How To Finger A Girl?
I appreciate your curiosity and want to please her instead of being a douche by simply pressuring her into giving you head. Props. I don't know enough about your situation to judge, so I'm just going to answer the question. The first thing you need is lube. Since you are only fingering her for now, saliva (along with her own secretions) will do the job. The most important thing is to make sure she is aroused. Kiss her, kiss her neck, her boobs, do your thing. Depending on how tight she is, it might be painful for her. Just take it slow and use however many fingers she wants. Once you're in her vagina, turn your hand so that your palm is facing up and rub against the top wall, so your finger is pointing towards her belly button. This is where her G Spot is. Keep in mind that it might not even feel that good to her; since her vagina hasn't had any experience it is not acclimated to receiving pleasure. Have her let you know what feels good and what hurts, communication is key.
Is it zina to finger a girl?
Yes it's. Narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allah has decreed for every son of Adam his share of zina, which he will inevitably commit. The zina of the eyes is looking, the zina of the tongue is speaking, one may wish and desire, and the private parts confirm that or deny it.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5889; Muslim, 2657.
How to finger a girl?
i know the basics of fingering, my concern is how to start it. you start moving your hand down there and start caressing her body etc...i know that. But my problem is the girl i plan on doing this with will be wearing a dress. So how do i get my hand in there? We are going a NYE party so there will be other people. I cant just pull up the dress, cause she'll be all exposed. Thanks, help is much apreciated
How to finger a girl?
Step 1. Obtain access to her vulva. Step 2. Run your finger down her belly, until you reach pubic hair. Stop. Kiss. Step 3. Lubricate your three longest fingers with a water-based lubricant. (I recommend "Wet") Step 4. After a few moments of kissing, move further down until you reach the pudendal cleft (aka, the slit, gash, axewound, etc). Kiss again. Step 5. Further into the gash, you'll feel the clitoris. This is the epicenter of most women's pleasure. Here you will begin making circular patterns with your hand. Slow (about twice the speed second hand on an analog clock) for a few dozen turns, then speed up for a 20 something more turns, then ask if she wants faster, slower. Step 5a. If possible, kiss her neck or lightly suck her nipples during this exercise. Do not suck her nipples too hard or long, because that'll cause her to lactate. Step 6. Depending on how your girl is built, she may or may not have orgasmed. If she hasn't, don't worry. She might not be able to obtain clitoral orgasm at her age, or she might be too nervous to relax enough to get there. Step 7. Relube¹ your middle finger and follow the pundental cleft to the vagina (that's the hole. Vulva is actually the entire structure). The first hole is actually the urethra, You'll probably not even feel it, but if you do, don't stick anything in there. It's okay to ask if you're in the right place. This will score points and make you a better lover lightyears ahead of unquestioning trial and error. Step 8. Tell her to stop you if it hurts. Insert, remove, and insert again. Slow at first, speed up, then ask if she wants faster, slower or maintain. Also, it helps to keep the thumb on the clitoris during this exercise. If she'd rather take care of the clitoris, while you're occupied; that's okay too. ¹Whenever it feels more sticky that slippery, use more lube. I strongly suggest you NOT use a kitchen or medicine chest substitute for sexual lube. It can cause her all sort of issues that you don't even want to read about. Also, generic and "KY" are usually unreliable and break down rather quickly. It's worth a few extra dollars for good lube.
How to finger a girl?
Haha, I still don't know why Y!A? hasn't made a "Sex" category yet. Anyway, there are lots of guides on the internet, readily available via you favourite search engine but as I am Epic and have standards to maintain, I will give you a quick break down so you have a rough idea. The DON'TS: -Don't try and touch her unless she is wet- it is very uncomfortable is you just dive on in without "pre-heating the oven". -Don't stick your fingers in and try and mimic a penis as fingers are much harder and it will hurt her. -Don't have long/bitten/sharp fingernails as there is a pretty high chance that you will hurt her. The DO'S: -Listen to her reactions and if she reacts positively then keep doing it, i.e. stay in the same spot. -Focus on two areas- clitoris and G-spot(about an inch inside the vagina on the front wall). -Fingering 101 is to gently use the pads of your fingers to make small circles around these two areas, keep it consistent and at the same pace. Do the above and then from there every girl is unique and you just have to learn what works for her- some girls prefer clitoral stimulation and other prefer vaginal. Lastly but most importantly is to keep kissing her and use your other hand to stimulate other parts of her body. Sincerely Epic -A Troll Of Epic Proportions! P.s. If you add additional details and would like me to answer then feel free to let me know via a message to my profile.
How to finger a girl?
You need to let her tell you what she likes,what she doesnt like,whether to go slow or fast,etc.She decides.Listen to everything she says.Listen to the changes in her breathing.Listen to her. As for what to do,you need to start by touching her between her thighs.Gently caress them then slowly move your hand towards the outside of her vagina.Touch her around the public hair and move your hand around slowly.Make your way down to the outside of the vagina.Gently stroke the vagina and listen to her breathing.Notice any changes.As you continue stroking you can slowly move 1 finger towards the inside of her vagina.Move in an up and down stroke.If she starts getting moist,thats a good sign.Thats her vagina lubricating,just the way its supposed to.You can insert 1 finger in from there.Dont force it in.If it hurts her at all go back to a point where it wasnt hurting her.Take as long as you need. Both of you need to talk to each other at all times so listen and learn.She depends on you to do the right thing so she enjoys it and you enjoy doing it to her.Its teamwork.Its the same if you let masturbate you.Learn from the experiences.
What is the proper way to finger a girl?
There really aren't "tight girls" and girls who aren't tight. The tightness of your vaginal opening and vagina is mostly to do with how sexually aroused and relaxed you are, and if what someone is doing with your sexually feels good. It isn't any one way all of the time: it changes, based on that arousal and that relaxation. And generally, to get to that space, most women can't just be sitting around watching the telly then have someone just jab a finger in there. Rather, for that to feel good, and not painful, you will probably need plenty of time to get sexually excited, and then other sexual activities that aren't about your vagina first and also often during vaginal sex of any kind, be it with fingers or with a penis. Did you or your partner, for instance, first make out for a while, have some whole-body interaction, and then also spend time with your clitoris directly, or even indirectly (such as rubbing around your mons and/or outer labia for a while before vaginal entry)? Was he using any lubricant? Being very, very gradual in introducing that finger? Paying attention to the contours of your vagina (hint: it's curved, not straight) when he was introducing the finger? (>> Spend Lots of time on her Clitoris- that is a females most sensitive sexual spot Not her vagina)