Does clear semen indicate a cheating husband?
My husband and I have sex at least once a week. When we were dating it was more like 3 times a week. I once heard that if his seamen is clear he has "let off a load" in the past 48 hours. We had sex today (Sunday) and the last time we had sex was last Saturday. I asked him if he had masturbated in the last few days and he admitted that he did on Tuesday. But does clear seaman indicate infidelity? Honest and respectful answers please
What are some interesting facts about pre-colonial Philippines?
Late answer, but here we go!Did you know that Filipinos had a LOT of gold? When the Spanish came, they were shocked by how even the common men possessed so many gold ornaments.Ironically, Pre-Colonial Filipinos think that having many children is a disgrace. So much so that they even prevent their pregnant daughters from eating kambal na saging (twin-bananas), because they believed that their daughters would give birth to twins if they ate it.We actually built our own voyaging vessels! You read about the Polynesian canoes and the Viking longboats, but we have our Balangays! These boats were used to voyage around the Austronesian settlements in South East Asia!There’s even a reenactment of this! You can follow that project here:The Voyage of the Balangay
My husband is in the military and is cheating on me with another military personnel. What will happen to him if I report it to the military?
I understand you are angry and want to hurt him like he’s hurt you. That’s a normal response to find out something like this. Please, take a breath and think before you act. Destroying a person’s career is a shitty thing to do and will almost certainly destroy any chance of your working this out. Potentially you could be destroying his mistresses career too, and I’m sure you feel she is the evil queen, but the blame doesn’t rest on her shoulders.I can tell you from experience that if he’s cheating, your relationship is in all likelihood either in deep trouble, or may be over.Is this happening right under your nose or has he been deployed to some hell-hole for the last 6 months? If it’s the later, you should know it is not uncommon for a person to love his spouse, but get so lonely that he/she doesn’t exercise the best judgement. If this is the case, you may be able to fix things as long as you don’t make things any worse.Now from the military side of things, it really depends on his rank and position. A officer will likely be asked to resign. On the enlisted side, if you don’t make a bunch of noise, no one really cares (at least in the Air-Force.)Not that money should matter, but in the real world it does. Screwing him over can screw you and your dependents out of a portion of his pension. I forget the number of years you have to be married (maybe 10?) but if you have been married that long, you will get a paycheck for life if you divorce. I’ve never looked deeply into it, but you may also be able to retain your medical/dental insurance. You’ll have to ask someone else about that.But you won’t get a nickle if he doesn’t get to retire.
Why do girls not like seafarers?
As a woman seafarer, from the other perspective. Why do men avoid relationships with women who work on the ships. For a number of reasons, but the length of time you are gone is the biggest one. Then comes the one about being the only woman amongst 20 or more men, and what they erroneously believe is inevitable “sinful” behaviour that will ensue. I laugh at that, because for the most part, that is furthest from the reality for both the men and the women. We work long days, 10–12 hours or more everyday. And when we aren’t working, we’re generally sleeping. In a 3 month work period, I may go ashore once or twice, and only for a couple of hours to purchase needed personal supplies. We certainly don’t have the time or energy to seduce the local population.Sailors, too, for the most part, are very lonely people. Hard to believe, I know, living in such close quarters with a couple dozen others, but it is because of that that we have such a deep respect for privacy and the personal space of others. I could go days without having any conversation with others that wasn’t work related.Having someone waiting for you, and needing you gives us the purpose to carry on.Sailors love and appreciate their shorebound partners and work very hard to support them, as it gives them a stable home, and tie to their community.My opinion, if a man (or girl) doesn’t like sailors, it’s only because they really don’t understand us, or the nature of the work we do, and it truly is their loss.
Is it possible to have a wife when you're a Merchant Seaman/Merchant Marine ?
I would like to get married one day, but I also know working as a Seaman will cause me to be away from a Girlfriend/Wife months at a time. Is it possible the relationship would last a long time ? It would be great if this question to get answered by someone who works in this line of work or retired from this field.
Bachelor's Degree from Philippines worthless in USA? Is this true?
I'm taking up BS Information Technology in FEU and I will return to USA after I graduate since I'm a US citizen. My mom in USA tells me the only thing that matters is having a degree and I can get a job but I also heard that some degrees from here(Philippines) don't count in the USA? Are they recognized or what???
