Why are so many young men frustrated with women?
I am a mature man and I was the same when I was young. But I wasn't frustrated with women at all. I found it extremely frustrating trying to understand what women wanted from a man. One woman would say this and another would want that, and yet, another couldn't make up here mind to become happy. Some women don't want to be happy with a man. They just want to control him or change him into some famous macho movie star. I never pretend to behave like a macho man nor did I ever treat women like dirt. I was a very quiet well spoken young man who didn't play silly games to get my way. Yet, no matter what I had done to get to know someone it never worked out. The more I tried to have a good healthy relationship with a nice women, the more I got resented and berated. That's what made me so frustrated. However, I am a better person for it regardless of whether I had a bad relationship. I now realize that it was the result of lack of social skills, my level of emotional intelligence, and the inability to express myself as a man. Most men are afraid of being intimate with women because of the fear of feeling vulnerable, and not labeled a homosexual, loser, or even a coward. Also, I believe that most young men today don't have good role models anymore. There is no support and guidance in society. There are far too many deadbeats, jerks, and sleezebags who use women as a sex object. Blame all those violent male orientated action movies that depict young men as tough beer drinking louts, who use their fists ( not brains or reason) to fight against authority, or anyone that stands in their way. Some just pick a fight with anyone they perceive to be weak just to prove that they are men. This occurs in most gang related movies.
Why do older men date younger women?
As a man that is in a relationship with a younger woman (as distinct from girl), l can probably say the following with some confidence and in no particular order:older women tend to be set in their waysolder women tend to be less interested in sexolder women are usually more autonomous and self reliant, which is a good thing as well as being more experienced when it come to accepting differencesyounger women have less life experiences and are generally more idealistic which plays to being less accommodating or acceptingolder men can see through certain behaviours to the resulting consequences with greater ease due to their own experiences and can thus, if they’re grown up enough, chose how to respond. This could piss some younger women off of course.it takes a particular type of younger woman, in terms of her emotional and intellectual maturity, to have a relationship of any consequence with an older chap. Some younger woman just prefer to be with someone that is more stablethe rule of thumb is, in terms of optimal age (x) difference, the chaps age (a) divided by two plus seven: x = (a/2) + 7. Anything beyond this and it starts to become creepy and frivolous. This formula can, in fact, be universally applied to any mans age (within the usual conventions of course). This is simply because women tend to mature more quickly than men.younger women tend to gird older chaps to being a little more conscious of their health on both mental and physical levels. This is not meant to say they’re in denial it just reduces the rate at which older men get too old in their heads and general disposition.some older men tend to be more experienced sexually and less inhibited when it comes to sharing and exploring in bed, which younger woman tend to like.I could add some more thoughts but the main reasons and associated issues from my humble perspective are summarised above. Additionally, I’ve just ‘sense checked’ with my significant other as to why she likes being with an older man and her response kicks some of what I've just written into touch. For her it's more about the chemistry as she doesn't necessarily prefer older men. It's just that, in this case, it happily works for her. She says it helps that I don't look my age and can engage with most people irrespective of their age, race, background. Nice touch on her part.So, at the risk of being a little trite in closing, it is sometimes said that a chap is only as old as the woman he feels!
Do men mind dating a woman with children?
I'm a 25-year-old single mom and I've found that it's actually pretty rare to come across someone who refuses to date you because you have a kid. If anything it's made me more attractive because they see me as mature, loving, and responsible.
As women in our 30s, what should we expect as courtship or dating men?
Age matters not. A man with class will ask your preferences and plan accordingly. Most men out there, however, will try to get away with whatever they can: Not spending any money the whole day they're with you, trying to get you to put them up for the night, etc. They pull stunts with women in their early twenties that have my eyes popping out when I hear or see it.What I suggest is that you come to terms with your own demands, your own boundaries. Then communicate these very directly with men you are considering for dating or spending time with. Also ask them what they feel is appropriate, how they wish to go forward (assuming they do). That will eliminate most all of the game playing. If you want kids, I advise you to get artificially inseminated by age 35 so you aren't scrambling around, likely to make foolish decisions due to your biological clock ticking. It gets easier as you get older, once all the baby-making nonsense is behind you.