How can i get confidence in myself ?
FIRST OFF YOU HAVE TO START BY LOVING YOURSELF. AND ONCE YOU CAN DO THAT THEN BEING ABLE TO ACCEPT YOURSELF THINGS SHOULD COME EASY.
How do I keep myself confident but not over confident?
Confidence in yourself and your abilities is a good thing. Successful people are almost always confident. But never over confident. Over confidence will always cause more damage than doing good for you.Do not overestimate your knowledge or accuracy on any subject. Always try to learn. Recognize your limitations and be honest with yourself. If someone else is more talented, skilled it is because of their hard work. Do not diminish their efforts. Never let your ego and arrogance give rise to over confidence. If someone is criticizing or giving improvement points, take them positively. Think about it with a calm mind, if you really think it needs improvement, work on it. Ultimately it will make you better and stronger. Always stay grounded.
Why is it bad to be TOO confident in yourself?
By ‘TOO confident’, I presume you actually mean being overconfident. There is nothing wrong with being confident and in fact it is a wonderful trait to have because it signifies you have self belief.However, like anything in excess, overconfidence too creates problems which could be in the nature of the following :You feel you are invincible and may not be able to identify trouble for yourself easily.You become a poor listener and tend to ignore/ brush off any criticism or even well meaning suggestions.Over confidence breeds arrogance - you will be taking those around you for granted; you may not make use of the expertise around you; you may antagonize key people.Your ability to focus and learn new things gets stunted / limited because your over confidence does not permit you to accept the reality that you need to keep up to date.You may also like to check out the following linksJacob Bobby's answer to What are the 5 most important ingredients for true self-confidence in life?Jacob Bobby's answer to How do you identify the subtle difference among self-esteem, self-confidence and ego?You are also welcome to read my Inspirational and Motivational blog Actspot's Blog to get additional inputs that could be useful to you. Also attempt the TRY THIS activities listed at the end of each blog post.
Is it wrong to have too much confidence in you?
Confidence can not be quantified.. There is only Confidence.. There cant be ‘too much’ or ‘too less’ confidence..But, sometimes you venture into tasks with pride and greed and fail to apply your common sense, thereby, end-up making a mess of everything.. Then some say “don’t be too much confident”.. It is the confidence that made you venture into the task.., but what took the things wrong was your pride, greed and absence of sense..So, Be Confident.., Not Greedy.. Have sense.., Not Pride..Stay Blessed.
Is there anything wrong about being vain and being confident about yourself?
There is nothing wrong with being confident about ur abilities, but being vain is wrong. When ur vain, ur putting others down and thinking too much of urself. Being over-confident is bad too, bc u might just be too delirious to notice the limitations of ur abilties.
So is being confident a good or bad thing?
People say all the time how you should have confidence and not care what others think... On the other hand, they want to you to care what they thing and listen to them. I find it hard to be confident. I am a perfectionist. I can't let myself, be myself. I a lot care what others think.I live my life for other people, to prove myself, to get a good reputation. Why? Because I think if I believe in myself I will relive in illusion. And it ruins my life.
Is it bad to consider yourself as beautiful?
I actually think that I am beautiful. I don't brag about it or even mention or talk about looks but I wouldn't really want to change anything about me. Is that being conceited?
Is it sinful pride to believe in yourself?
No, in fact self confidence is actually an attribute of meekness which is listed among the blessed attributes in Mathew 5. I'll expand on that in a minute. 1st lets understand more about sinful pride or “the pride of life,” which is believing that you are better than someone else. This type of pride can be broken into three major categories:Birtherism; pride of your perceived social standing based on the following.born rich,born poor,family name, (genealogy)born in the right neighborhood,born in the wrong neighborhood,born of a particular ethnicity,from a particular country,Birther pride plays out in two ways. The more obvious is the idea that you're better than other people. Much less obvious is the idea that you're not good enough giving a false since of humility.Accomplishment; the sin isn't in having accomplished, but allowing your achievements to go to your head.Life style choices; everyone makes good and bad choices neither of which is necessarily a sin. But;Thinking you are just average is prideful sin. You are not average, you have gifts unique to you, discover them.thinking that just because you are religious or follow a particular sect of your religion makes you better than people who follow another sect, different religion, or no religion is prideful sin.Thinking that because you gave money to a charity makes you better than others is prideful sin.Thinking that you've made too many mistakes in life to be forgiven is prideful sin.Thinking that you are good enough and don't need God at all is probably the second most prideful sin.Believing that because God called you into ministry makes you more important than anyone at all is probably the most prideful sin.Now let's talk about self confidence.Jesus said, “Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.” meekness is not about being humble so much as it is about not boasting. A truly meek person knows themselves. If a task is within their abilities then they are willing to step up and complete it without fanfare. A truly meek person knows when to seek counsel or ask for help. A truly meek person welcomes a helping hand. Meek people complement and congratulate other people's efforts. Meek people can receive praise without false humility. Meek people are full of confidence in themselves and others. Meek people take responsibility for their failures rather than pass the blame.I hope I have successfully answered your question.
Is it wrong to get turned from taking nude pics of yourself?
No, not really. If anything, its a good thing because you are confident in yourself and your body. The actual act of taking photos of yourself is an exhibitionist/voyeuristic (sp) side of yourself; you get turned on by the possibility of someone seeing these photos or getting caught. Its fine as long as you, or someone else, doesn't get hurt.
How do I become confident if I cannot stop myself from making mistakes or forgetting things?
Just turn the question around. How can you become confident if you don't make mistakes and forget things? Mistakes are where you find your confidence.Without confidence, you'll make a mistake and try to cover it up. Make sure fingers are pointing anywhere else but where the fault lies. Create problems for others because of your own shortcomings.If you're confident, you own up to your mistakes immediately. Man, I really messed up. What can I do to fix It?Confidence is knowing that you can do the right thing even if it will make you look bad. Confidence is protecting yourself and others from your own shortcomings.The alternative is becoming a narcissist, incapable of acknowledging your mistakes. Absolute confidence that someone else is at fault for all problems. Burning bridges when people don't accept the blame for your actions. Manipulating your way through life to hide from the fact that you might just be human after all.Please don't be that guy. Acknowledge your mistakes and move on toward doing better the next time. That is what real confidence looks like.