Literally everyone hates me?
I'm a junior in high school and I literally HATE it here. All the people in my grade have a strong disdain towards me. And I'm seriously not making it up. Ever since middle school I've been spit on, laughed at, called a slut/skank/ugly/stupid/worthless/anythin... in the book of bad words. And now that I'm a junior and I obviously grew up from the whole middle school phase of duck faces and all that stuff. And I haven't done any drugs or anything ever. Yet people assume I am this super slut/drug addict. People in class laugh at me all the time whenever I answer a question, even when I get the answer right they say "oh wow this whore is never going to college" and stuff like that. I don't dress like anything bad either. I seriously only wear jeans and my xc t-shirts. And all my old friends think that way about me because to them I'm "immortal" and **** because I don't have a 99 average like they all do. I can't really make any other friends either because every time I meet someone nice and talk to them, the next day they find out everything people say about me and ignore me. I literally HATE going to school because of it. And when two people asked me to go to the junior prom at my school this weekend, i immediately turned them down because I know I would have ended up running home crying because someone would have said something. last year I attempted suicide because of it (but it obviously failed) but then at therapy and everything they tell you the same old **** "oh it gets better" OH REALLY? IS THAT WHY PEOPLE HAVEN'T CHANGED?? IS THAT WHY PEOPLE STILL TREAT ME THIS WAY? I am starting to have bad thoughts again too, but I know I have way to much on my plate to end life right now because of IB exams and finals and stuff. And I really want to get back into a happy social life like I used to have but at this point I feel like it would just be impossible
Literally everyone hates me..?
I'm in 5th grade, and I came to my school in November. Everyone wanted to be friends with me, because I looked nice, but I was too shy and they think i'm weird. I know how it feels, I asked some questions and I cried a few times. But what i'd do is take advantage of your friend that likes you as a friend, and you can become BFFs. If you want, you can ask your other friends why they talk behind your back, It may make them feel bad. Cry a little if it's necessary. Since your other friends talk behind your back. They don't like you for being...you, and they don't accept you which isn't a good thing. I personally think that one good friend is enough. I have one really nice friend and that's all I need. That's all most people need. Remember, you don't need to be in a group or anything.
Why do I hate everyone?
Because you don’t respect yourself.I hate to break it to you, but you are suffering from a delusional mindset that only sees the bad in people. You overlook anything that makes somebody decent or interesting, and you choose only to focus on the shit. This is self-deception. It is a way of thinking that only recognizes what you want to see (the negative) and casts away everything that you do not (the positive).Hating people is often a form of self-hatred projected onto the world. Your life is not good enough, you are not properly fulfilled, and you lack something essential for your own happiness.Because of this, you see yourself as a failure, and you feel the need to bring others down to your “own level.” It’s much easier to tear others down than to give them credit where its due. Somebody that is out of shape, and doesn’t respect himself because of it, is going to hate seeing somebody who is. It’s so much easier to just say “Oh that guy is an asshole” instead of “He is where I want to be.”We hate feeling inadequate, and people that have what we want, or have become the person that we want to be, are seen as a target. They call attention to our own flaws, and we therefore associate them with any negative feelings that they make us feel about ourselves.I used to think the same way. Guys that were sexier than me or got more girls than me or had better grades than me or had more friends than I did…..I hated them. Not because there was any legitimate reason to hate them, but because looking at them made me realize everything that I wasn’t, and it made me feel like shit.I didn’t respect myself enough to avoid playing the devil’s game of comparison, and I hated everyone as a result.Want to know the solution?Love yourself. Improve yourself. Work on the things that will level up your life, and soon enough you will actually start liking who you are. Once this happens, the hatred disappears. Once you start working on yourself, going to the gym, starting a hobby, or getting really good at a new skill, you cease to give a shit.There’s no room for hatred once you like what you see in the mirror. The self-love extends beyond just yourself, and you realize that we are all flawed humans just trying to make our way.Love and respect yourself, and your life will change forever.
What name do you hate that everyone else seems to love & vise versa?