What do you think why filipinas prefer to marry foreigners?
seafarer: my mistake, gereralization! i presumed you've been around the world. I too have a beautiful , very intelligent seafarer sister on board cruise ships.We have mixed ancestral blood of filipino, chinese, and spanish, so, she don't opt for other race without love. With money, she gets a high paying job.She did once had a handsome british bf but the relationship was ruined by a filipina friend who got them into some business scam of 10 million pesos What pissed sister off is that the whites generally treated filipinas as whores, disloyal to relationships and marry whites only for the money, conveniences, Of course, its insulting as our parents raised us not as opportunist.We got relatives of chinese, spanish, and filipino blood around the globe but we prefer to sacrifice and enjoy our life in the land that raised us well. i still look forward for reasons why SOME prefer foreigners, beyond money, i hope.
Why do Filipino women leave the Philippines?
I’d like to chime in since I’m thinking of leaving the Philippines. But my reason is far from the previous answers. In fact, I know many Filipinas who left the country for different reasons, too.Before we start, let’s get something straight. Filipino women are called Filipinas (plural). Got it? Great!Now, here are other answers why we leave the Philippines.Because we can. Filipinos learn english at a very young age and Philippines is pretty immersed in American and European culture. We are very flexible in terms of our beliefs and culture. We understand that the Filipino way is not the only way to go about life, and we have no problem with that.To study. This is my reason for leaving the Philippines (if ever). I have a Bachelor’s degree in Fine Arts and I most definitely want to study in the countries we discussed in Art History, namely Italy and France.More and better opportunities. Unfortunately, this is our reality. A reality I hope the younger generation will be able to change. It pains me to see the best of the best, leave our country because there are few (if any) opportunities here. Filipinos are talented and driven, but we are discouraged to break barriers. One can only wonder, why, Filipinos abroad are being recognised but, as a country, we have nothing to offer the world other than skilled workers. The answer is lack of opportunity and education. Our education focuses on us being good workers, not much more. Leaders are punished, followers are rewarded. But this is another topic.Love. With our average proficiency in English, it’s easier for us to find partners overseas. It’s a common misconception though, that Filipinas who marry a foreigner leaves the country, the majority do, but some choose to stay here.(Edit) We’re bored. Even with our beaches, mountains, and love/hate relationship with Metro Manila, Philippines can get boring. And because we can leave easily (see point 1) we do just that. As per Iresh Rie Dacian “I want to try different culture and I believe that I can only learn it by actually living(and working, to sustain) than just being a random tourist”. Agreed.Again, I’d like to reiterate, not all Filipinos leave because of money or because Philippines is a hell hole. This is a cultural mindset driven by poor government decisions and corruption. I can think of at least two countries that are worse off than our country.
Wifes discharge looks and feels like semen?
It looks to me you are not sure if your wife go behind your back and sleep with someone else, however in regard of your question, women have this type of discharge not in a great amount as you mentioned but it happen, it is the way their vagina stay lubricated and bacteria does not get stock and eventually infection populate, now if you think is an STD you must smell it, infection create a unique rotten odor. Some lady were pats to avoid getting their panties dirty, now you must remember you said you noticed before sex, it mean that your wife like you and love you so much that by foreplay with you she get so wet that it show the way you describe it. the easy way to talk about this is after sex not before and have honest conversation with her and if you have any question then schedule a family physical check, together go to see a family doctor, just be careful this idea it could be a two way avenue. good luck to you. u
Do Filipinos have a slave mentality?
Asking this question is like answering it.Filipinos have developed a slave mentality since many centuries. One of the fundamental reason for this is the way Filipino raise their kids. They don't manifest the same love and affection to their children the same way than westerners do. Instead they teach them to be submitted to them. They don't kiss their kids after they reach the age of about 2 years old. Kissing is unthinkable in the Filipino culture. They teach the ‘mano po' to their kids. They say it's a sign of respect but it's more a gesture of submission than anything else. Kids grow up with the strong idea that they are made to serve their masters. The results of this are obvious in a society of more than 110 millions people.Wages in the Phils never increased and are ridiculously low. It's common to see employees working with primitive tools. Mentalities there are very primitive. It's cheaper for an employer to hire many of his countrymen with hammers and manual saws than buying modern equipments. A big percentage of Filipinos are afraid to use electric tools. Many are afraid of vaccums, lawn mowers, hair clippers (barbers often cut hair with razor blades), trimmers etc. I respect this. What I find totally inhuman and unacceptable in the Philippines is child labor. They exploit their own kids doing the nastiest jobs nobody would do in the civilized world. All this is happening under everyone's eyes but nobody have the guts to talk about these things cuz telling the ugly truth is always a taboo in the Philippines. One of the reasons why Duterte won the elections is because he broke some taboos nobody openly talked about. He's now perceived as a strongman.