but ah nothing i can do about it. i have other friends so does she, she clearly doesnt rle care whether i talk to her or not. she's really popular tho, i guess she just doesnt have time for me baha except for occaisionally but lately whenever she does talk to me (rarely) lik the other day she came up to hug me and i didnt hug her back loll.i guess we arent really best friends anymore..cuz shes to busy with her other friends and bf. nothing i can do about that. i'll just hang out with my friends that actually care about me lol. im not too bothered aaha even the other day people were saying it seems like somedays she;ll just ignore you so w/e lool. i;m a freshman btw, i dont rle care about friends anymore, just trying to get through these years of high school (Y). if you really wanna talk to her, talk to her. if not just talk to other people, eventually she'll realise tht you dont talk to her anymore.
Should I reach out to my old friend whom I haven't talked to in years?
I always say let sleeping dogs lie. In my experience friends I lost contact with and then attempted to reconnect with didn’t go well.I have a few really good friends from grade school. We’ve always stayed in touch and get together when we can. I think that says a lot when you keep in touch no matter what. To me that’s true friendship.However, I had three best friends at different points in my life that we did lose touch. Some years ago they tracked me down. Not at the same time but at different points over the years. Two of them I only talked to on the phone.Both were very strange conversations and both woman were not the friends I remembered from long ago. It was very hard to reconnect. They had just become such different people from when we were friends. So while we caught up it didn’t result in a continued friendship.The third one I meet with. We had diner and talked about what we had been doing over the years. It was very positive at first. Then she became very demanding about spending time together and in constant contact to tell me about her issues. The conversations were always one sided. She’d have to go or wouldn’t even ask how I was. It was very strange.She really showed me a completely different side of her I didn’t know when we had been friends before. Then she disappeared for months. She resurfaced and contact a family member of mine to ask me to sign her out of the hospital because they would not let her leave on her own. My family member couldn’t reach me at the time and let her know that. I haven’t heard from her since and that was over a year ago.My point is people change and because of that I just don’t think you can go back but that’s just my opinion. Best of luck if you do try and reconnect!
How do I convince my friend that we should jack each other off?
So my best friend and I have been jacking off together while watching porn for 3 years now. We're both sixteen and I'm curious and I think he might be too. Twice before I've suggested "helping each other out" while we were watching porn and jacking off but it wasn't done. I think he's nervous about trying so is there anything I could do to convince him? Thanks for the help! P.S. If you are going to say anything stupid about sexuality or this isn't normal or anything like that just don't. Thanks!
Is it okay for my boyfriend to call me names like crazy, stupid, dumbass...etc when he gets mad?
my boyfriend is verbally abusive and he was never like this before. Whenever we fight, he says **** you, you can move on...etc, what kind of love is this??? i wish i never fell in love with him bc i'm finding it hard to leave and tolerate his sh!t
Why do some of my friends bully me?
Yes, it sucks. If an adult assaults another then he goes to jail. The refusal of society to punish criminality in schoolboys leads to inner city gangs and high urban murder rates, as well as an occasional 'Columbine' crisis. It is one of the failures of our culture to deal with the issue. School is to you what a job is to an adult and personality conflicts at work cause adults to switch jobs if judicial action can not help. It is not so easy to switch schools; still that is the best choice. Few of the bullies in school will manage to avoid spending some time in jail as adults, if that is any consolation. All that said, you must stand up for yourself or you draw attacks. If you have a persistent enemy then look his family up in the phone book, go over there and ask around about them. Find out what his parents do for money. Find out about his siblings or relatives. When he bothers you mock his parents work and any failings in his relatives. Call him an idiot and say it is genetic, his family are such losers. He will hit you but the embarrassment will stop him in the future. As to physical confrontations, you say you can not fight and if you are a common target then that is the impression others have as well. This is a great advantage. It means there are low expectations and so all you need to do is draw blood or leave a bruise and you win. Scratch, bite, kick, or stomp on anything that you can reach. Hit first, it will be reckoned brave and go to your merit while he faces the disadvantage that hitting first for him is seen as kind of lame. Your enemy must beat you down and make you beg. If you can just keep insulting him and ignore the pain then you win. Victory for the underdog is a lot easier to gain than it is for a bully. One major confrontation that does not end with a clear victory for the bully will put an end to most of your persecution.
My "ex" friend is evil! COULD ANYONE HELP ME?
My friends friend had been saying rude stuff to me online for a while. Then my friend bascially joined in and i didn't want to be friends with this girl anymore....so i ended our friendship and shes been badmouthing me for eight years. Shes tried to turn everyone against me called me names like a f**** whore. I'm sick of it. EIGHT FREAKING YEARS AND SHE WON"T STOP! What should I do? Everytime I try to tell her stuff she twists it and makes it so I'm the bad guy and I feel badly. She and all of her friends are badmouthing me and now I barely have any close friends from college or high school......