I Think My Father Is A Pervert?
I am a daddy's girl but I am not pleased that I am because I think my father is a pervert. Ever since I was in the bed and he was on the side of it and he rolled on top of me and started bit-ting my ear. I later, told my mom but I didn't tell her about him on me. A few years later, I don't have any doors in my condo so as I got out of the shower and since the place is so small, my parents can tell when I get out of the shower and as my father was going down the stairs, he peeked in my room because he knew I was naked and I was like, "HEY!" and he left. I don't know what to do, those were only two examples of what my dad did but there is more! I don't feel comfortable telling my mom and no one else. They probably think I am tripping but I am not! Plus, for now, my dad is fine but I am afraid this happens AGAIN! HELP!
Is my father a pervert? Please help!?
Okay so I love my dad but he's not acting right at all lately. A few months ago, when I would go to bed he would force me to kiss him on his lips. I didn't like doing that at all and I told himbthat. But he wouldn't let me go to bed unless I did. But then he stopped when my older brother told him he was a pervert and needed to stop. He also comes in my room every night anf watches me sleep. If I wake up I'm like what the heck are you doing here?! And then he always just runs out and leaves. He sometimes has his blackberry with him too, shinning the light on me. He stares at me a lot, and I'm very uncomturbale around him.... Last night he asked me if he could but Aloe on me for my heart rash, which is down my boons to my belly button but I said no. He creeps me out a lot. I can't tell if he just really loves me or if he's a pervert. He's not normally like this, lately I've just really seen it. But I think he might be on drugs or something because he takes A LOT of pills all the time & when i ask him why he takes so msny, he gets angry at me. Please help me. I'm on my friend's account b/c I don't have my own but what should I do??
My dad is a pervert and i hate it!?
okay so, im not the most in shape 14 year old girl you'll ever see, but i'm also not really fat. (im just not in shape too much) well, the other day me a nd my dad were sitting on a bench at the park and i saw this girl i knew. i was like hey dad that sienna. he was watching her for a while and he said wow she must be into sports. i said, yeah she's the best athlete at my school. he said, yeah i can tell, see how small her butt is? its perfect. thats what happens if you work at it. i felt really sad then because i know what he was thinking.. that im not perfect like she is. he always is cracking boob jokes. sometimes if we're watching somthing on tv and he sees a girl with big boobs, he'll look at me and cups his hands making a formation of boobs and puts it up to his chest. one more thing, i was also wearing my new shorts and i was like, these are my new hawaii shorts, but they r kinda poofy. he said turn around. so i did, and he said,yeah..poofy. i know he looked at my butt. HELP!!
Is my dad a pervert or is this just nothing?
i dont know if this is just nothing, or if my dad is being perverted . So say what you think please and thanks . I love my dad very much, but sometimes he gets kinda unusual . Like when we drive by girls on the street, a lot younger then him he'd slow down and look at them until theyre out of site, not even trying to hide it. He does not care about fashion, believe me, but i find him watching the models on tv all the time. Also on tv he always manages to find a non porn categorized show, but with naked women in it. Like native tribes where the women dont wear clothes. And then theres the way he says rude comments about girls, like girls are only good for cleaning and sex. He manages to find things like tampons (unused) around the house, and pretend he thinks theyre like candies or something then open it. One time, when he knew i was changing, he opened the door anyways to talk, and i yelled at him and ran to my closet, but he just kept talking and wouldnt get out. Im 14 so i dont want anyone to see me naked, but he says ' i changed you diapers when you were a baby, you know ive seen it before. ' Or like, ' do you think im clueless, how do you think you were born?' Also, the other day i was taking a bath, and he told me to get out because he wanted to use the bathroom. So i got out and put on a towel. He called through the door if i was coming out, and i said yeah . When i came out he had no pants/underwear on and was walking towards his closet ( walk in) and laughed then said 'oops.' Another thing, my room is right across the hall, and his room has double doors. He always leaves them wide open, but still walks across from the bathroom to his closet, or the other way around , naked. Even when he knows im upstairs, and ive told him a cuzzillion times to shut the doors, but he always just laughs about it and leaves them open again . I love my dad, but i dont know what to think . Please be honest .
I think my dads perverted?
I don't know what to do, because I think my dad is perverted? My parents have been divorced since I was eleven and they just got "back together" kinda sorta and now I'm sixteen. So it never really mattered to me before because I would just see my dad like maybe once every two months. But okay I remember once when I was like eleven or twelve my dad asked to see me naked because he wanted to see my body! Thats what he said. I didn't get naked of course! And then when I was like thirteen he'd always make creepy comments about my boobs or my legs or something and look me up and down. And now he always smiles really creepy and looks me up and down and says things like I'm cute or my outfit is cute and I know that doesn't sound creepy but you should see the look on his face! So when he does this I tell him to stop and I run upstairs and cry usually because I am scared. And I'm scared of him now, I never wear bikinis or shorts or skirts or dresses around him and I try to cover myself when I walk in front of him and if I have to walk towards him for some reason I'll try to cover myself. I'm really scared of him and I don't know what to do :( My mom doesn't believe me by the way, I haven't told her about the time he told me to get naked but I tell her the other stuff and she doesn't believe me. Am I just overreacting? What should I do?
Is my mom a pervert.. read?
