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Is It Wrong To Refuse To Let My Daughter Wear Makeup

My daughter refuses to go around without makeup on?

Ever since I showed her when she was in 7th grade (she's a junior now) she's been totally hooked ever since. Even if it's a lazy Saturday, she stills applies concealer, powder foundation, blush, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, lipstain etc. It's ridiculous! She wears false eyelashes to school every day! Granted, it looks very pretty and not at all circus-clown-like, it's extremely annoying. Even if we're running out to walmart for tampons she puts on lazy Saturday makeup and it takes her at least 15 minutes to get ready! I swear she always has mascara somewhere on her at all times, since she has a full face whenever she wakes up and I see her. No, she's not the most beautiful girl in the world, yes she has freckles and acne and red skin and virtually no eyelashes and such, but it's the mist ridiculous thing! I keep taking it away and she always seems to have an endless supply and no matter where I hide it she gets it back right after I turn away! Even when I tell her she's gorgeous, she tells me 'no, you're lying!' and turns away. She uses ever acne medicine and serum I buy her but it never seems to help the problem! Help!

Why wont my 14 year old daughter wear makeup?

My daughter is beautiful, but she says wearing makeup is gross and she feels like a clown, she wont do anything to her hair except brush it, and she refuses to shave her pits and legs. She also refuses to wear jeans, and will only buy BLACK DRESS SLACKS at CHICO'S yes, where grandmas shop. She is beautiful but this has gone on long enough. She hates society norms like anything to do with the teenager lifestyle. I bought her a phone and her classmates are always telling her to call them but she wont, She wont text or chew bubble gum OR EVEN WATCH TV! NO TV SINCE 2006! She studies way too much,,, and has even taken it upon herself to learn Japanese, She hates going to sleepovers and never has fun doing anything except drawing and watching anime... She does go to Anime meet ups once a month or so but never makes any friends there Girls give her their number and she refuses to call them, She acts like a grandmother.What could this all mean?

My 16 year old daughter won't wear makeup?

Hi I'm a mom of a 16 year old daughter, who strangely has no interest in makeup! Now I show people her school picture and they always so "My god she's beautiful!"

But she's not wearing any makeup in those pictures? Can people tell when a girl isn't wearing makeup? Why doesn't my daughter act like the rest of her peers? I have always been expecting her to come to me begging to wear makeup but she never has. Why?

Should I force my daughter to wear makeup?

My daughter hates makeup, and I think that she looks a lot better with it, but she won't ever wear it. I have forced her in the past, when going to the mall, to wear makeup, and she was miserable the whole trip. What do I do? I don't want my daughter looking like junk, but I want her to be happy too. Is forcing her okay?

I'm 13 and my mom don't let me wear makeup, what should I do?

Well, I can tell you that you SHOULDN’T go behind her back and wear makeup anyways. You may think that you’ll get away with it—and that may be the case—but that will hurt you more than help. If you lose your mom’s trust about something as superficial as makeup, you will have a hard time regaining it over the next few years. Very likely, your mom is feeling apprehensive about you becoming a teenager: her baby girl is gone, and she needs just as much transition in to your adulthood as you do. It’s gonna take a few years. Don’t be afraid to show your mom right now that she can trust you with simple rules like no makeup. If she’s a good mom, she will let you lead the way eventually and give you lots of room to become yourself and express that any way you choose. The key is to start with following rules and earning that trust.I started wearing makeup around your age, and I know that it is perfectly normal. However, I never talked to my mom about it (she also never had any rules about makeup), I just snuck into her bathroom and tried to copy what I had seen her do in her morning routines. It was a bit of a disaster, as I was not very good at it and got teased a little bit at school for it. But I think the biggest failure of mine was not my lack of skill, but rather the lack of letting my mom in on it. i know she would have been thrilled to show me the best way to put on foundation without having an orange line across my chin, or how to choose a good eye shadow color, or how to put on mascara without it flinging all over my eyelids. That could have been a really great experience for us—and we started to really need good experiences together until I was about 18—that I missed out on because I thought I was being sneaky.

How can I get my daughter to wear make up?

My daughter is 16 an doesn't anything about makeup this is the age where I always thought I'd be showing her but she said she don't really like it that it feels weird in her face an that she thinks she looks good without make up. I'd really love for her to start wearing make up specially when we go out as a family the ladies must look presentable.

Punishment for daughter who's wearing makeup behind my back!?

I don't think a punishment will help her or you. Try to have a really open talk about why she feels it's necessary to wear make-up. It is probably her insecurity about her looks or popularity that is driving this behavior. American Girl has two great books for her age called " The Care and Keeping of You" and "Real Beauty". The emphasis is on the changes she is going through, cleanliness, and individuality.

Maybe compromise and take her to the Benefit or Clinique counter for a lesson in a proper look for her age. (Lip gloss is great, maybe add a light girly perfume). Last, tell her that if you can't trust her to be honest with you she will have to spend more of her time under your supervision. That should be motivating

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