Copycat little sister? Am I just being paranoid?
Try to calm down for a moment. She is emulating you 'cause she looks up to you. I had a little brother when I grew up. and instead of making him into an enemy I began to confide in him and made him an ally. We both grew up covering for each other because we became best friends. our parents never knew what was going on 'cause we'd gang up on THEM .. LOL!! Now, I'm in my fifties and still have this great relationship with my brother who is married and lives about 250miles away and he has kids. and I still have a friend long after our parents passed away. She looks up to you. she's not doing with the intention of pissing you off. This is your choice. You can either make the best of this and bring her to your side and make her your friend.... OR you can continue making her into an enemy and destroying any possibility of having a friend for life. YOU are the one that makes this choice. not her. She already made the choice of wanting to be friends with you. and before you think i'm just being a corny idiot. I grew up in a nudist family. we were always naked watching tv. and mom and dad took us to naturalist resorts on weekend where other families were there.... yes, naked. Me and my brother stuck close to each other. He was there when my boobs started growing and I was there when he had his first erection. I taught him how to masturbate. HE WAS MY FRIEND ! I looked out for my brother cause I wanted him for a friend and ally, so when he got bullied, I'd get with him and humiliate any boy that got in his face. We had each others back! he was only 2 years younger than me which sounded like a lot back then. And he tried to emulate me too. (I even put nail polish on his toes once.
Are my sister and boyfriend flirting or am i paranoid?
Im 16, my sisters 15, she's very flirty and i never thought she would flirt with my bf cause it's not something shed normally do but he's really hot, and my sister has an amazing body. I have a pretty hot body with big breasts and butt etc but I am admitting that my sister beats me in looks and that she is hotter than I am. I was in my sitting room sitting on my boyfriends lap and we were kissing, my sister came downstairs so i got off and went to the fridge for a drink, she sat next to my boyfriend, and she sat pretty near him, and he spread his legs open really wide and their thighs were touching. She was wearing Mini shorts and a tank top so her boobs were pretty out. I mean a guys bound to get attractive when a girl is dressed like that. I come back and sit back on my boyfriends lap to assure he's mine and he has a ***** (he's wearing sweatpants) so its easy to tell. Idk if its cause I sat down or if its my sister? Normal conversations happen and 10 minutes after he said that he has to leave for his wrestling training. My sister was like 'omg YOU wrestle?' (she knows he does). She was fake laughing and she said 'even i could beat you at wrestling so she just got up and was slapping his arm, he got her head locked up in his arms, so she grabbed his balls or penis, IDEK and was like 'thats how you get a man down, she got him on the ground and sat on his penis area and then they just both got up, they were laughing and stuff, he left and yeah thats it. Are they flirting?
My mom is so paranoid ?
she is always in my business and is always asking me questions!!! once i was painting a box with acrlic paint. it got on my fingers and i didn't know. then the tip of my nose started itching so i scratched it with the finger that had paint on it. when my mom saw me she freaked out and started asking me if i was sniffing the paint (incase u dont know, u cant get high off of the paint that i was using). and once she was looking through the history in the internet and opened a yahoo answers question that someone asked about drugs or something and mom freaked out again and started asking my sister and i if we knew what some drugs were and if we did drugs and that kind of stuff. i know that if i even think about doing drugs then not only would my parents kill me but so would my sister and friends. how can i get her to stop being so paranoid about me all the time??? how can i get her to trust the fact that i dont do drugs or anything like that?
Is my boyfriend too close to his sister?
Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating approx 6 months. We love each other and have a good relationship. He treats me good etc. the only thing that gets me down is his relationship with his sister. Not sure if I'm paranoid/jealous but him and his sister are quite close. He's 21 and his sister is 17 and they're the only children in the family. He calls his sister his best friend and even though they live together, they text each other practically everyday for no reason. He spends more money on her than me (hardly spends any on me) and always buys her stuff (and brags about it too). She's always in his room for no reason and even goes on his phone for whatever reason I don't know. They Playfight with each other and have frequent movie/dinner date nights together. He even ditched me on my last day in the city before moving back home because his sister felt they haven't had a dinner night together forever so he spent the night with her instead. They live together and see each other 24/7. And he always includes her in his snaps and mentions her to me all the time as if he's in love with her. He doesn't mention any of his mates to me when we talk. Am i paranoid? Please help!
I am extremely paranoid because my little sister is going to start walking to school on her own and I have watched many documentaries about serial killers and rapists. How can I cope?
