How to tell real friends from fake friends?
fake friends are only around when it's to their benefit. favors also tend to be one way (in their favor). real friends are around because they enjoy your company, and the relationship is mutually beneficial. signs of fake friends: 1. they only call you when they want something 2. they do not respond you contact them 3. they tend to 'disapear' when you are not useful to them sign of real friends: 1. they call out of the blue, just to see how you are if you have not seen them for a while 2. they respond to you when you contact them 3. they are cognizant and compassionate about you and the events of your life.
Is my friend a fake friend?
I have this one friend that only comes and talk and hang with me when our other friend is either mad at her or "unavailable". When this fake friend of mines wants to hang with the other friend of ours and when she is invited to come and hang with me...she comes with me out of pity and she says that she comes to hang with me because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings and all the while she is "acting" like she wants to be with me! and i would rather her NOT be all in my face when she doesn't want to because I DON'T want her to think that she is hurting my feelings because i could care less about her going with my other friend...but she uses me...until the thing that she really wants to do which is hang with my other friend is possible...i hope this is understandable!
I have a fake friend?
so I’m pretty sure I have a fake friend... I have this friend named Kate (not her real name lmao). Last year Kate was new to school, and I basically let her into my group of friends. Now, fast forward a year later I become friends with another girl named Brittney. Brittney is also friends with Kate. After becoming close with Brittney, she tells me that Mate has been talking beside my back this entire time she was my friend. Kate has also been ignoring me, she gives me rude glares all the time, and whispers stuff to other people when I’m around b/c she doesn’t want me hearing their conversation. So, my question is... How do you get rid of a fake friend?
My friend is so fake!?
I had this friend back in year seven, we were so much alike! we both agreed on the same things, had the same sense of humor and knew who were the real girls, and who were the fake. At the start of year eight she started acting completely different! She was hanging with all these girls who I told her she shouldn't because all they care about is how fat they are and they can't keep promises and spread rumors (and I know this because they have done it to me and I have tried to hang out with them a couple of times) but she just told me that they are really nice and friendly. Then she started dressing all slutty, like wearing singlets at school so she could show off how big her breasts are. And she has also been dirty talking to all these guys so she can obviously get them to like her. And she is flirting with all the wrong guys, taking guys away from their girlfriends, dating heaps of guys just so she can hook up with them and just so that they can get them to like her because she is so sexual. She also has made friends with about half of the school! maybe even more! she always says hi to them and talks to them and just socializes with them way too much! Why do you think she has changed into this? Because I have absolutely no idea. (We're both still in year eight) I kind of want her back because she meant so much to me, but not with the personality that she has right now. What should I do? Thanks all xx
How can you tell the difference between a fake friend and a real friend?
You’ll know a fake friend when things go south for you but they don’t care at all. In high school I had a huge falling out with some friends and they were making fun of me in the hall. Not only did Fake Friend totally pass by us without stopping, but later FF started complaining that the ex-friends were making fun of her too, and she sounded like she was mad at me for it. Like it was my fault. The ex-friends were very hurtful but FF didn’t care about what I was going through, nor did she stick up for me. She only cared about herself. Years later she told our mutual friend that the only reason she hung out with me was because I had a car.Of course, a real friend sticks by you through all of this and goes out of his/her way to help you. Pretty much the opposite of what Fake Friend did.
Why do I have so many fake friends?
Well you are not alone in this world facing such a situation,friend. I have personally experienced the pain of being ignored by the friends i loved dearly and for whom i have sacrificed so much. I bet everything on this world that no one could be a better friend to those two ,than me. Like you, i loved my friends unconditionally. I got into so much of trouble for them and when my parents inquired about it, i would snap back at them,telling that my friends were more important. And though they never treated me back like i saw them, i never did mind a bit because we had been thick from childhood. I got to know of their true identity when we got into college and they got into groups of their own,ignoring me completely. They have even humiliated me a lot(silently though) and i realised that all they wanted from me was to stop bothering them. And so to maintain all the self-dignity i had left, i quit all forms of communication with them and led a life without friends in my class. For almost a year, i felt "orphaned" at college. But then a few people came and talked and now they're not my best friends and they fake friendship most of the time,but at least they saved my from all those loneliness. Among those girls,one person is really good and she is the closest friend i have,for now. I am not ranting about my despair. I am just telling this so that you would feel better,or at least you would know that you are not alone. I do not know you,but i can tell you this.You are a good person and a good friend. Many are fake and you cannot expect friendship from them. Use those who use you and wait for a good friend. Miracles happen and you will find yourself a great friend :) :) good luck!