I asked a girl out and she said, sorry but I can't. Is she saying try harder or go away?
No means no. Any variation of the word no, may be a way of her trying to let you down easy, or maybe she’s just trying to be polite. But it’s all the same - anything but a yes, means no.“Maybe another time” = no“Try me again in the new year” = means no, for now at least“I wish I could…” = you got it, means noI know that some responses seem like a “grey area”, but for your sanity, for your ego, and because consent is sexy you should consider anything that is not an overwhelming YES!, to be a no.You will be happier in the long run if the girl you are asking out is as excited to be with you as you are with her.EDIT: I have never said no or given a negative response when I secretly wanted him too. Any girl who does that is not a girl you need in your life, avoid women who play head games.
What signs do (shy) women give to show interest in a guy?
To tell if a woman likes you, you will always have to look at her actions, not her words!Luckily, although she will never straight up tell you how she feels, a woman will give you subtle signs that she likes you or not. If she’s attracted to you, she will give you indicators of interest.Indicators of interest are behaviours from a woman which show that she’s in to you. When a woman is attracted to you she will respond by showing some of these indicators, consciously or unconsciously.If you want to learn how to seduce a woman, it’s key that you learn how to read these signals.Be careful!! Just because she is showing ONE of these signs does not mean she’s interested! But, learn to take notice of the signs she’s giving you and use your natural intuïtion to adjust to the situation! Always make sure you’re getting multiple clear signs!Here they are:Touching of hair / adjusting and modifying her hairAdjusting her blouse / Letting her dress fall off her shoulders, showing additional skin / Taking off layers of clothesShe starts re-applying her lipstick to look betterTouching herself: for example sliding her hand along her neck or collarboneConstant licking of her lipsProlonged eye contact, accompanied with a smile / smiling with er eyesFrom a distance: briefly breaking eye contact and then locking in againHer body language is open and directed at youPhysical proximity / She’s always leaning into youWhile talking to her, she sticks around instead of making excuses.She accepts you touching her or even touches you back.She lets you come closerShe agrees when you ask her to go somewhere and she goes along with you.She lets you be alone with her. She would stay nearby the protection of her friends if she’ wasn’t interestedShe agrees when you ask her to danceShe comes back to your place. She knows things might escalate in that situation. If she’s not interested, she will find an excuse.When you try to escalate physically, she lets youShe moves closer when you lean in for a kissShe lets you put her arm around her.She laughs at all your jokes, even when they’re not funny.She lets you move her around the venue wherever you want to go.She holds your drink when you ask her to.She starts asking you about your love lifeShe mentions she’s singleShe’s constantly giving you complimentsShe starts to qualify herself to youShe’s constantly touching youShe acts differently around you compared to her baseline behaviour—-THE MANLY MEN BLOG—-
Defending yourself against a mentally handicap person?
Ok. A lot of crap went down at work today. I work at a restaurant. There is a mother who has a mentally handicap son who is quite large. She obviously cannot control him at all, as she is small and frail. Well the mentally handicap son always says hi to all the phone girls, who are all young and blonde and "pretty." One of the girls giggled a bit, and he stormed up and kept screaming "Why are you laughing?! Why are you laughing?!" The mother was trying to pull him and he kept pulling away from her. The girl that he was yelling at backed up and he reached up to grab her and I jumped in and pushed him away. The girl is no taller than 5'4 and is very skinny. He would have destroyed her. Well, the kid didn't take kindly to me pushing her away so he came after me and I pushed him again to get him away. Not to antagonize him, to get him away. So he picked up a plate, and came at me and I punched him across his jaw and pushed him away. That abruptly ended it, as he crouched down and started whaling. The mother was screaming at me, my boss was screaming at me, and everybody was giving me a dirty look. I did nothing wrong! Now everybody is against me except the girl I was defending. What the hell did I do wrong? He is a very tall male with "retard strength." The police came and questioned me, and looked over the security camera film and they even stated that I did nothing wrong and I was not arrested. Still, I am practically shunned by my community now. What do I do? I didn't enjoy doing what I did, I just defended myself and my coworker.
Moving out for the first time/ housewarming party?
I would just have the invitation say that you want people to come and help you guys celebrate your first apt together. I don't feel it would be very nice to ask for particular things. Just my opinion, but I don't think it would be proper ettiquette.
Why do women always get what they want?
Ha. Ha-ha. Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!!! (Is that the reaction you want?) There's a certain kind of woman who might be pampered, babied and handed it on a silver-plate, but you can bet your sweet bippy she's working very hard at making her body a tool for getting people to do that. Not easy to be 5'8" and 34-22-34. It's not cheap getting together a wardrobe to attract that kind of attention. So, if a guy is stuck alone miserable at a bar at 3 a.m. waiting for sex, it's really his own damn fault. He should be working just as hard to make himself into the kind of guy who is pampered, babied, fed sweet little bar niblets by the beautiful girls and being taken home by them for a night of champagne and ecstasy. Is that what you want? Then stop sitting at the bar feeling sorry for yourself. Spend hours working out, and learn how to make yourself attractive to older rich women who will take care of you until they are sick of you.
Can you get in trouble for doing "stuff" in a parking lot if someone wrote down your license plate #?
me and him were doing stuff in a car in the back of the parking lot where nobody could see...not all clothes were on but nothing major. a woman pulled up next to us, i think she wrote down the license plate #, honked alot, then drove away. we left right after that. and a minute or two later i saw a police car pull into the other side of the parking lot (could be coincidence cuz he drove really slow like he was just patrolling). could i get in any sort of trouble? will the police contact me?