How early is too early to say "I love you?"?
love is a very strong word that many people take for granted. if someone says it everyday, won't it lessen its meaning as there is nothing stronger than love? girls do like being told "i love you" sometimes even more than we should be showing it. boys on the other-hand don't normally say things like love to often as its something that can seem to lessen their machoism. i would recommend to you what i told my wife, "you are my girl-friend and now my wife, and without saying it, i love you everyday but being the best me that i can be is how best i want to show you that i love you" we give what they expect from us, but we explain that not saying it doesnt mean we love them any less. how early should we say it? here are my tips: 1. when im afraid if i lose her i say i love you 2. when i am so proud to be with her, i say i love you 3. when she allows me to be me that no other girl wouldnt have it, i say i love you. my message is, think of what love is to you, and if she fits it, give her the time of day and say it. now, if you say i love you more to your car or your xbox/ps3, then something is wrong =P enjoy your youth, find true love and here's a hint, sex isnt just it, its the whole package 24x7.
Is it too early to say "I Love You"?
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a little over three months now. I told myself that I wouldn't even think about saying I love him until it had been at least six months, but one thing led to another and it just... slipped out? Not that it's one sided, however. He said it first and I couldn't help but reciprocate. The only issue here is that I'm afraid it may have been too soon? Most teenagers these days spitball "I Love You's" after two weeks of a relationship, then end it another week later, so I think we're doing alright on that end. And I honestly do feel like I love him. But I just don't know if three months is really enough time to love a person? Is three months reasonable? Is it not? Should I have waited to express my feelings?
Is six months too early to say I love you?
Six months… thats the perfect time where you understand whether it was just a crush or real love. Anything that lasts more than six months is love(scientifically proven ). Just think about it, the people on whom you had a crush, it wont go beyond 6 months. You will start feeling that common stuff after that. If there is that heartbeat pounding syndrome when you meet her even after six months, just propose her. Six months means 180 days ie. 4320 hours, isnt that enough to understand yourself whether you have fallen for her or not.
How early is too early to say I love you in a relationship?
I think it depends on how often you see each other and how your emotional connection is progressing. It also depends on how old you and your significant other are. I'm a 36 year old woman in the United States, and I would say that as a general guideline, you can take it to "Facebook official" after 3-4 months of dating exclusively. Saying "I love you" too early in the relationship comes off as insincere, desperate, or clingy.After you've been seeing this person exclusively for 4-6 months: you really need to decide where this relationship is going. If you can't see yourself marrying this person, then cool it down. See them less often, or tell them that things are moving too fast and you think it would be a good idea to see other people (or break up with them). At my age, I'm not going to wait around for longer than 6 months for a man to decide how he feels about me. If you've been dating for 6 months and you think you STILL don't know how you feel, then there's your answer -- you're not in love.I think that as a general rule, after dating exclusively for 4-6 months is the right time to talk about Feelings and to say "I love you" and see how they react. Ideally, after 4-6 months in a relationship you and your significant other will have the communication skills and emotional intimacy for you both to discuss your feelings and feel safe and comfortable doing so.
How soon is too soon to say I love you?
It all depends on the relationship you have with him... if you feel it's ok, then go ahead. You may want to start by telling him how happy he makes you feel or how happy you are when he is around. That would sound less scary for a man to hear..
Is 1 month too early to say "I love you"? What is the next level in the relationship?
Try two weeks into the relationship.My partner and I had amazing chemistry from the moment we met, infact after the first conversation with him I already had a crush.Everytime I'd see him around id feel this intense excitement. The day I finally got his number we started chatting immediately, non stop. That night he asked me to go out on a date.The chemistry was amazing and it just got better the more we talked. Two weeks later we were in his car, he'd already told me before that he was inlove with me, I didn't say anything, I felt more. I've never felt like that.Like I didn't wanna ever do anything to hurt him, I would look at him an feel like I was melting. I knew I wanted to do everything to keep him happy. I didn't care about his flaws, I could get over them as long as I was with him and he was willing to work on our relationship with me.So there we were in his car, he said something silly, I can't really remember what, unconsciously I said something I was thinking alot.“This is why I love you.”I immediately went quiet. I couldn't believe that it slipped. He burst out laughing, I didn't find it offensive. I knew he wasn't laughing at me saying it, more my reaction afterwards.Definitely the most epic “I love you” I've ever said.
My "date" said I love you too soon, what do I do if I really like him too but still feel too soon?
This happened to a friend of mine who is planning on proposing to the girl that said, “I love you” too “soon.”“I really like you a lot, but I’m not ready to say it back yet.”Sometimes love hits you suddenly like running into a pole on a casual Sunday morning walk.BANG!The blood lets you know the feeling is real.“HEY!” You shout to an invisible construction cupid worker, “Who put this freaking I-LOVE-YOU pole here?”At this time your dating-person-whatever laughs at your awkward-self, “Haha, it got you good!” Patting them on their back they reply, “I’m not ready to say it back yet, so wait for me, okay.”A couple months later, they finally smash their face into cupid’s love pole, say it for the first time, spend two years teaching in Korea, meeting each other’s parents, until you guys finally have the TALK!Marriage, babies, no babies, and switching to the male pill once it finally comes out.Fair is fair, and you both hate condoms.Don’t complicate a good thing because society imposes “rules.”If there is mutual attraction, then lovingly laugh at his awkward hot mess and continue continuing on,
When is it too soon to say I love you?
Since you haven't provided any specifics, I'm going to assume that the fact that he's your boyfriend and that you two are already in a relationship indicates that he feels some degree of affection and liking towards you. If you really feel like your own feelings have matured from like to love then tell him right away. I'm assuming your hesitation is due to your uncertainty in the outcome. Well, let's break it down. Here are his possible reactions when you tell him you love him:He says he loves you back, and you take it from there.He doesn't say it back, but he doesn't freak out and get uncomfortable either meaning that maybe he feels the same way but isn't ready to say it out loud himself yet.He doesn't say it back and freaks out or thinks this is going too fast or some other negative reaction. In that case, talk to him and figure out the problem and let him know that his comfort comes first.He acts like it never happened. In this case, wait a while and then bring it up again when he's in a better mood and try to see what the issue is.These are some of the probable scenarios but in any case, I suggest that you be honest and upfront about your feelings and try to get him to do the same. It might get frustrating but there's no use holding it in. This may feel like a big deal but the important thing to remember is that words mean nothing if there are no actions to back them up. When someone says they love you, you should feel loved. It's as simple as that. If that isn't the case, you may need to re-evaluate this relationship.Love in your heart isn't put there to stay. Love isn't love till you give it away.Good luck!