My Husband is Using Me for Money?
I have been married for five years. Before getting married, my husband was attentive, affectionate and loved spending time with me. Once we were married, things started to change. The first time we fought about money was when he told me he was returning to France to see his family and wouldn't be able to pay rent that month and that I would have to pay rent by myself that month (in the end I didn't - he actually had money to do both, he just didn't want to). Since then there have been many examples of him spending money on himself or friends, but not on me. I recently found a receipt indicating that he sent $3,000 to his family in France but didn't tell me about. If anything goes wrong with the house/car he refuses to pay and then later makes fun of me for not having any money. He jokingly refers to me as his good friend if I refer to myself as his wife, but I no longer think this is a joke. He spends Fri and Sat nite out with friends while I stay at home - he treats his friends but not me. He gets angry whenever I spend money on myself.
My husband wants my money what shall i do?
Hi , i am 21 years old and i have been married for nearly for 2 years. I started to work as a dancer(for men) and i make quite good money. Since i start this job, my husband always hassle me about money , he wants me to pay for every thing and to share for every thing even though he have good job and enough money to support him self and me. i always tell him what i want to do with the money i earn other than supporting my family and my self with the money i made. Any way,usually i save most of my money and help my family lot but when i think about how much i should save since i start the job i don't know where all the money gone. Our main argument is all about money noting else, and he always treating me like click me out of the house and so on... i don't really know what to do i am really sick of arguing over money and giving him money when ever he wants as i never ask him to give me money at the time when i don't have a job.i do every thing for him ,i clean,cook,shop,pay the bills and things what wife's usually do.i never cheat on him.i love him so much but i always ask my self how long i will put on with this. what do u think i should do?
I feel like my husband is using me.?
i have been married for around 2 yrs now, my husband and i just split up and during our seperation he had alot of fun and blew alot of money now hes broke and he owed another guy money and took it out of my bank account hes barely working right now and not helping at all with bills i asked him to look at my car and he keeps making up excuses to not look at it. i told him today i feel like your using me and he said ok then i will go then. he keeps telling me that i dont act like i love him and that he is not moving back in with me because he doesnt want to live here i feel like hes treating me like a open atm i dont no what to do..
How do I know if my husband is using me for money?
How long have you been married and how well do you know him? The last question did you ALWAYS have money or have you acquired it since you have been together? Firstly, if you had money before and no prenuptial agreement in place or you acquired it during the course of the marriage say goodbye to at least half if you divorce. Knowing your spouse will alert you to if you are just an ATM for said spouse. Does his “sweetness” change before he puts the bite on you for cash? Are you more like a roommate unless he wants something? Listen to your heart. If you feel this there may be more to it than just your imagination.
Housewife buys husband a birthday gift using his money. i'm confused, how is that a present?
My wife stays home with our 4 children and I go to work to earn a pay check. Trust me my wife works harder at home than I have ever worked at my office! That being said my check is automatically deposited into OUR account and the money is OUR money that is to be used for OUR family. We only have one checking account and my wife takes care of all the bills and purchases for OUR family. Funny thing I have to ask her for money to purchase gifts for her because she has the checkbook and I carry no cash with me! When you marry the "two should become ONE"
What is something your husband knows you spend money on but has no idea how much?
In my case he knew it what are the things I bought and the costs he doesn't say anything because they knew how money's worth when spent Seamen spend much then after all when budget runs out oh! they realized that money is easily be gone but hard to save. We both are wise spender we grew in a simpler way of living we are trained by our parents. I don't spend money to shop anything for myself I buy those necessarily needed for consumption and hence I want to save for a goal then he isn't same I am the planner always, opposite to what I've dreamed in a man. few years later I started to build 2nd house in my share then he got astonished how did I make it he knew his money sent was just few but then I did it step by step, so long a lot to speak but tired of typing :) not in the mood i have health disorder again. And all of a sudden he liked other pretty girls that made the whole story went wrong badly.
How can my husband send me money from India to Nigeria?
The Best way is to Use Paypal, but the fees shall be little high. For that you should have a Nigerian bank debit card linked Paypal account and at the time of signup, country selected should be Nigeria. And also the bank account should be of Nigeria.Then you may send a payment request by logging to PayPal to the email address of your husbands PayPal India account.He can simply then link his credit/debit card & pay you.Once the money comes in your Nigerian Paypal Account, Withdraw to your bank account.This process is bit tedious for them who dont like online way. But for online people its best. Only thing is fees is bit high.The Other Way is:Ask your husband to check if he can login to internet banking & check if there is International remittance option available. If its there ask him to try the same. For that he will need your SWIFT code/Bank Account Number/ Name/ A/C type.The most easiest way is you provide him Swift code/Bank Account Number/Name/ A/c Type & Bank name & he may visit to a bank & can send the money to your Nigerian account. He will have to provide a PAN number & ID while making the transaction. Also if the amount is higher than any limit prescribed, he will have to sign on a declaration & may have to let the authorities tell about the source of fund & reason for remittance.Hope it helps.
Is my wife using me for money and security?
I'm in the military so that means a steady pay check. However it's not much and my wife refuses to get a job. She goes to school 2 days a week and does nothing the rest of the time. I pay her car insurance her car and phone and anything she wants within price range. She still makes me feel like crap and never spends time with me.
My husband borrowed money from me and won't pay me back, he says he doesn't have to because we're married do you agree or disagree?
My husband borrowed money from me and won't pay me back, he says he doesn't have to because we're married do you agree or disagree?I neither agree nor disagree.This sounds like something that should have been discussed prior to marriage.Some people keep their funds separate with separate bank/credit card accounts when they marry and divide up how they spend their money on bills, groceries, rent/mortgage, utilities, et cetera.Others have joint accounts where they pool both of their money and use it for every expense jointly. There is no mine/yours.You seem to be from the first group of people while your spouse is from the next group.What situation works for one will not necessarily work for another. This should have been discussed prior to wedding your spouse, just as children and household responsibilities should have been discussed.Since you did not discuss prior to getting married, you two need to sit down and figure out how you want to conduct your finances. Try to come to an agreement. If you cannot, you will need to figure out if you can actually make your marriage work or decide that it is time to end it.