Is it wrong that my boyfriend still has his online dating account open?
Please read the details before answering. My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for the past two years. For the most part we've been together but we've taken breaks because of our age difference and the fact that we live an hour away. We broke it off over a month ago, but last week he talked about how he wants to be monogomous and in a long-term relationship with me, and he also said he wants to move in with me in the next year. So after that conversation, we became official again. However, when we took our break last month he opened up an account on a dating website. He claimed that he didn't go on there to get serious with anyone, he just wanted to hang out and meet new people. He went on 3 dates and 2 of them were pissed that he wasn't looking for a relationship (1 slammed his car door), and the other woman was just boring. He didn't get intimate with these women. When I made a joke about how he has to delete his POF account now that we're official, he dished the jokes back and said "Ha, I don't have to do anything!" I looked him on on POF and his account is still open. Should I talk to him about this? I think I should since I'm not comfortable with him having an active account, even if he isn't logging on. I just don't think it's respectful that HE was the one who wanted to get back together with me, yet for some reason doesn't want to delete his account. Weird. And if it matters, I'm in my early 20's and he's in his mid 30's.
Boyfriend is on an online dating site and...?
Ok so basically i noticed that my boyfriend has a plenty of fish account. I got annoyed about it and he said hes on it to make friends. I said to him that it is a dating site and he said hes just on it to make friends. he said if i go onto his profile ill se that hes looking for friends(women) so i went onto it and it does say hes seeking women for friends but under the marital status it says single (there was an option to say not single and not looking) and it says that his intent is a relationship.his profile says he is lloking for someone who will accept him for who he is .i dont know what to think because ive been so paranoid with him lately.the fact that he was open and said look on it suggests its not sneaky but it says looking for a relationship and mentions nothing about me..should i be mad at him for it or confront him? he doesnt know i went on to see it yet
My boyfriend has an online dating profile.?
I met my boyfriend through a mutual friend 5 months ago. After dating for about a month one of my girl friends called me aside and told me that she had an online dating profile on pof and had seen a picture of my boyfriend on there. She just wanted to warn me he must have a profile there as well. I didn't worry about this as we had only been seeing each other for a month so I thought he would delete his profile if we got serious. Anyway, since then we have had the exclusivity talk and are now openly boyfriend and girlfriend and have met each other's friends etc We are getting along great and he the best partner in every way. But a month ago whilst over in that same girlfriend's house she had her dating profile open and called me over to look on screen at all the guys "online now" my man was "online now" ! Obviously after 4 months of dating ad now being an official couple I was very upset. I hate to say this but I created a fake profile on the website from which I emailed him. I wanted to see if he was just continuing to go into the site out of boredom and not doing anything bad or, if he is actively looking for girls. In the past month he has not replied to the mails from the fake profile. I have gone on the odd time and seen him "online now" and tried to chat with him bit he never accepts. My friend has also seen him as "online now" on a regular basis she tells me. I really don't know what to do, This is a great guy who seems genuine in person. But since I have found out this secret it has just disappointed me deeply.I also feel terrible and guilty for the fake profile I set up trying to catch him but I do not want to be with a player who is cruising other girls whilst with me, acting all romantic. Please help.
Boyfriend has an online dating profile (badoo)?
I think that you should sit him down and just tell him the truth: you were googling his name (nothing wrong with that) and a dating profile came up which is active and was set up after the two of you were together. Ask him to please explain to you why he felt the need to create this account. Also, don't accept the classic excuse "oh, I never created that account, it must have been one of my friends who did it to me as a prank" tell him you've heard that one a million times before and you're not letting the matter go until he tells you the truth. In all likelihood, the truth will not be pleasant to hear. At best, he created it out of curiosity to see what kinds of people were on there and maybe if he knew anyone who used it. At worst, he created it to try to meet women on the side. Either way, he was wrong to do what he did and he KNOWS that you would not like it if you were aware of the account. I guess the best approach would be to let him off with a warning THIS time (only if he is extremely sorry and was not trying to date anyone behind your back). Make him delete the account, of course, as well as promise you that he will never again sign up for any dating sites, hook-up sites, or anything else which he intends to use as a way to interact romantically with other women and meet up with them. Tell him that you will not give him another chance if he screws up again, and stick to your guns if he ever does.
Found my boyfriend on dating sites?!?
