Ex girlfriend/ borderline personality disorder/ want her back?
for the record.. i am still in love with my ex.. even though she has bpd.. i did research and read books alas it was after she left me.. however i was talking with some of her friends, and even though she is dating a new guy now she still "likes me". The last thing i heard from her straight her was "i hate you, your a loser, i wasted a year and half with you, i'm embarrassed, don't ever talk to me again or i'll place a restraining order on you." The day before she broke up with me she was telling me how she wanted to get engaged for christmas and get pregnant this summer? anyhow... anyone have experience with a bpd ex girlfriend? will she come back? I am not talking to her it's been over a month but i plan to contact her by the time summer rolls around (4 months from now).. I still love her and even though she is dating a new guy i don't think it will work out.. any suggestions or ideas? we dated for a year and a half and her longest bf before that was like 5 months
Do people change a lot after high school????
Physically, sometimes. Mentally and personality, almost always. My appearance has pretty much stayed the same, with the exception of my hair cut and I finally found my style. I have grow up SO MUCH since high school. There are things I did and though in HS that would not even cross my mind now. I do things only to please me now, no one else. I dont care what others think of me now. I I no longer do things to be "different" or to "fit in" I have matured a lot. I have found out who I really am. Occasionally the jocks change from being popular and hot to being a fat loser with a dead end job. The Ugly dork turns into the hot successful person married to someone you though would be totally out of their league. The goth kid turns into a school teaching family person. Unfortunately, sometimes the prissy, gossip spreading cheerleader stays prissy and still spreads gossip. But only because she is still trying to make herself feel good by putting other people down.
How to get away from my controlling boyfriend?
My boyfriend of three years is jealous, controlling, and possesive. I am to the point I can't stand it, and have tried to end it.(We live together). He will not take no for an answer....he cries, begs, and pleads, promising that he will change...I have already taken him back once because of this. How can I move out without him bothering me? He just wont accept that it is over,he gets extremely mad...and then he cries. I don't know what to do. i just want to move on. I have two children in the home also.When I try to end it, he calls me 100 times at work trying to plead with me. Help!!!
Is a love life ever going to happen for me?
Alright, so I'm 21 yr old female. Never held a guys hand. Never been kissed. Never went on a date. Never even been hit on at a bar. I go out. I make friends easily with girls and my girl friends and I go out on the weekends, but they're always getting hit on and asked out, but no guys even look at me. I'm definiely not a model, but I'm not hideous - I think I'm average (and it's not a confidence thing - I really am just average looking). I thought it must be my personality, but I mean I have no trouble making friends and the problem is that no guys even come up to me to even know my personality. Around the holidays or family get-togethers, my parents and family will always joke about how I must be going on a secret date with guys or I have some boyfriend that the just don't know about or I must be getting guys left and right, but I'm too embarssed to tell them that no, actually no guys are interested in me. Is my love life hopeless?! What's going on? What am I doing wrong?