What name do you HATE that everyone else loves? [Me]: I can not stand the names Emma, Kylie, Ethan, Finn & Eloise, but everyone else seems to like them. Rude people I go to school with ruined these names for me. What name do you LOVE that everyone else seems to hate? [Me]: I love Emersyn for a girl. With the nickname Emmy, I think it is adorable. For boys, I know you all are going to hate me, but I love the -ayden names. I had a best friend names Ayden who died in a car accident 3 years ago and they remind me of him. I dont like the made up ones though. (Zayden, Grayden, Layden, Rayden etc) Thanks! Livi xo
Why does everyone hate my boyfriend? (very long)?
The reason for you not breaking up shouldn't be the promise you made but rather how you feel toward him and how he is treating you. You are right why would someone that is interested in you at the time and wanting to develop a relationship with you choose to see other girls? After that kiss and both you wanting to further the relationship as BF and GF would be official enough and it is considered cheating. He was very young and he wanted a girl friend at that time and may not be sure if you were the one to go for or maybe not feel that he was complete with you. Him being at another state for college he would have many opportunities to be with other girls and party etc. I CANT MAKE THE JUDGMENT BECAUSE I DONT KNOW THE GUY. However the likeliness of him cheating is greater in a relationship that started at age of 15, because curiosity to what out there and should I settle for her would still be with him. When he start going to clubs with his friends im pretty sure he will be dancing with other girls or want to take one home. With you not being there.. I think you should try to see if there is any difference in his behavior toward you. Such as a decrease in number phone calls or affection toward you. OR HIM being extremely loving at times out of guilt. Become his friends friend see how their personalities are and heck if you go over to that state to visit him make a girl friend ther that may help you catch him if he is cheating. Aside from that go with your instincts and feeling toward him then anyone elses. But ask yourself if you will have a good future with him and don't get caught up in just the relationship and forget your goals in life. Ask yourself if you are happy with him and you are getting enough attention and love that you deserve. Remember that as both of you get older there would be many things that you will go through and character and behavior..overall personality will change.
I feel lonely but I don't want to talk to anyone either. Is that weird?
I can only say that I at least feel this way so there are others too.I am 32 now and since I was a child I pretty much never felt any need to talk to others. The last few years I have been feeling more and more lonely yet I don’t like being around others( i’m not one of those people who hate everyone or similar, I think the people I meet are mostly good, nice people, and I am a pretty optimistic person to boot), I detest talking most of the time and at best find it exhausting and boring.I don’t understand why people seem to enjoy such interactions. I could spout things like they want a connection or something but I just do not understand it. I have never had or felt such a thing with anybody. Perhaps I am missing something as a person, it certainly feels that way.Yet I still seem to have this biological instinct to want a partner, companionship and sex. It’s incredibly annoying and it hurts. A lot at times.I have no friends. I never met anyone who I genuinely enjoyed talking to.It’s not like i’m some weirdo( well other than the above haha), if you met me on the street you would think I was just an ordinary person no different than anyone else, we could even say hi and make a sentence or two of small-talk and all would seem normal.It certainly makes life hard in a myriad of ways. To be normal would be wonderful.I hope I can find a path forward as life lost it’s charm years ago and I feel like an old man tired of life ready to move on.
I like this guy but he's really weird?
So i like this guy who's six months older than me. I'm literally in love with him...and he really likes me, too. It's very obvious that he likes me. My friend Nicole said, "He loves your guts!" My friend Levi says all the time, "There's your boyfriend", or "your boyfriend this, your boyfriend that...", and my other friend said, "He's like, IN LOVE with you, Erica." But the thing is, he's really weird sometimes. Like today, for example, we had a car wash at my church, and I was itchy, so I said, "I'm itchy..." and he said, "Then itch..." and he gave me the "Like, realy..." face. He's not mean, he's just weird. And I was talking to Levi about him one day and Levi said, "Why do you always talk about such an UGLY IDIOT?" Its true...people think he's and idiot and thats he's ugly. Nobody likes him at all. But I'm the only person that doesnt think he's and idiot or something and likes him. But what should I do? He's so weird sometimes, but I still like him, and when people say bad things about him, I'm just shocked and I don't know what to say. They mostly say stuff when he's NOT there. But I want to stand up for him but I need help? Please?? His name is Abraham...thanks :D