Even though it is apparent That I should leave him because "he's not taking me serious" but there is legitimate reason that I do have some sort of confusion to this. I caught my boyfriend on plenty of fish and okcupid awhile ago, I confronted him about it. He said he's sorry and was not talking or interested in anyone but me. As a boyfriend overall, he is amazing. He shows me off, gives me undivided attention, and fights for me. When I say fight for me, he has my back throughout anything, supports me in every way. He is my best friend, it's just always so positive every time we're around each other and when we're not around each other. I couldn't ask for more. I hate to seem like the girlfriend who "loops" through his stuff.. But I can't help the fact that he was on the dating site before, it really bothered me. So I saw on his history engine that he was still proceeding with plenty of fish and has not yet deleted his dating site accounts. I was too scared to approach him because I don't want to ruin anything or put stress on him. But, I did. He told me "i don't talk to other girls. The only reason I kept it was because this is all still new to me. I am so afraid of losing you and feeling completely worthless that I felt I needed to keep options open so I wouldn't feel alone. This all comes from me being some what insecure and being too tough to even talk about it. It's hard for me to open up and talk about it. And it upsets me a lot to even have to do it" What is your opinion about this?
Why does my boyfriend still have an online dating profile up?
So, I've been seeing this guy off and on since October of last year, and steady since January of this year. We met through an online dating service and when we started being exclusive we both took our profiles down. One day he checked his email on my computer and left the page open. He had a bunch of emails claiming to have new matches from another site. I went on this site and saw that sure enough he had a profile. In his defense, he did revise the profile when we started seeing each other exclusive and made it very short and non-descript. The thing that bothers me though is that he's listed as single and looking for a LTR or activity partner. Why would he say that? He logs on an average of 1-2 times per week and never updates it. His profile basically consists of his eye, hair color, body type, and age. I have faith in the fact that the vagueness of the profile means he's not particularly seeking someone, but why have it? Are there some guys who just like to see what's out there? He told me that he was on the site that we met on when he was seeing his ex and she had no issue. Should I care or confront him? Or am I making a big deal out of nothing? I love him, and he says he loves me, I just wish I didn't have to deal with this...Any advice is helpful and thanks!
Boyfriend still using dating app, why?
I dont think its weird to bring it up. He's on a dating app and he's in a relationship? Thats disrespectful to you. I'd just say you logged on the app because you forgot to take down your photos or something like that and say I noticed you still have an account is there a reason for that? You don't have to be confrontational about it but you have to ask. If the beginning of you relationship starts with distrust already not a good sign. Honesty is one of the keys to a successful relationship so he should understand that and if he doesn't that would be crazy of him. Best of luck!
Is it acceptable that my boyfriend keeps using his online dating account to 'meet new people'?
That is so incredibly sketchy. A friend of mine dumped his girlfriend for this exact reason, because she was still active on her MeetMe account.In short, no it should not be acceptable to you. He’s not using it to “meet new people”, he’s using it to keep his options open and play you for a fool. He sounds like a piece of shit if he pulls the “if you don’t trust me, then..” card. Absolutely ridiculous. I’m actually quite angry for you right now hearing this because I’m a guy and I would NEVER do this to my SO.You wanna know one way to figure out if he’s really just trying to meet new people? Ask him to show you the messages. Just ask him. And if he gets defensive, he is either cheating or trying to cheat. OR you could check the messages yourself if you have some way to get into the account. Many users will advise against this, but being active on a dating website is a HUGE red flag.I suggest breaking up with him right now. Sure, you could communicate with him and get him to see your side and maybe he’ll actually delete it, but you’ve already seen his sketchy side. If he can’t even see how it would bother you, then he probably isn’t a very good person.
Help, my friend is dating someone she met online!!!!!!?
They only met a week ago on facebook playing "draw my thing." He lives in California and she is already making plans to drive 24 HOURS and visit him this summer!!!! Me & my friends hve tried talking some sense into her, but she says that we are jst jealous that she has a bf!!!! She says she has skyped him, and they are constantly chatting online but she doesnt actually KNOW this person. I went to his facebook page, and he has some photos of himself-- but mostly manga-- and only has like 90 friends and his page is completely open. Its alwas the same 3 people who write on his wall (including my friend) and it's majorly creepy!!! Plus-- both her mom and sis APPROVE!!!! Her parents are divorced, and we were thinking of telling her dad, but he live like 90 minutes away, and we have no idea how to contact him! She was really upset this valentines day when she bought her matchmaker sheet and her most compatible match was like 60%-- so I think shes jst happ someone wants to date her. How do I stop her from persueing this relationship??? sorry for all the mistakes, im jst typing rly fast and FREAKIN OUT ABOUT THIS INSANITY!!!! BTW, she is only 14, and this guy claims to still be in highskool.