How can I get my sister to stop swearing?
Proabably, the reason she swears to you is because many sisters (or siblings of the same gender) have many disputes between them and most of the times the one hates most the other (in your case your sister). Also, usually the problems are simple things that can be easily solved but the siblings or one of them never show(s) mature to actually solve it. Your sister have had probably some bad companies with some friends that probably say bad words, too. Usually that's the main reason a kid or teen starts to say bad words. She's also in her teenage years and that's a period where people are like crazy. You are as well, but you're probably more responsible, never had the same kind of friends and also more mature than her. The only way of making her stop is to ignore her. It will drive her crazy. If you start to ignore her, she will probably become worse but eventually she will be tired and give up. When that happens, you should talk to her with your parents present and explain that talking like that is not a solution. I'm sure your parents will help. Good luck :)
How do I get my bird to stop swearing?
Uhh..don't invite your grandmother over anymore..or get rid of the bird.
How can i get my 17 month old to stop swearing?
You need to talk to your dad first and make sure he understands that you will not stand for him encouraging bad words on your child. Then every time yor child says one tell her that it is a bad word and if she says them again you put her in time out. We have a special time out chair at my house and that is the only thing that get threw to my daughter who is two. I can give her spanking after spanking and she will still not listen. So good luck hope I helped
How do I stop cursing. I can't stop saying the f word. It’s bothering me now. I say it about 50 times a day. How can I curb my tongue?
Well my friend that is a bad habit.What you could do is take up this challenge for yourself and follow it honestly.The challenge is Every time you say the f word or curse someone (verbally) you have to donate a fixed amount of money (say $1 or some considerable amount that you feel appropriate). Then at the end of 1 week count how much money you have lost by speaking ill.Then in the following week try to control your speech. Then at the end of 2nd week count the difference between money collected in 1st and 2nd week (it should be less than money collected in week 1). Continue this until your money collection becomes 0.PS:- You have to honestly donate the money then only you will improve.Take up this challenge sincerely and trust me it works.I hope that helps.Regards,Siddharth Sankolli.
I ACCIDENTALLY got my 4 yr old sister swearing?
Be up front with your parents. Walk up to whichever one gets home first and say, "I accidently said something bad in front of my sister. I really didn't think about it and now she's saying the word over and over. I'm really sorry - and I'll watch what I say from now on." they will probably get a little upset with you, but not so much as if you tried to tell her not to say it yourself (kids that age known that tattling gets them attention and favor and will do it without hesitation) or lied about it or tried to hide it. Offer to make it up to them, to clean something or take care of your sister without complaint (and without swearing) and tell themyou know it's serious and that you're very sorry. Your parents should be able to understand that you know you did wrong, and that you are feeling bad already. They may still punish you, but at the very least they know that you're being honest and up front.
How can I stop thinking about swear words?
Here's a tip from psychology. When someone trying to stop smoking says "I'm not going to smoke", it puts in their mind the very thing they don't want to do and they are likely to then smoke. Rather, some should say to himself, "Wow, I have clean breath", "I am able to breathe freely", "I am saving so much money!". These are the positive reinforcements about "not smoking" without putting smoking in your head. Apply that to swear words. Just like any habit, you have to use positive reinforcment to break that habit. When you start to swear (and you know it's coming), catch yourself and tell yourself a postive statement -- maybe "I am learning great personal control", "I am in charge of my own behavior", "I am not influenced by others", "This new habit will serve me well throughout my life". You can't control what other people do/say, but you will be surprised that others will notice you do not respond with like cursing and they may also then modify their behavior when around you. Hope that helps!
How can I stop saying bad words in my mind?
To stop saying bad words in your mind,follow these effective three steps. Firstly, try to find a fascinatedly enriching realm like studies or physical exercise, where you could utterly immerse yourself there, and thus integrate thoughtful words into your mind. Secondly, it also would be better for you to avoid any source of distraction, that arouses those bad words. Finally, make sure to divert your thinking immediately,when you those words come up. Hence, these simple three steps might show auspicious results if you follow them successfully.
Do I have the right to ask someone to stop swearing?