I feel bad for you and your brother. You need to have a serious talk with your mom about this issue. She should not be talking about vagina's around your younger brother. That's sick that a mother would even mention jokes about that issue. She is showing that sex is laughable, and one day soon your brother might think it's okay to have sex. She does sound sick for saying this, but I do not think she fully understands how bad she is taking it. You probably see the issue in another context. I would sit down with her and tell her how the jokes make you feel uncomfortable and it is wrong. I'm sure if you get level to level with her, than she will reason with your problem and correct your little brother. Hope it works out :)
How to stop my parents disowning me cuz they think I'm a pervert?
I was trying to spy on my parents cuz I have suspicions my dad abuse my mom (like hit her and call names) when I'm not around. so my mom toad my dad she wanted to speak to him in their bedroom. I thought this is my chance to hear what happens when I'm not there. So i hid in their closet while my mom was in her bathroom . Now I did not expect them to start having secks cuz it was 4 in the afternoon, and my dad just got back from work. (Shouldn't he have a wash first?). I really did think they was just going to talk. But then my dad took off his pants and said my mom would have to go on top cuz of her pregnancy belly. (4 in the afternoon!) And that dirty b@stard was wearing my angry penguin socks. At this point I yelled stop and came out of my hiding place. My dad called me names so bad. Like pervert and said this isn't the first time Ive been perving around. Wtf is he talking about? And said he'd beat the crap out of me if he was wearing pants. I didn't do nothing wrong!! And now they think terrible things about me. My mom was yelling oh my god. I am embarrassed and I tried to talk to my uncle. Well he said they gonna disown me cuz I am a creep and evidence is building up. What can I do? I just wanted to be nosy. I didn't mean to do this but it looks like I did
What is the most perverted thing you've seen a teacher do?
Year: 2006I was 11 years old kid studying in sixth grade back then. I was good with most of my subjects. We had a teacher (male) who would always be extra ‘affectionate’ towards me. As a young child I was one of those kids who liked to be appreciated by the teacher. I thought it was just one of those ‘affectionate’ things.I used to score well in his subject and one particular day he asked to come to his home after the school as he wanted to give me some book. I told him that my mom picks me up after the school and that maybe in the evening I’ll come to his place along with her to get the book. He refused by giving some excuses.Few days later, he again asked me to come to his place after the school. The teachers accommodation was just behind the school building, I thought I’ll just take the book from him and get back home. I went to his home, and asked to hand me the book from door itself as I was already hurrying up to get back home. He said that maybe he would’ve to find it and asked me to come inside and make myself comfortable. I thought, okay matter of few minutes. There was no one at his home and when he came back from his room I didn’t see the book in his hand. I felt strange now. Something was definitely wrong and my 11 year old brain was sensing trouble now. To add to my worry he put on the latch of the door. I was scared. I stood up and he asked me to sit down, I asked him for the book and he made some excuse. He tried having a conversation with me, in my head I was still thinking to somehow escape his place. As he was talking to me, he got up and I was shit scared that something is wrong. In the matter of few minutes, I got up and ran towards the door, opened it and ran using the stairs. I didn’t have the patience to wait for the elevator.The next day I did see that teacher, obviously he came to the class to teach us. He behaved as if nothing happened. One fine day after the class he calls me in the staff room when no one was there and asks me not to discuss the event with anyone.10 years since this incident, I now feel how ridiculously wrong things could’ve gone that day, had I not escaped his place. I cannot say anything about his intentions, but something was definitely wrong with the man. My parents never taught me about certain behavior of the people, but this incident made me realise very early in life that, that there are people with sick brains.
Is it wrong to be perverted?
I’m only going to talk about “the real thing” and not what some people call a perversion just because they have been indoctrinated against it.It can be bad to be perverted. Some guy who can only experience sexual satisfaction while wearing a dress may have difficulties finding understanding sexual partners. If you believe the many stories about serial killers, a standard plot is that the killer suffers some traumatic event and ever after can only get sexual release after killing somebody. That is the bad result of what may have been an evil act by somebody long out of the picture. It’s a bad result for the killer, who may be unable to stop, and definitely a bad result for the people he kills. But to be wrong, I think he would have had to have made and to have upheld a conscious decision, to let the original perpetrator have his/her way. What if he was then an eleven-year-old kid? As the individual comes into adulthood he would have more responsibility for making it so that he would not hurt other people because of his damaged and weakened status.I don’t know any people with unusual sexual conditioning problems, but I don’t think I would hate anybody for what was done to them. I think I would likely feel anger for someone who just drifted along in some form of behavior that hurt others. I can have a quick temper and am always angry with myself for messing up if I let fly at somebody. We are dealt one hand in the card game of life and we play it as best we can. It’s better to get better rather than just giving up and excusing yourself for the disasters you cause.EDIT: Seeing your comment to another answer I now see that you are worried that somebody will call you a pervert.EDIT: If somebody has the public ear and starts chiding “Pervy Mervy” over and over again, Merve will need enormous self-confidence and maybe a lawyer or two to get through unharmed. If it’s just one ponderous asshole, nothing may come of it. People will know that Mr. Pervert-Expert does that kind of nonsense all the time. Cultivate friendships with good people.EDIT: The idea conveyed by “pervert” is so far disintegrated, so much toxic mush, that I doubt that it is possible to have much of a rational discussion about it, and especially not with jerks. Do good. Be strong.