My Friend is Being an Immature Brat?
So she recently started dating and now she doesn't talk to me at all. I tried to say hi to her in the hall but she ignored me. The dumb thing about it is that she was right next to me. Yesterday, she was hugging all my friends and talking to them but not me. So I wrote her a note saying don't talk to me anymore. She only wants to talk to me when she's upset or when she wants to brag to me about her bf. I wanna seriously curse her out. I can never talk about my happiness to her because she think everything in her life is always better! I gave the note to her bf and i told him to give it to her. But I think he didn't give it to her. I blocked him and her off of facebook and i defriended both of them. Some of my other friends don't like her and some don't say anything to her. Also she's disrepectful. My grandmother died and all she said was "oh i didn't know" she didn't say sorry or nothing. I really dislike her. I told her in the note to leave me alone and i can't see you as a friend anymore. She doesnt appreciate anything, i gave her a birthday card and she didn't say thank you. I invited her to a place my friends and i are going, and she didn't say thank you either!!!! How come im being the mature one but yet she's ignoring me??? I'm crying right now, not because im upset for losing a "friend" but how she can be so heartless and not even apologize. What should I do and should I talk to her in school on monday about it
Is it immature to not want to be friends with your ex?
Nah. It's completely mature to make your mind up about that.I was not an exactly clingy and reliant girlfriend back in my prev relationship, but my former bf did enough for both of us. It was difficult to breathe, to let things unfold naturally, he always pushed forward to be more and more serious.Therefore when we split I was happy to rediscover my own space and my own needs, just after I got through the heartbreak, obviously. I found it relieving to be a whole person again, as the relationship made me feel like neither of us makes up a complete person on our own.He arrived to see me couple months after a break up and due to distance issues he was spending all his time at my place, or hanging out with me. I was happy in the first day, wanted to chat about everything and just enjoy the day together. He asked if he could stay one more day and I was hesitant, I think I knew this is not the best idea for the two of us. He became all nostalgic and acted as if things got back to where they were and I felt the need to remind him that we're not together anymore.Although I was happy to see him and talk, these days really made me tired and self - conscious because he spoke about things that were no longer his business. I was relieved to be by myself again and reminding myself that even though it is an amazing person, we would never work as a couple.So if you do not want to be a part of all this chaos that comes out of the relationship, I fully understand.
Why is my friend being so immature?
YOu aren't required to be anybody's friend. If he annoys you that much, distance yourself a little bit. Have you talked to your parents or his parents about his ADHD issues? That might be at the root of the problem. Has he always acted this way? Or is it a new behavior? Maybe he is on new medication, maybe he has started using drugs? I can't really tell from what you have said, but it depends on how long he's been acting this way. Maybe just ask him straight up why he's changed and tell him that it bothers you a lot. Tell him he's being immature.
Two of my friends are really immature?!?
they're bestfriends.. bestfriends can do many crazy immature things like me and my bestfriend.... u wont be able to be immature when you turn 20 or 30?? (I THINK) enjoy life.. life's too short.. join with them and their immaturity while still young.. :)
Am I being just stupid? Or are my friends immature?
Im a 15 years old teenager, and i went to a party today in a friend?s house. There were girls and all of that and we spent almost all the time playing PS3, eating, talking,etc. But in the end most of my friends decided to play Truth or Dare (I don´t know if it is called like this, im not english), but I, and 3 more friends didn't play, because we think it is a stupid game. I think that it is a childish game, played by stupid and immature kids that don´t have girlfriends that just want to kiss girls and touch their breasts. Am I stupid for thinking like this?
Is my mom being immature?
Taken just on what you'd told us, yes, your mother is being unreasonable. But what are you leaving out? You say you don't know what you are doing wrong. Here are some possibilities: Is your "friend" male or female? Was he/she allowed to be there? Were you really studying? What were you doing that woke her up? Is this the first time this has ever happened, or has she told you in the past that she doesn't want you having people over late at night? Or did she warn you ahead of time to be quiet? Or are there other things going on in her life that have her on edge? If you are entirely 100 percent blameless, then I would just lay low and wait for her to cool down, and when you get the first chance to apologize, try again. If you're not telling us everything, then I'd still have the same plan of action, only it might take longer for her to cool down. And if this is not the first time something like this has happened, then this is your cue to change your behavior.
My friends are really immature and annoying..?
In high school, I was so much like you. I was so painfully shy, I would cling to anyone who would have me. I did a lot of stupid things trying to fit in and impress people, even though I knew they weren't worth it. I'm not even trying to be mean saying this, but they're a bunch of stupid kids, and you're too mature for them. You've got kids having sex, getting drunk, getting high, causing trouble, hurting people's feelings intentionally, acting like children, (I assume) getting crappy grades, and overall making you look bad to be a part of their little clique. You've still got time to make new friends, and you should. What you need to do is find someone who's legitimately nice. I don't mean cool, or hot, or popular, or anything like that. I mean seriously a nice person. If someone's nice to you, talk to them. (Don't be fooled, though. If they're nice to you and cruel to other people, that isn't real kindness.) Look for people who aren't out drinking and having sex all the time, because you will be caught up in it. It's almost inevitable. Anyway, a nice person is likely to attract other nice people, and before you know it, you've got friends who aren't embarrassing to be around. Find someone who's a good person. Joining after-school activities would be very good for you, because it would give you an interest to talk about. However, if that's too much, just saying "hi" to someone in the lunch line is a step in the right direction. P.S. The friends that don't bother you, the ones that your current friends don't approve of, are the people you should be hanging out with. If you don't like your current friends, don't hang out with them. Hang out with people who don't make you so upset.