Yes, of course you have the right to ask. Yes, you should ask politely. Yes, you should expect your request to he honored. Moreover, in some instances, I believe it is correct to demand. I believe cussing is nearly in the same category as using slurs to describe someone's race, religion, or sexual preference. People who cuss, know they are using 'bad' language. Anyone who says they don't know this or doesn't care is a fool, a liar, poorly brought up, or all three. I cuss a lot, but I try to observe the TPO of the situation. T = Time P = Place O = Opportunity. In many situations cussing is perfectly fine. In other situations it is not. If you were dinning with the Queen, would you say, "Hey Liz, pass the fuckin' salt"? She would not be amused and you should not be expected to be invited again. On the other hand, if you are out with the boys a phrase like, "Hot shit! I love ribs and IPA - nothing fuckin' better", that's probably okay. Unless the Queen is there. You can curse all you want to yourself, but when others are present you should take their wants and desires into consideration. If someone asks you to mind your language, you have crossed some line they consider important. Their request may seem puerile, but the fact that they brought it up should alert you to tone it down. Ignoring the request shows you do not respect them. Don't give me any weak ass argument that you can do what you want 'in your house'. If it is in your house, the other person is a guest and should be accorded the respect and consideration due all guests. I mean, how tough could it be to not cuss when it displeases others? SHIT, it need not always be about you.-edit-Here's some good talk about TPO:Is it ok to use the word "fuck" on an everyday basis in the US/UK?
How do I stop saying bad words about Allah in my mind?
Pay as less attention to it as possible. The solution lies in not panicking or cursing yourself for any such thoughts.First of all you need to know that all the thoughts that come into your head are not all your own. Yes. Many of these ideas are just knocks of shaitan (devil) at the door of your mind to be let in.So, if you dislike a particular thought and feel like shaking it off your head, you have refused to let shaitan enter. And so you won't be held accountable for those random images or sounds.If however you find yourself deliberating on an evil thought, then surely you've welcomed that horrible guest into the secure areas of your mind. And this time you will be held accountable for these ramblings.Shaitan/Devil, that open enemy of believers, doesn't want to see any believer at peace. If he fails to stop a Muslim from doing good deeds and abstain from sins, he resorts to baseless whisperings in the hearts of believers. Ibn al Qayyim, a famous scholar, once told that nothing delights shaitan as much as the sadness of a believer. These ‘voices' too is just one of the few tools he uses to gain pleasure by plunging a man into distress.Therefore, a believer should try to simply brush off any unwanted thoughts attacking his mind. He should not dwell on them as to why they are coming to him, and also refrain strictly from speaking about these thoughts to anyone else. The thoughts only gain strength when they reach the mouth.Alongside this, increase the usage of “Aauzu billahi minash-shaitanir rajeem” (I take refuge in Allah from the accursed devil.), especially when you see any bad thought coming to you.Hope that helps!
How can I stop saying bad words to God?
Don’t worry about it, it’s not a problem. God is not bothered by blasphemy nor by praise.In Srimad Bhagavatam there is the following verse SB 7.1.23The great sage Sri Naradaji said: O King, blasphemy and praise, chastisement and respect, are experienced because of ignorance.PURPORTActually the suffering of being blasphemed and the enjoyment of being praised, the acceptance of a good welcome or of chastisement by harsh words, are felt in the material conception of life; but since the body of the Supreme Personality of Godhead is not material but sac-cid-ananda-vigraha [Bs. 5.1], He is unaffected by insults or greetings, blasphemy or prayers. Being always unaffected and complete, He does not feel extra pleasure when offered nice prayers by the devotee, although the devotee benefits by offering prayers to the Lord.Indeed, the Lord is very kind to His so-called enemy because one who always thinks of the Personality of Godhead as an enemy also benefits, although he thinks of the Lord adversely. If a conditioned soul, thinking of the Lord as an enemy or a friend, somehow or other becomes attached to the Lord, he receives great benefit.Being angry with God is far better than being in ignorance of Him. You cannot feel anger unless you care. God will not strike back at you any more than a mother slaps her baby if it wets its diaper/nappy. God is not frustrated, whimsical, capricious or petty. You are His child and He cares about you, a few tantrums don’t spoil a healthy parent-child relationship as the child grows up. He might smile behind His hand, but He will still care about you.Any strong feeling directed towards God is beneficial and a blessing. The most unfortunate are those that have no feeling at all.