Your concern for your sister, is natural, certainly very genuine and she is lucky to have you as her older sibling.But, it is important to understand how entertainment works. The objective of movies, documentaries, even articles, is to thrill, to captivate, to make it an experience to remember and, as a consequence, things on the big screen are, whether good or bad, quite a bit more intense and magnified than real life.There’s a reason thousands and thousands of perfectly good, law abiding citizens, don’t make it into film scrips. It isn’t because they don’t exist, but because there simply is no story to enchant or captivate the audience with there.Look at it this way, millions of people in the world, myself included, suffer from migraine regularly. And yet, a film was made about a person that has schizophrenia and still won the Nobel prize. Why? Because one is an extra-ordinary story, worth telling, while the other is a common occurrence in this world.It’s true, there are absolutely heinous people out there, no doubt about it. But leading a diminished life, in perpetual existential fear, depriving oneself of experiences and independence….does nothing but stunt your life.You could stay home all 365 days of the year and be killed by a stray burglar after all, right?But you want to protect your sister- a perfectly valid concern to have.A good start to this, would be a calm, open and rational conversation about the risks of walking alone to school.The best way to achieve her safety, would be to equip her with the skills, information and guidance on what to do in all sorts of emergencies- medical emergencies, getting lost, being approached by strangers, that sort of thing.You could also encourage her to get together with a group of friends or travel with you, if she is very young.If you believe she is entirely too young to be walking on her own, you should make your concern known to her, to an adult (parents, teachers etc) in a calm, non-accusatory manner.Again, you are a lovely older sibling, I hope your love and concern for your sister never wanes!
Am I being paranoid about head lice?
My son's best friend's little sister was sent home from school today with lice. So far, his friend is lice-free, but am I being paranoid for treating my kids anyway? My stepdaughter had lice a few years ago and it was a nightmare.
Does this mean my husband and my sister are getting too close?
Okay, well my sister just split up with her boyfriend about three months ago. Anyways me and her first met our guys when we were teenagers and they lived next door, and i mean they are like brothers because my hubby's dad is with the other one's mom, I know it is confusing but bare with me. Anyways she has been really down about it which is normal considering the relationship they had and there is a child involved. Okay so all of a sudden my husband and sister have been talking alot which I didn't think anything of at first but then last weekend she said she needed a lock for her back door because she was afraid Justin (her ex) would come and try to start with her, anyways my husband went to Home Depot for her and he left our house at 9:30, he didn't not return home until 2:00 a.m. Now I don't believe they did anything but anyone in there right mind would agree that this was completely inappropriate. I brought it up to her and she says she would never do that to me and she just needed a guys point of view and needed someone to be there for her. Anyways I confront my husband and his mother confronts him as well, he states he would never cheat and Blah Blah, but the behavior continues, he is on the computer all the time talking to her instead of spending time with me, and they exchange personal messages through facebook that he erases and he erased the text messages out of his phone that she sent him. My question is if nothing is going on, then why is there the need to hide any communication that he has with her? All os this is all of a sudden and I told him that they can be friends but this is going too far and they are both acting differently about and if she really needs someone to talk to then she can come to me about it. I tried talking to her on facebook today and she was distant and said hardly anything and then when we said bye she did not say I love you which we always say. I really don't want to believe that something is going on because it would devastate me, we have a five year old son and I love my husband to death. Someone please give me some advice.
Does my mother in law hate me? Or am I being paranoid?
If she was nice in the beginning and is now treating you like this something has happened to turn her against you. BUT very few mother in laws get along with their daughter in laws. Mothers are very close to their sons and hate to see them marry. It sounds as if she is jealous of you because her son loves you. OR could your husband have said something to her about you that has turned her against you. Do what most of us wives do. Get on with your life and enjoy your family. You don't need her to be happy.
My step dad is acting creepy? Or am I being paranoid?
So I've known my step dad for 1 year now and we've lived in the same house for 1 year. I live with him, my mom, my sister (who's leaving in a year), and occasionally my step brother who visits. Recently my step dad has been overstepping some boundaries. When we're alone in the kitchen he always goes up behind me and puts his hand on my waist, and always rests his hand on my butt casually. I try to walk away from it to make him stop but he sort of follows me? And today he put his hand on my face and made me pucker my lips, and then he kissed me on the lips. I was so shocked i just stood there. And he does this thing after he saw me and my guy friend where they go behind up and crack your back you know? Hell to behind me and wrap his arms around me and I can just feel how uncomfortable it is with him pressed up all on my back and butt. This never happens when my mom or sister are around. I've told my best friends about this in case something happens, but my mom loves him so much. I don't want to hurt her.